The ultimate 'negs' book (Any NPR listeners here? plz read)

[taosk8r]

So I happened to be listening to 'morning edition' one morning about a year to a year and a half ago and they had a male and a female author talking about a book they had written completely full of 'backhanded compliments' and such that women use on one another.. All of them were highly plausible deniable cutdowns and self-esteem questioning things, and I thought it sounded pretty amusing at the time, but didn't bother to make a mental note of the author names or the title.. Im hoping someone here might know it, because all my efforts to search for it (google, amazon.com, etc) have lead me nowhere.. I know it has a male and female author, and I know that description that I gave, but have found it difficult to come up with 'search terms' to describe it accurately (other than backhanded compliments which didnt turn up much)..

Heeelp, pleeease! These things would likely step up anyone's game in conjunction with the 'MM' style thinking..

 

[Naapimp]

others call them negative hits, or neg hits.

 

[nishbuk]

I'm not really sure of the book you're talking about, but DAMN, that WOULD be quite an asset for my game, (mostly MM mixed with Zan'ish' stuff). But, MM's game doesn't really heavily on negs. As in, you can only use at max, 3-5 negs in any given set. And some of those may be disqualifiers, and not even negs.
Even so, if you find that book, that would be AWESOME!

 

[flippinfreak]

nice! Indirect aggression

I'm ordering the book right now

Naapimp, learn to read, the TOPIC says 'neg' hits