Lifeforce,
Thanks a lot for a really good post!
Being a young man in todays society is very hard if you do not by default belong to the "top tier" referred to earlier in this thread.
I know, because I'm one of these men who contantly got turned down until I reached my twenties.
In my age, 35, it's a lot easier for me to "get" women. By this age their values have changed and they are now looking for a more intimate, loving relationship and many of them value men on an entirely different scale.
However, being a man who spent much of my youth being rejected, I have now developed much resent and disdain for women.
I have met some very nice women in the last few years and to begin with the relationships started out pretty well....until I found out about their sexual histories. Yuck!
:woo:
These women had a pretty wild life in the past. They were attractive and were able to live life the way I wasn't able to coz women then didnt find me attractive.
NOW they were interested in me as long-term material but I couldnt help myself from feeling that I ended up with used up, worthless *****s, and so I did my part in ruining these relationships.
Truth is, I'm beginning to discover that I was a looser in my younger years, but this behavior is also starting to make me a looser in my middle years too.
I'm with a woman now, older then me, who loves me to pieces, but I can't be happy for what I've got coz she was much more beautiful in her younger days and f*cked a lot of top tier men those days.
To sum it up: Being bitter towards women will only make me loose twice.
/SDJ