Like other people have said, when I learned all of these truths about women, I didn't really want to believe it because of all the bullsh*t fairy tales that I had subconsciously absorbed over the years.
This knowledge has helped me to view my experiences both good and bad in the right way.
When I was young, I was a natural DJ.
I had girls doing all kinds of nasty stuff long before I even knew anything about using game or whatever.
At some point in my late teens, all the years of brainwashing by society, your family, TV, movies, girls, etc. started catching up to me.
I began to believe in the great "true love" fantasy and thinking that I needed a steady relationship with a "great girl".
I had always had short term, very fun relationships with girls up to that time.
Anyway, suffice it to say, after that I began to exhibit some AFCism but fortunately for me never completely.
I would always revert back to my natural DJism but usually only at certain times or for a while and then as soon as I thought I'd found a girl who could possibly be "the one", the AFC sh*t would start up again.
Then I'd get hurt and my natural DJism would come out again and the cycle would continue.
This is the reason why I came to this site.
This site, along with some other things has helped me to put away the fairy tales and become the consistent DJ I that I was born to be.
Let me tell you, you can be the best DJ in the world, you have the best game in the world, but consistency is the key and consistency is the hard part.
Anybody can learn how to mack chicks or learn how to kick some game and get some azz, but staying on top of your game and not letting your game start leaking, that is the truly hard part.
Alot of guys start out strong with a chick and they're doing things right, then they think they "have her" and they "fall in love" and start f*cking up.
I admit, there are times when I see the old fairy tale sh*t start creeping up in my thoughts, but all I have to do is remember everything I've learned and I get my mind back on point.
Alot of guys have been told the truth, they've seen the truth all around them, most have experienced the truth, yet they either don't comprehend or don't want to comprehend because they like their fantasies better.
It's amazing how many things in life you eventually find out is bullsh*t.
I've changed my beliefs over the years concerning alot of things like politics, religion, women, etc.
I just enjoy women now for what enjoyment I can have with them.
I just enjoy the time spent with them and a girl will get my full attention, some good sex, fun times, etc. while I'm with her but the key words are, "WHILE I'M WITH HER".
If I'm chillin with another girl the following weekend, she gets the same good time as the one before her.