The two(or more) types of men and how to switch between them

[Dr.Suave]

My question is;
What are the types we need by default to ensure more succes add how do yall do this?

- the feck boy.

- the boss

- the boyfriend/husband

-the teenager

Ect

- The "Who´s Your Daddy?". Hot girls with Daddy Issues need some love too bro.

 

[Barrister]

When people say you need to have a "IDGAF mindset," this assumes you have the goods to back it up.

Yes, if you just stumbled out of your parents' basement with no job, 40 pounds overweight, no assets, and look like a slob, no woman is going to give two sh1ts whether you have the IDGAF attitude or whether you are as blue pilled as they come. You have to still be attractive to women. Once you are attractive to women, THEN you adopt this attitude. You show just enough interest to let them know you are here for sex, nothing less, and if she won't play, you are happy to move on. But it has to be genuine.

OP - I actually enjoy your threads, but sometimes you seem like you have become a bit black pilled. Nothing is a right in this world. You work your ass off and earn it. But once you've made it, you make your women work for you. Not the other way around.

 

[Gamisch]

When people say you need to have a "IDGAF mindset," this assumes you have the goods to back it up.

Yes, if you just stumbled out of your parents' basement with no job, 40 pounds overweight, no assets, and look like a slob, no woman is going to give two sh1ts whether you have the IDGAF attitude or whether you are as blue pilled as they come. You have to still be attractive to women. Once you are attractive to women, THEN you adopt this attitude. You show just enough interest to let them know you are here for sex, nothing less, and if she won't play, you are happy to move on. But it has to be genuine.

OP - I actually enjoy your threads, but sometimes you seem like you have become a bit black pilled. Nothing is a right in this world. You work your ass off and earn it. But once you've made it, you make your women work for you. Not the other way around.

I'll work on projecting a more positive energy for as much as possible.

Thanks mods by the way!!

 

[Rainman4707]

Recently i met this woman hb6,5/7 through a dating app i went full feck boy, experimenting with a shirtless picture. She matched me had the same ol' dull bs convo and I was like F this. Send my nr and told her to hit me up if she wants to hangout.

No repsonse.oerhaps too much too straight forward?

But 5 days later I get a WhatsApp message. Ahaaa. On WhatsApp same dynamics. She repsonds rather slowly or not at all. So i say, hey if you wanna meet let me know. Again, now she responds she has time one,or two days from now.

She doesn't wants me to talk to her on the app. She picked me out of 100s of suitors, remember. She want me to be straight up.

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apprently there's two types of guys. Regardless of the type you are, tte biggest challenge is two be able to read your opponent (woman/women) and adjust accordingly.

Because some will SAY they prefer type 1 over type . Lets have a looksy at these two types shall we?

1. The good guy. Ya know. Overhere we describe him as bluepilled or beta. He has no harm ,no ill will at first sight. He's willing to set aside lesser qualities in order to sustain a relationship. He wants best for especially her.

2. The bad / not caring type.

He care about himself first. He isn't neccesarily redpill, but he does have enough experience with women to cut bs interactions short. He's straight up in his intentions, even when these are less flattering.


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So , sometimes a man encounters a woman who prefers type 1 ,although he IS type 2. He gets ditched. If this man woukd change his persona (naturally due to getting smashed murk by rejections)ha AGAIN might get ditched because the 2nd woman has "had her fair share of feck boys" or whatever.

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I've made threads like this before. Becauee imo its a great tool to be able to switch ,or lets say adjust characteristics accordingly to the woman you're dwaling with. She likes career focused men? I cn do that. She likes bad boys? I can do that too. She just wants to have sex?cool, no boyfriend energy. 3ct ect

My question is;
What are the types we need by default to ensure more succes add how do yall do this?

- the feck boy.

- the boss

- the boyfriend/husband

-the teenager

Ect

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Point is, if i didn't embraced "acting like another type" I'd miss out on this one.

I don't try to change who i am.

There was a wise old poster on these forums a few years ago. I admired his wisdom, so private messaged him asking for one piece of life advice. He responded 'never change who you are'

 

[Millard Fillmore]

"Just be you bro"

Just be cool bro

Dgaf bro


We all see and know how well this serves the majority of men out there. This is why you get 10/15 % vs the rest. Because the man who studies game and uses it to his benefit, will shoop up all them h0es..

