the truth about getting women

[The Spider]

Heres the truth: You eithier got it or you dont. If you arent getting a lot of women by age 17 or 18, its never gonna get better, no matter what. Its a sad thing but its the truth trust me.

 

[Scion]

Heres the truth: You eithier got it or you dont. If you arent getting a lot of women by age 17 or 18, its never gonna get better, no matter what. Its a sad thing but its the truth trust me.

well I don't really believe the idea that if you aren't good with women by 17-18 you won't improve. But usually there is something about guys that don't get women that will always keep them at the bottom.

 

[The Spider]

well I don't really believe the idea that if you aren't good with women by 17-18 you won't improve. But usually there is something about guys that don't get women that will always keep them at the bottom.

You know, theres a lot of truth to that, maybe im saying a little young. no question though if not by 22 then there really is no hope and thats a stone cold fact.

 

[Schwank]

Up until the age of 19 I never had any female friends, held hands with a girls, and, needless to say, was virgin. I'm 26 years old now. Over the past 7 years I've had several one-night stands and a few girlfriends. So one really can make a comeback after a dismal start. You're future life successes aren't predicated upon earlier life failures.

 

[Lexington]

And it's precisely this kind of defeatist attitude that is preventing a lot of guys from having success with women. Hell, it's preventing guys from having success in a lot of areas in their lives. If you've already concluded that you can't succeed, you won't.

Do you honestly believe that it's impossible to learn new things and to change the person you are after the age of 17-18 or 22? If you do, I feel very sorry for you because you must have a very pessimistic outlook on life.

I was absolutely pathetic with the ladies. Until I was 22, I didn't even have female friends. The only female friends I hung out with were my friends' girlfriends. It was a rare thing for me to have a conversation with a girl and it was a big deal.

I turned 25 recently, and no I'm not fvcking like a rock star. But I do regularly get pvssy these days. I'm still not where I want to be...not by a long shot. But I am WAY WAY better than where I was before.

And there were times when I felt hopeless. I looked around and a lot of guys having success with the ladies. I thought "what the fvck is wrong with me!?" I have made every single AFC mistake. I suffered through a bout of severe oneitis.

But all these things made me stronger and made me a better person. Nothing in life that is worthwhile comes without struggle. I agree that if you're 22, and you suck with women, it's not going to be easy to improve yourself. But it can happen if you put in the effort.

 

[ChalengeGuyFan]

Read my sig.

 

[Nino-Tk]

It is never too late

 

[Warrior74]

I was a virgin at 19. And then was in double digits by 21.

http://www.faceofthecookie.com/wp-c...535f3baf1f75bb83e66cd106a0dfb9121fd8455_m.jpg

 

[zekko]

If you think about people who are highly skilled in a certain area, like music or athletics, they tend to start at a young age. Like Tiger Woods and golf, for instance. When you're younger your whole body and mind is built to develop, so getting an early start is a huge advantage. So I can see a point to the OP's post.

But I don't agree that it can't get any better, especially if you draw the line at 18. A lot of guys don't hit their prime until later (remember girls mature earlier). And you can always improve at something, even if you don't reach rock star levels. But yeah, I imagine getting an early start is a big advantage.

 

[PappyS]

This just isn't true. There are countless testimonials of men who will talk about how they never had any success with women until they were older. If any young men are on this site, don't buy this crap. As a general rule men start out have poor skills with women and improve as they get older provided they have experience with different women.

 

[The Decay of Meaning]

This is just a stupid claim. I was virgin until I was 18, almost 19, and now I am 21, soon to be 22, and I have been a couple of dozen girls, and the past 4 months has been like half of them.

So no, what the thread starter says is not true.

 

[thecurtainfalls]

Why do morons who have no fvcking clue what they're talking about start advice threads or threads like "the truth about ____"?

Go crawl back in your cave, 'tard.

 

[teacha]

Thread Fail.

 

[starplayer]

Please don't feed the troll.

 

[omega05]

i don't believe this

 

[Jhcl4000]

Please delete this thread, newbies will actually come to this forum, read this bullsh!t, and believe it.

 

[rakishness]

Not so

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U6EzBB94aFc&feature=related

Some words of wisdom.

 

[DonGorgon]

Heres the truth: You eithier got it or you dont. If you arent getting a lot of women by age 17 or 18, its never gonna get better, no matter what. Its a sad thing but its the truth trust me.

False!

things can change for the better or for worse...

you can make changes or you can get lucky and have thing change around you

 

[Lexington]

If you think about people who are highly skilled in a certain area, like music or athletics, they tend to start at a young age. Like Tiger Woods and golf, for instance. When you're younger your whole body and mind is built to develop, so getting an early start is a huge advantage. So I can see a point to the OP's post.

But I don't agree that it can't get any better, especially if you draw the line at 18. A lot of guys don't hit their prime until later (remember girls mature earlier). And you can always improve at something, even if you don't reach rock star levels. But yeah, I imagine getting an early start is a big advantage.

Agreed. If you want to be the best in the world at something, you probably should start out at an early age. If you pick up the violin at the age of 22, you're not going to be as good as someone who's been playing since the age of 4.

But you don't have to phenomenal to be successful with women. In fact just a few improvements can dramatically improve your success with the ladies.

 

[BigJimbo]

Lets not forget that this is for Americans only. 95% of you are and will forever be stuck in America! So, yes it is over for you after 19. Unless you want single mothers and 30 plus year old women. America is the land of homosexuals and 35 year old women who pretend they are still sexy! The rest of us got up and left. Keep the party going guys!