Yep, the guys on here dont hear me though lol, they like chasing women, its clearly what there comfortable doing lol
THE TRUTH ABOUT ATTRACTION.
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What exactly do you mean by chase though? If the woman is physically attractive (the common conception of attraction) then she probably doesn’t even know how? Occasionally a woman will make a move, but it’s usually covert.
What women do is make it easier for you, however just because she isn’t, doesn’t mean you can’t fück her.
Imagine a 'beta male' doing his prototypical beta approaches ie , needy, touchy, giving gifts, invitational, asks for permission, etc. Now flip that image unto a girl and you'll get 'chasing.'
Attractive women know how to chase, or rather, because there's no real 'know-how' that they beta chase similar to my example.
EDIT: For the people drilling the steps beyond initial attraction being important point, here's some unsurprising news: attractive men dont really give a **** because if they "mess up" they know another girl is right around the corner. At least, this is for the guys that actually go out and realize their value eventually. Also, these guys are less likely to mess up anyhow since they're chill knowing their worth and just go along with the girl driving the interaction.
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Almost forgot: and SHE will say YES to the date, and SHE will feel (YES!) to the escalation and the kiss, and will feel (Oooohooo!!!) when you take her to a more "reserved" place.
And if some girl play "hard", that will be no problem, the game is cool to play (you come and go... just don't give too much attention when things are not going your way), and, besides, you have your plates to spin.
This guy gets it.....
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in the stages of meeting most women, it is like a cat...
you can call it, try to attract it, try to engage it... one time *any more is over stimulating and it walks away*, if it does not respond... sit down, go about your business
and you will notice... she appears from nowhere, purring and rubbing your leg.
in the stages of meeting most women, it is like a cat...
you can call it, try to attract it, try to engage it... one time *any more is over stimulating and it walks away*, if it does not respond... sit down, go about your business
and you will notice... she appears from nowhere, purring and rubbing your leg.
What i mean is, calling/texting 24/7 trying to set up dates, send good morning text, sweet talk her, act extra nice, ask her out numerous times ect remember shes not attracted to you already so you have to work on her for some time to build the attraction, she has the upper hand because she doesnt like you, you like her lol.
Or you can have the girl asking you to hang out, you can have the girl calling and texting you 24/7, instead of trying to **** her shes trying to **** you ect thats all im saying, most of the guys on the thread have never experienced this which is why there disagreeing with me.
Im not saying every single girl will chase, im not saying you will never have to work on a girl, but im saying if you become naturally attractive alotta women will flock to you, again, the guys who think women wont flock to you without you trying are the ones who have never been able to pull it off, its not there reality.
Im talking about walking in a room and all the women eyes are on you, im talking about women touching you, eye ****ing you, starting conversations with you, initiating contact with you, im talking about women spoon feeding you the ***** lol of course looks play a huge role but i have homeboys who pull this off and there not good looking.
I have female friends who have told me they already know if there attrscted to a guy just based on how he carries himself and they tell me that if theres no instant attraction they just enjoy the attention from the guy put dont actually like him. I dont know what world these guys live in but what good is game and social skills when you cant even get your foot in the door? How are you going to get the chance to show her how good your "game" is if she rejects you from the get go? If that was the case then there wouldnt be sites like this(theres average looking guys with game on here) and all the "ugly" or "average" looking men with game would be getting laid left and right.
Yes. Doc Love's Women are like cats, men are like dogs (in the form of communication). women are covert and men are overt.
The woman, just like the cat, is going to do what she wants to do when she wants to do it
Worth noting that Corey Wayne the Doc Love clone lifted this from doc love and put it directly in his book
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Apart from immature girls, girls who have some of their **** together won't usually do this.
Ideally, you both want to put very little commitment into the relationship at the beginning. I can't speak for anyone here, but when I hear guys talk about setting up dates what their doing is setting up days when they expect to spend hours with a girl. This is a big error on their part, as it puts pressure on the girl and they get the impression you’re courting them.
Initially I don't plan dates, I do my own thing and invite them over for at least half an hour. If the vibe is good then it's natural we stay longer etc, but I don't really do anything physically sexual...until later.
I wouldn't put too much stock into this, attraction is an unconscious process and doesn't work on just sight alone...this just sounds like rationalisation.