Never for a second think chad OR Tyrone doesn't study game. The men yall envy are the men working (out )the hardest, making most money , studies most game, havjng best style of clothing, smells best whitest teeth ,best cooks ect ect.

I'll keep pushing threads like this!

You're smart to challenge your own thoughts on these topics. I wouldn't worry about the Chad/Tyrone you described though. That's like chicks freaking out over cover girls.

Yes you can change major aspects of yourself. It takes behaving the way you want to behave and your brain will observe and adapt. Maltz said it takes 30 days for something to become habitual. Manifesting can also be effective.

Back when Mystery was pushing peac0cking, people would say that whatever you wear, their has to be concordance between your attitude and your style. If you wear something that doesn't feel natural to you, people will pick up on the disconnect. Same goes for the "hats" you wear personality wise. Back it up with attitude.

This doesn't mean be a phony, just see what works for you. I don't base it on what she wants though - more like on the type of guy I want to be. (I'm still me.)

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Back when Mystery was pushing peac0cking, people would say that whatever you wear, their has to be concordance between your attitude and your style. If you wear something that doesn't feel natural to you, people will pick up on the disconnect. Same goes for the "hats" you wear personality wise. Back it up with attitude.

Dressed up for King's Day 2023

 

[SpartanWarrior77]

I'm so disgusted by westernized women these days that I can't even bother to tailor my approach. My friends like to say "well thats because your game needs to be refined" but I really don't think so. You can refine your game when you still consider it worthwhile but when you don't even enjoy the interaction, it becomes very difficult to roll with the punches haha. I'll be patient and game a worthwhile target all day long but all this work for what...so she could be half banging me and half trying to take control of my playlist/texting her stupid friends/vaping?

 

[SpartanWarrior77]

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Dressed up for King's Day 2023

Kingsday? You're in Amsterdam?? Dude we gotta talk haha, was always curious about that place, I'll PM you

 

[ThisIsSparta]

1. The good guy. Ya know. Overhere we describe him as bluepilled or beta. He has no harm ,no ill will at first sight. He's willing to set aside lesser qualities in order to sustain a relationship. He wants best for especially her.

2. The bad / not caring type.

There have been that two girls each hb 9-9,5 which dumped me after a couple of weeks because i didnt reach out enough/didnt make enough "effort" in their oppinion. I remember these two because they were realy beautiful and a shame to lose.

Would i in retrospect change my behaviour? No..... because it would fvck up my frame in the long run if the woman happens to be around months down the road.

If it was just about a woman thats a sex toy to me, okay, i can play mr. niceguy for one night or untill the 3rd date when shes DTF.

That said, it of course is all about selling yourself to a nice piece of azz. But the best salesmen sell what they got, not what their customers think they want.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Kingsday? You're in Amsterdam?? Dude we gotta talk haha, was always curious about that place, I'll PM you

I'm a Dutch Amsterdammer.

 

[Gamisch]

I'm so disgusted by westernized women these days that I can't even bother to tailor my approach. My friends like to say "well thats because your game needs to be refined" but I really don't think so. You can refine your game when you still consider it worthwhile but when you don't even enjoy the interaction, it becomes very difficult to roll with the punches haha. I'll be patient and game a worthwhile target all day long but all this work for what...so she could be half banging me and half trying to take control of my playlist/texting her stupid friends/vaping?

Regardless of how you feel you must find a way to enjoy doing it.

Funny you specifically mention western women. My homeboy just got married to a woman he doesn't know and "due to culture " he believes it will work...


Crazy. Imo a woman = A woman, regardless of her culture. Especially in combination with a bluepilled man.

 

[Gamisch]

This guy here is willing to put his sexual desire and needs aside for the woman playing peek a boo with him and access to her.
This is not the healthy nor is the way. This will screw you almost everytime.

Im not implying to not hzve relationship skills but lets be honest here this is ALL about sex.
You want to be fck boy far more then being the doormat chore boy do whatever the hell she says guy.
These are usually 28-35 yr old women.
But not always. 40+ are a different phase as well. Slme are 2nd hoe phase and some just want comfort. These 2 archtypes you describe has an age factor involved.
My fck boy is almost always on. Within taste of environment and social context of course.

I my post befor this one i described my bluepilled homeboy who'll get married for yhe second time. The way its set up definitely categorizes him as the first , bluepilled version .

