The Thrill is Gone

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Street_Fighter said:
you sure do talk alot for a mysterious fellow lol :D




she sounds like a keeper,more mature then most girls,got it going for her in many forms. I say go for it, just remember to keep the ball(s) in your court ;)
lol, i'm not trying to FVCK any of you guys
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Ok, you said that she knows you have options, but then again man, just how wide ARE your options? Sure you can find someone to go out and ****, but do you have a lot of options as far as finding a girl that you dig as much as her? I mean if she walked away tonight, what's the likelyhood that tomorrow, you'll find a girl that you like enough to want to stop f*cking other girls?
 

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would any of these girls be there when you are in the hospital bed sick and ill on the brink of death?

if not then I'd reconsider your options. :D
 

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Ok, you said that she knows you have options, but then again man, just how wide ARE your options
pretty fvcking wide to be honest.. about 3 weeks ago I had a string of 5 days with 6 DIFFERENT dates.. I went to Opening Day at Del Mar and had a field day.. I made a Field report about that as well. I honestly don't think there would be very many women I have had sex wtih in the last 2 years that wouldn't be interested in seeing me again.. I'm proably wrong but It wouldn't suprise me. Everyone i run into is interested in still seeing me. My "im emotionless" thread, just last week I told a different woman I don't want antyhing to do with her.

It's not about having options.. about knowing you can go out and my sex life will never be a problem.. regardless if I have options or not.. I have the ability to create them.

You are missing the grand point.. if she fvcks up, I won't dig her as much as I do know.. in that case, she is on par with everyone else which.

if she walked away tonight..bye. I mean I like her and all but I'm not in love. She's fun to be around but i'm not going to cry or anything. I loved my EX but I went on a date 48 hours after our year and a half relationship ended.

I have high ass standards.. ther aren't too many women that make me want to stop having sex wtih other girls... but i don't try to put peggs in holes that dont' fit. if I dont' like you that much then I'm not going to stop fvcking other women, it's that simple.



in the grand scheme of things, she's not my life.. no woman is or will be. I'm just as happy sitting here on my patio at night, with a home cooked meal I made and a bottle of wine, reading a good book as I am with female company. I get more excitement at the track than any woman will ever give me. she adds to it (my life).. but horses are my life and always will be. I have goals, dreams, ambitions, that I need to fufill. My life is a neverending jorney to fufill my dreams, not to find a woman to shack up with
 

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would any of these girls be there when you are in the hospital bed sick and ill on the brink of death?

if not then I'd reconsider your options. :D
WTF?

again.. i must be talking to either guys who ahve no real time experience with women or to 6th graders.
 

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WTF?

again.. i must be talking to either guys who ahve no real time experience with women or to 6th graders.
I'll take that as a 'no'..as in,as many girls as you slept with..
ultimatly,none of them have any real genuine feelings for you.

which is okay,since you are emotionless...:D
 

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what is your purpose of coming here? Baradding on people or bettering yourself? I dont' have time to pick fights and aruge with people

You've been here all of 7 days. I've been here 5 and a half YEARS..

when a woman throws a vase at me, hits me in the back of the head and sends me to the ER because I'm breaking up with her.. I would count that as some type of emotional feelings.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=125364

When women you haven't seen in months and in some cases years randomly call or email wanting to "get together"... that's something

when your old oneitis now wants you to the point where she is willing to break off an engagement and fly half way across the country to come see you.. that counts as feelings

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=125600

again.. read more, post a hell of alot less.
 

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what is your purpose of coming here? Baradding on people or bettering yourself? I dont' have time to pick fights and aruge with people

You've been here all of 7 days. I've been here 5 and a half YEARS..

when a woman throws a vase at me, hits me in the back of the head and sends me to the ER because I'm breaking up with her.. I would count that as some type of emotional feelings.

When women you haven't seen in months and in some cases years randomly call or email wanting to "get together"... that's something

when your old oneitis now wants you to the point where she is willing to break off an engagement and fly half way across the country to come see you.. that counts as feelings


again.. read more, post a hell of alot less.

5 years and you get out of it being able to bang a bunch of chicks and you call that success? I've had enough sex to last me a lifetime,but does that makes me the ultimate in don juanism?

you place all of your value on conquests and options but it's soo painfully obvious to everyone but yourself that you are completly deluded and lost in your path in terms of woman,whatever.I am not attacking you,I see right through shiet and tell it like it is..you give away all your 'secrets'.

If you were to be in a horrible accident tommorow which one of your options would be at your deathbed? you seem to have plenty of options but how many of them are of actual quality and how many of them will be there when it matters and not just for another 'booty call"?

if you have never experianced that type of loyalty or genuine kindness of the heart without strings attatched then I see you are as no better off then you were 5 years ago...


that's what I mean :D

I been here 7 days but I have been hard at the game of life from the beggining..I see your flaws because they were once my own...
 

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5 years and you get out of it being able to bang a bunch of chicks and you call that success? I've had enough sex to last me a lifetime,but does that makes me the ultimate in don juanism?
guys who come here didn't come here because they just had to find a place to tell random guys how much ass they are getting. Stop being trolly. I have always been a good looking guy, but 5 years ago I was pathetic with women, in particular my old oneitis. I've grown and I come back not to post war stories but to pass on advice like the old timers did to me. take it or leave it.

