The truth about women - what I have learned (today)

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Hey guys,
been dating a girl for maybe 2 years with some breaks. I dated und f*cked other chicks meanwhile but i always wanted to get with here. She is emotionally not very stable (even more than most women) and I learned a lot how to deal with those Drama Queens (the best way is to avoid this type of women entirely). She always told me she had a bad relationship and she wasnt ready for a new one. In the end all i got was some oral sex and the try of LJBF. But i told here I am not interested in that and we became something like... Makeoutfriends? what a waste of time in the end ;)

It ended in June when she told me she is ready for a relationship but not with me. To be honest i wasnt surprised because i got tired of her anyway. When you spend more time with a drama queen you learn not to take them serious and in the end you lose respect for them. But never the less it made my ego go a bit angry, I mean it was damn inpolite.

Nevertheless I got rid of her. Never called her or anything. Some 2 weeks ago she sms me with "hey how are you? I invite you to some coffee". I could only shake my head in disbelief. Who could a beautiful and smart (doing her Dr.) be so emotionaly stupid? When some boundaris are crossed there is no turning back. She offers me coffee 2 or 3 times, and i always tell her I am busy. I thought she would get it.

Now today she calls me. Some fluff talk and tells me she had a relationship and ended that. But she is not sure wheter to talk about this with me. I tell here not to because it does not interest me at all and she'd better talk to a girlfriend of her bout that. And she still tells me she wants to see me. I really couldnt believe what i was hearing. So I told her I am buys and will call here when/if i got some time. And she tells me it fits her best at the weekend....

I was totally amazed how someone could be so stupid and disrespectful. Or maybe it was just her immense ego that told her I would play her emotional tampon?! I really dont know.

Hehe guys, women are totally crazy. You cant take them serious. The older I get the clearer it becomes that respect is the most important thing in a relationship with a girl and in all others.

Just my 2 cents
 

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I learned a lot how to deal with those Drama Queens (the best way is to avoid this type of women entirely).


Me too, but I say the best way is to use them for sex, then toss them aside afterward...unless it is for more sex. Pretend to be her friend, get her alone, and then fvck her. Drama queens crave attention. Make it clear that sex is the only attention that you will give her by pulling away and cutting her off if you get anything other than all the sex you want. A lot of these girls have abandonment issues and the freeze-out is a powerful button. However, because many of them also have a history of giving away too much sex, they do develop strong ASD skills. The freeze-out is a good way to get around that ASD.
 

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It aint worth it. At least not with her. I always told here I am not her friend, and if that is all she wants she is free to leave. And i never got my d*ck in here, only my fingers... And I know how to work a woman.
But in the end i am not angry bout the waste of time, I am merely surprised by this total lack of respect she is showing. And like most women she isnt even aware of that and thinks she is doing right. If most men act like puppies they think we are all that way
 

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Sigh* I'm pretty sure I just got landed in the friend zone. Knew this girl was attracted to me at first so I knew I'd get her number, made out a few times, no shags though.
I'll think I'll just freeze her out make sure she gets the message. It's not such a big loss to me she's just left overs from when I needed to approach for the sake of getting over anxiety.
I'm pretty sure the way to get out of the friend zone is jealousy so I'll try and **** one of her mates.
 

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i wish more guys would realise this. some posters on here have been saying that these days.me being one.you being the second .
experince is the best teacher..you know where i lernt that women are crzy?..my own mum..i loved her but she was..the number one stress..in my life for a period of time..from ages 19..to..23, i cant explain..we'll just live it at that.

i saw the same things my mom used to do and moan about i saw them im women i dated with issue's,women who thoguht they were smart but they wernt ..women who would pick the smallest arguments for no reason.i saw all this in most women..i nealry had a stroke one time first arguing with my mom and then with a girl i dated i had a high blood pressure ..my doctor told me get ,,outta there and be alon for a while..and be smart b4 choosing a woman for a long term relationship.
most women are crazy..not all...but most..iv meet one great girl in my life..and she was a nerd..into computer games..we were like mates..i wasnt attracted at that time because i saw her as a 6.5 only.this site blinded me.my ego wouldnt let me be with her..now im wiser.
 

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Mace said:
It aint worth it. At least not with her. I always told here I am not her friend, and if that is all she wants she is free to leave. And i never got my d*ck in here, only my fingers... And I know how to work a woman.
But in the end i am not angry bout the waste of time, I am merely surprised by this total lack of respect she is showing. And like most women she isnt even aware of that and thinks she is doing right. If most men act like puppies they think we are all that way

Is she not hot? She was at least worth some effort the first time. And I don't see how her treating you with disrespect is a big deal if you treat her with even less respect. That's probably what she subconsciously wants anyway.

fwiw, it seems that you have a strict idea of how a woman is supposed to act, which sounds fine in theory, but with women you are bound to be disappointed a lot. After a lot of letdowns, I have found myself to be happier when I just expect nothing from a girl, get what I want and as much of it as quickly as possible, and then leave as soon as I stop getting what I want. That's just fwiw - good luck.
 

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you with disrespect is a big deal if you treat her with even less respect
That is not the type of relationship for me any more. Maybe its the age hehe

P.S. I think it is kind of having certain standarts (i dont want to say you have none) It is just I am getting picky even concerning ONS. I think the older we get the better we deserve ;)
 

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All pretty Girls have tons of options. But I am a man you MORON! ;) Sorry, couldnt resist
Btw she is 28
 
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