Hey guys,
been dating a girl for maybe 2 years with some breaks. I dated und f*cked other chicks meanwhile but i always wanted to get with here. She is emotionally not very stable (even more than most women) and I learned a lot how to deal with those Drama Queens (the best way is to avoid this type of women entirely). She always told me she had a bad relationship and she wasnt ready for a new one. In the end all i got was some oral sex and the try of LJBF. But i told here I am not interested in that and we became something like... Makeoutfriends? what a waste of time in the end
It ended in June when she told me she is ready for a relationship but not with me. To be honest i wasnt surprised because i got tired of her anyway. When you spend more time with a drama queen you learn not to take them serious and in the end you lose respect for them. But never the less it made my ego go a bit angry, I mean it was damn inpolite.
Nevertheless I got rid of her. Never called her or anything. Some 2 weeks ago she sms me with "hey how are you? I invite you to some coffee". I could only shake my head in disbelief. Who could a beautiful and smart (doing her Dr.) be so emotionaly stupid? When some boundaris are crossed there is no turning back. She offers me coffee 2 or 3 times, and i always tell her I am busy. I thought she would get it.
Now today she calls me. Some fluff talk and tells me she had a relationship and ended that. But she is not sure wheter to talk about this with me. I tell here not to because it does not interest me at all and she'd better talk to a girlfriend of her bout that. And she still tells me she wants to see me. I really couldnt believe what i was hearing. So I told her I am buys and will call here when/if i got some time. And she tells me it fits her best at the weekend....
I was totally amazed how someone could be so stupid and disrespectful. Or maybe it was just her immense ego that told her I would play her emotional tampon?! I really dont know.
Hehe guys, women are totally crazy. You cant take them serious. The older I get the clearer it becomes that respect is the most important thing in a relationship with a girl and in all others.
Just my 2 cents
been dating a girl for maybe 2 years with some breaks. I dated und f*cked other chicks meanwhile but i always wanted to get with here. She is emotionally not very stable (even more than most women) and I learned a lot how to deal with those Drama Queens (the best way is to avoid this type of women entirely). She always told me she had a bad relationship and she wasnt ready for a new one. In the end all i got was some oral sex and the try of LJBF. But i told here I am not interested in that and we became something like... Makeoutfriends? what a waste of time in the end
It ended in June when she told me she is ready for a relationship but not with me. To be honest i wasnt surprised because i got tired of her anyway. When you spend more time with a drama queen you learn not to take them serious and in the end you lose respect for them. But never the less it made my ego go a bit angry, I mean it was damn inpolite.
Nevertheless I got rid of her. Never called her or anything. Some 2 weeks ago she sms me with "hey how are you? I invite you to some coffee". I could only shake my head in disbelief. Who could a beautiful and smart (doing her Dr.) be so emotionaly stupid? When some boundaris are crossed there is no turning back. She offers me coffee 2 or 3 times, and i always tell her I am busy. I thought she would get it.
Now today she calls me. Some fluff talk and tells me she had a relationship and ended that. But she is not sure wheter to talk about this with me. I tell here not to because it does not interest me at all and she'd better talk to a girlfriend of her bout that. And she still tells me she wants to see me. I really couldnt believe what i was hearing. So I told her I am buys and will call here when/if i got some time. And she tells me it fits her best at the weekend....
I was totally amazed how someone could be so stupid and disrespectful. Or maybe it was just her immense ego that told her I would play her emotional tampon?! I really dont know.
Hehe guys, women are totally crazy. You cant take them serious. The older I get the clearer it becomes that respect is the most important thing in a relationship with a girl and in all others.
Just my 2 cents