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The top 8 ways to pick up beautiful, high quality-rushed women in Malls!

maaximumseduction

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Alright guys, the first thing you must remember is that women typically
are in any one of these two modes at any given moment in time. Emotional and logical.


In a nightclub, a woman is more likely to be in "emotional mode" or SEDUCTIVE MODE. In other words, more open to conversation, interaction and even kinetic friction if you know what I mean.


Think about it.


She has just spent the day "dolling" herself up by:

Getting her hair done
Make up
Nails


With all of these factors in place, how can she not feel sexy and seductive?


Now on top of this, once a woman enters a social venue such as a nightclub or lounge her emotions are further engaged by the lights, camera and action of the environment

Overall.....she is feeling like Alice in Wonderland and is very open to meeting and greeting, flirting, seducing and being seduced.



Therefore, in this environment, it is okay for us to go up to her and be rather forth coming about our interest in her


Furthermore, I know that you have probably heard many women say that they "doll" themselves up like this for themselves but there is a little flaw in this argument. See it maybe true that a woman gets all made up for herself also, but one of the main reasons a woman will do up herself is to rival the competition for the "Sexiest and prettiest woman" in the club title- not only from other men but from women also. Now because she is there for value-validation from both women and MEN especially, she is much more open to
the idea of men coming up to her and flirting with her and hitting on her as this adds to her value.


Once again....in this sort of atmosphere we can walk right up to a beautiful woman and start flirting with her and making our intentions known as she is more susceptible to our charm, when her emotions are her main guide over her logic.


However, during the day a woman is in what I call "Logic mode". She is thinking business-like and rationally about her actions. This is especially true when a woman enters a mall. In fact here is what a woman is thinking when she enters a shopping center.


"Okay first I've got to pay my cell phone bill, then I think I will check out the new skirt collection at XYZ, maybe get my nails done at ABC, grab a quick cuppa java at the Starbucks and get out of here"


The last thing on her mind or as part of her intent is to find a guy or meet one.


This is why if you go up to a woman and state your intent to her or your interest in her as many men do, you will get blown out. Once again, a woman's logical state creates this knee-jerk automatic reflex.


Now does this mean that we can't open a woman or walk up to a woman and convey our interest in her? Absolutely not, but if you are to do that, then you must make sure that she is:

1) Not too busy or in a rush
2) Has an equal level of social value to you or less
3) Is by herself.


In this case, you can walk up to a woman as I have 1000's of times and say something like


"Hey ......( You will get her attention)pause....good I am glad I got your attention...I couldn't help it but notice you and I just wanted to come by and say hi....I don't like to hold back or make excuses for my desires" hehe!!!!


You can extend this a bit and challenge her by saying ....

so anyways just wanted to see if you had an interesting personality to match that pretty face"

This sort of approach will really stand out to a woman and interest her because:


1) Of the fact that you approached her with such animalistic honesty.
2) It will subtly convey to her that you are alpha due to your self-confidence


As a result ...she will be more likely to stop, be interested and want to interact with you.

Now what if a woman is superhot, super-high quality=and to top it off -in a rush?


Well based on my massive Live in field experience, the best way to stop such a woman "dead in her tracks is to go under her "pick up radar" and be very neutral with your intent and extremely funny, playful and a bit ****y.


I have compiled 10 of the most powerful and effective openers that work in malls like an atomic bomb. Deliver them with the right alpha body language, playfulness, vocal projection, facial expressions and vocal tonality and you will stop 100% of the women dead in their tracks. So what are we waiting for here they are.


THE TOP TEN WAYS TO STOP BEAUTIFUL, HIGH QUALITY WOMEN DEAD IN THEIR TRACKS, EVEN WHEN THEY ARE IN A RUSH INSIDE OF A SHOPPING CENTER.

1. You can ask a woman for her opinion about something,


Women love to offer their advice, opinion and help-It is a natural female personality trait. Specifically women love to give their opinions on relationships and fashion. Well guess what? we can use this to open them.

So next time you are at a mall and you spot a beautiful woman coming your way, you can say to her


"Hey...I gotta go in a second, but I need a quick female opinion if you don't mind" Most women will not mind at all.