Its basically a "fingers crossed " situation AGAIN. No study of game, no frame nothing. Still he feels like his dream is coming to reality.

Meanwhile we keep talking about genuine desire ect .

 

[Gamisch]

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I'm a Dutch Amsterdammer.

I geuss you support Feyenoord to the deeath of you?

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

I guess you support Feyenoord?

Feyenoord is Rotterdam. Amsterdam is Ajax. I support neither, not into sports.

 

[Gamisch]

There have been that two girls each hb 9-9,5 which dumped me after a couple of weeks because i didnt reach out enough/didnt make enough "effort" in their oppinion. I remember these two because they were realy beautiful and a shame to lose.

Would i in retrospect change my behaviour? No..... because it would fvck up my frame in the long run if the woman happens to be around months down the road.

If it was just about a woman thats a sex toy to me, okay, i can play mr. niceguy for one night or untill the 3rd date when shes DTF.

That said, it of course is all about selling yourself to a nice piece of azz. But the best salesmen sell what they got, not what their customers think they want.

Oke but ...why you would NOT try to keep them around?

I get that the better you are at being you, the easier it is to maintain attraction from and with certain women. Still I geuss (like the sales analogy) you have to make minor subtle adjustments at time.

Funny thing: the woman I described in my OP responds to commands very well. E.g " I see on Friday " . Oke. She makes time to see me and is there. Despite this she's not as enthusiastic during conversations as other women I am messing with now. Really interesting to see. Phat azz blonde hottie. Normally I'd giving up in such a woman. Due to studying game I (kinda) understand that its aint over just because she isn't the most talkative person I've ever met. I can say see you on friday on a monday, hear nothing all week and on Thursday she asks me what time and where ect.

The arrogant side of me is like" whatever bish, go look for a better deal". I am feeling like the KING these days ( when I am feeling good that is..).

Its like I am a chick magnet when I'm feeling good. I attract all kinds of women these days my brothers, and they treat ME like how we as men would treat hot women... Crazy how this works..

 

[Dr.Suave]

I my post befor this one i described my bluepilled homeboy who'll get married for yhe second time. Still he feels like his dream is coming to reality.

He is getting married again? That´s like the King of Blue-pill city. And what is this dream of his exactly? Marrying twice? Yeah, nice dream.

 

[Gamisch]

Yes thats not a good sounding for your buddy.
Even just a little bit of this stuff can go a long way. Good luck to him though

He says its cultural. Oke. I say a woman =a woman. He's bout to passport bro her to Europe ( from Africa) and she doesn't speak the language . She is also much younger.

I know ,i know. Some of yall would sign up for this yesterday rather than today.

Yet I...dont know man. He already starts to avoid me like he found his damn soulmate. He doesn't know the bish!!

His first wife took him to the cleaners, still friends with her..now this shyte.

If he AT LEAST would study up on game I might be more positive..now he just waits for a disaster to happen.

He is getting married again? That´s like the King of Blue-pill city. And what is this dream of his exactly? Marrying twice? Yeah, nice dream.

Yup. Again..first one was at least somewhat realistic. Same age, born in Europe. Still a HUGE bish tho amd she always oggles me but I'd NEVER hit that..

This new one is 15 years his junior and from a 3rd world shytehole. Already demanding the "brides treasure"( couple thousand euros).

Why the feck do we men need that pain so bad? It has disaster written all over it

 

[Dr.Suave]

Yup. Again..first one was at least somewhat realistic. Same age, born in Europe. Still a HUGE bish tho

This new one is 15 years his junior and from a 3rd world shytehole. Already demanding the "brides treasure"( couple thousand euros).

Why the feck do we men need that pain so bad? It has disaster written all over it

 

[SpartanWarrior77]

Regardless of how you feel you must find a way to enjoy doing it.

Funny you specifically mention western women. My homeboy just got married to a woman he doesn't know and "due to culture " he believes it will work...


Crazy. Imo a woman = A woman, regardless of her culture. Especially in combination with a bluepilled man.

I tried. The only way I can enjoy western women is if I'm on molly. I think I lost the endorphins necessary to enjoy western women. I dont have any dopamine, nothing lights up in their presence. For me its like trying to bang a sack of onions. My wee just don't get excited unless I'm drunk and shes like a fun five that won't annoy me.