I can see what you're saying but we need to point out problems like this for new comers and this is something we can ALL relate to as we all have been at this point in our lives at sometime. I think it would be a disservice to SS to leave out certain things and ignore it. Yes the truth hurts and yes you can't solve the problem without first identifying it.
By having a dialogue around it, you identify it. Maybe a newbie reading this may admit it's happening to them and ask for suggestions.
Yes I can be more sensitive to it and approach it from a feminist's tact and approach but I'm not that person.
SS should cover all things we males face whether one person likes it or not. They always have the option to ignore it. No one is holding a gun to their head and say they have to read it. Not covering all aspects IMO would be a disservice to the forum.
Trust me, no newcomer needs to know this as an example. Everyone knows people who do **** like this get treated exactly how people are reacting to this post. If this was your father in this situation, would you feel th esame? That's he's a simp? or that he just is goin after what he can get. Desperation to one man can mean Opportunity for another.
We need to not knock our fellow man. Because fact is, I bet a lot of these dudes who come to forums like this don't even have a single girl in their life. A lot of dudes are desperately trying to find a woman to fulfill their needs. See, you have to know who you are catering to.
The audience isn't anymore a buncha DOn Juan's and players.. infact, it never was. But nowadays, I see it more as people who need help with women , not people who need to be shown bad examples. All that tells them is you have to act a certain way with women, or you're being a "simp" or "loser". Fact is, dudes who don't have any girls already feel like losers and worse than simps.
You and I probably just operate from a different level of conscious awareness. I think it's all ego. It's thinking "im cool, im not desperate " "guys who act like this are not cool, they are losers, they are simps, they are weak". Nah man, in the old days this would be perfectly normal behavior. ****, there's probably dudes who did a lot more "SIMP" behavior in the old days and it was normal.
Don't let Generation Z culture shape your mindset. I mean you're already using their terms. I'm only 29 and I'm surprised how far that word has come from the young crowd in NYC. You're feeding into people on here's egos. The ego is not helping any one on here and we see it clearly by the quality of posts and what people are saying. Many of these dudes severely lack experience with women. What they know about women comes from books and places online, such as this forum. They put on an act, because they're taught to act a certain way with women, and theres a whole realm of negative culture about how women are and how evil women can be that is further enforcing this false ego.
Most importantly, my original reply to this thread wasn't about any other perspective than your own. You need to really look at how you think about other men, and why you choose to focus on such ideas. I think it says alot more about you than anyone else, and that's the bottom line.