Then what I usually say is:

"What color shirt do you think works with a white jacket/blazer---pink or blue?"

Now after a woman gives you her answer, you can jokingly tell her---that her answer conveys certain things about her personality....and that you wish she had more time..because you would love to tell her. Notice what I am doing here.

I am telling her that I understand she is in a rush. ie. I am pacing her reality
yet hooking her curiosity about what her color choice conveys about her personality.


At this point I will tell her what it means and then seguay into other conversational threads to further interest her, attract her and set up a date with her.


2 If a woman is behind you, you can abruptly turn around and say with a sly, playful smile

"Look you gotta stop following me okay...that is not the way to initiate a friendship with me"


She will start to smile and laugh. You can then say..."It's okay I will forgive you this time...anyways .....what's your name?"


3. You can walk up to a woman and say :


"Okay I must ask you....how often do you get hit on? ...do you think that you deserve so much attention from men simply because of your looks or physicality?"


2ND PART....

"I am asking this because I don't get how other guys can just give it away to you like that. See, unlike them I don't really like to give undeserved attention to a woman simply because she won the lottery in the gene pool. I mean it was something God gave you. You never worked for it. Now a personality is something that you have to work on to cultivate right?...so I just wanted to see if you truly deserve all this attention?

Now as harsh and abrupt as it may sound, believe it or not
if said with a playful, laid back, very friendly sort of vibe will convey many excellent things about you.

1. You are experienced with women as you are not phased with looks or beauty solely
2. You have standards




4 You can start to walk along side a woman and make it seem as if she is trying to match her pace with yours and say to her :

"You know...what your doing right now is mirroring me....Do you know what that is?"

Some women will say yes but most often they will say no. You can then explain to them that it is the act of matching someones non-verbal communication or body movements to create a sense of rapport.

You can then jokingly say...."see we are now building rapport....isn't that a beautiful thing...."



5. If you spot a woman who was just approached by another guy...you can say.."so how shall we rate his performance on a scale of 1-10?"

. If she says poorly....you can say..I agree. I mean, .all he had to do was to say "Hi.....I am Maax and you are"......

She will get the joke and be taken by your confidence and directness. As a result she will respond very well and be interested in chatting with you.


6. Just go up to a woman and say "I can't believe how shy and socially awkward people act in this city"...haven't you noticed that? I mean talk to people, build relationships....what is facebook for right?


Anyways you're not socially inept or shy are you? Do you like to meet new people and expand your horizons?

Now you throw out a challenge like this and what woman in her right mind will say "No I am a dumb, social retard".

She will most likely say yes, based on the smart way you challenged her ...you can then say...."Well go ahead and introduce yourself to me brattypants.....wait for her intro....then you can say "good. I am maax" and continue the conversation.

7. You can go to the cologne or perfume desk at a department store, pick out two cologne samples then go out into the mall, stop women and ask them to sniff or smell each sample and give you their opinion on which one smells better. What you are also doing is engaging a woman's senses(her olfactory sense) while she is talking to you. You are essentially giving her pleasure through smell and she will associate that nice scent and feeling to you. As a result, she will be more open to talk to you.

8. If you are at a bookstore....You can ask women..."What book "Twilight" or "Shopaholic" they would buy for a younger sibling. You can then take their answer and seguay into some other conversational thread to launch the attraction process. Remember, once again that women love to give their opinions and advice.




So there you go gentlemen. These are just some of the ways that you can approach a woman in the mall. Notice that with all of these approaches there is a universal theme of humour, confidence, subtle-****iness, intrigue and giving a challenge- something so against the grain of what a woman is traditionally used to. As a result...you will have tremendous success in stopping the most beautiful, highest quality of women dead in their tracks to talk to you.



McMaax
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Nutz

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Allow me to summarize:

Use situational and/or opinion openers.

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Hughman

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Heard it all before, but hey, some stuff needs to be repeated.

One weakness from what I've read in this - the 'responses' you give when talking to women are too 'eager', like it's made your day she's paying attention to you and she's doing you a favour.

The mentality I hold now, and it is finally bringing in some results, at least the recognition I want to have, is I am doing them the favour by giving them an opportunity to talk to me. And what I am doing is something I do all the time, and really don't give a stuff how it turns out.
 
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