Women are genetically incapable of unconditional love in romantic situations. They can not love us the way we want to be loved. Because thousands of years of evolution made it necessary for their survival to instinctively seak out mates that are better and who service their needs. Again this was necessary for their survival thousands of years ago. They HAD to have backups and orbiters, because they never knew from one day to the next if thier mate was going to get killed in a hunt. A women without a man to protect her was DEAD, along with her children. Modern human history spans back 100,000 years, we've only had civilization for the last 8,000 years, and what we might call modern civilization for the last 500. It is as unrealistic to expect women to behave differently as it might be to expect a fish to pop out of the water and start breathing air.
This realization is the heart and soul of being a DJ.
Women expect that you want sex from them... if you fail to act like you want to fvck them, then they have no other choice then to catogorize you as a friend so that they can screen you out freeing thier minds to scan for men that do. Sex is their tool, and if they think that sex won't work on you, they feel powerless. After this... they are looking for men that fit THEIR needs... it could be anything really, more sex, money, status, security, etc... it all depends on the woman,and it is a function of their upbringing and attitude.
To be successful with women, you have to first pursue them sexually. Then find out what they want, and as long as you are willing to give them what they want, you are free to fvck them. Sure, they love you, but NOT in the way men feel love. It is MUCH easier for a woman to move on from a relationship because they are driven by emotion rather than reason.
The funny thing is that modern men, by and large, are the ones that REALLY are hopeless romantics (unconditional love and all that BS), not women. Women are MUCH more pragmatic in thier relationships than men are. Sure there are exceptions, and these are women who are giving with great attitudes, but they are rare, and becoming more rare as we propel ourselves forward in this ever increasing selfish culture. You find one, cling to her like grim death. The best way to do that is to continue to monitor her attraction level to you and under no circumstances become complacent and lazy... keep delivering what she wants like she is a drug addict and you are a pusher. Because I don't care how great the woman is that you think you have, at some level she will drop you like a hot potatoe if another human being with a penis comes along that is better.... Just be the better penis and her best option and you'll be fine. But that takes work.