I could care less how many women you slept with... this is a post about thrill and you turned into a how big is my **** feast.

It's not about how much ass you get.. it's knowing if you want it, it can be gotten. You are spot pointing what you want to respond to. anyone who reads my posts will tell you.. Il ike sex but I LOVE my work. much more so than women. I even said it 3 posts earlier, but yet you took my entire post and turned into me saying I get more ass than you,w hich I never said.


you place all of your value on conquests and options but it's soo painfully obvious to everyone but yourself that you are completly deluded and lost in your path in terms of woman,whatever.I am not attacking you,I see right through shiet and tell it like it is..you give away all your 'secrets'.
this is not a want is the meaning of life forum.. if you type in "how to get girls" in google, sosuave comes up on the first page... you don't now me well enough to know what gets my juices rilled up. ovbiously you dont' know or bother to know because it's clear as day to anyone who reads my posts.

If you were to be in a horrible accident tommorow which one of your options would be at your deathbed? you seem to have plenty of options but how many of them are of actual quality and how many of them will be there when it matters and not just for another 'booty call"?
again..what's the point? I'm freaking 24. So what... if I a woman won't be by myside on my deathbed I'm not successfu lwith women.. and I know 2 women for a fact who would by the way...as I would theirs. But I dn't want to fvck either of them (Anymore) and I presume one of them doesn't want to fvck me and the other wants to but I can't becuase of the complications that it will cause. I don't know about this one I'm seeing now..

again..i don't even know why I took the time to respond to you. You came here for help but you within 7 days you are telling one of the members here who is a resemblance of a success story his flaws.. you have no idea who I am, and i don't even think you know who you are.

this is the 2nd post you've randomly picked me to start something with.. what the FVCK have I ever done to you? Guys who know me here know I don't have LTR's often and I mentioned i do, and I was explaining her to some of the people who were intersted, and you just hi jacked the damn thread telling me because a woman won't be buried wtih me, I'm not successful.


Again I ask WHY? What disturbance did I cause you? What thread of yours did I hijack? Please show me? When have i ever gone around attacking anyone? I post advice if I think I can help.. and people like you just look for venom to spew. I suppose you are so successful that you got up and said "damn.. i'm sooo good with women, I'm going to go to google and type in how to get girls"....

this place is like an NA meeting.. you know what everyone is here for.. dont' go to a NA meeting and say you didn't do drugs.
 

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backbreaker said:
guys who come here didn't come here because they just had to find a place to tell random guys how much ass they are getting. Stop being trolly. I have always been a good looking guy, but 5 years ago I was pathetic with women, in particular my old oneitis. I've grown and I come back not to post war stories but to pass on advice like the old timers did to me. take it or leave it.

I could care less how many women you slept with... this is a post about thrill and you turned into a how big is my **** feast.

It's not about how much ass you get.. it's knowing if you want it, it can be gotten. You are spot pointing what you want to respond to. anyone who reads my posts will tell you.. Il ike sex but I LOVE my work. much more so than women. I even said it 3 posts earlier, but yet you took my entire post and turned into me saying I get more ass than you,w hich I never said.




this is not a want is the meaning of life forum.. if you type in "how to get girls" in google, sosuave comes up on the first page... you don't now me well enough to know what gets my juices rilled up. ovbiously you dont' know or bother to know because it's clear as day to anyone who reads my posts.



again..what's the point? I'm freaking 24. So what... if I a woman won't be by myside on my deathbed I'm not successfu lwith women.. and I know 2 women for a fact who would by the way...as I would theirs. But I dn't want to fvck either of them (Anymore) and I presume one of them doesn't want to fvck me and the other wants to but I can't becuase of the complications that it will cause. I don't know about this one I'm seeing now..

again..i don't even know why I took the time to respond to you. You came here for help but you within 7 days you are telling one of the members here who is a resemblance of a success story his flaws.. you have no idea who I am, and i don't even think you know who you are.

this is the 2nd post you've randomly picked me to start something with.. what the FVCK have I ever done to you? Guys who know me here know I don't have LTR's often and I mentioned i do, and I was explaining her to some of the people who were intersted, and you just hi jacked the damn thread telling me because a woman won't be buried wtih me, I'm not successful.


Again I ask WHY? What disturbance did I cause you? What thread of yours did I hijack? Please show me? When have i ever gone around attacking anyone? I post advice if I think I can help.. and people like you just look for venom to spew. I suppose you are so successful that you got up and said "damn.. i'm sooo good with women, I'm going to go to google and type in how to get girls"....

this place is like an NA meeting.. you know what everyone is here for.. dont' go to a NA meeting and say you didn't do drugs.

so it's a 'no' then on how many of your options would be by your side when shiet hit's the fan?

the type of girl that would stand by your deathbed is the kind of girl you hold on to and never let go,no matter how many options you have or had or whatever many girls you known or screwed.

Ask yourself,is this the type of girl that would be at my deathbed..if not,then she's not the one...




thats all ,KthxBye :D
 
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