Hi guys!
Since this is my first post here, let me introduce myself. I first discovered this site about 8 years ago. I was your typical AFC. I couldn't talk to girls. I believed in fate and all that crap. I thought everything would "work it self out". I was growing up to be a real *****. Then one day, I found this forum and everything changed. I lurked here for a few years, and I grew. I learned how to kill unwanted infatuations and how to seduce. I learned how to follow my dreams and how to reach my potential. I learned how to be a man.
I haven't been to this site for a few years now - I thought I had learned all I needed. My plan has always been to return here and give advice to others. But this is not how it's turning out. I am now returning with need for help. I have been struck by the most terrible curse: the ONE-ITIS.
Now the reason I'm posting this in the Mature Man forum is simple: I'm 27 years old, and I thought I had outgrown silly emotions like that. I thought I was in control of what I want to feel.
The story begins, like many of these stories: There's this girl at work... When she started at the company about a half year ago I thought to myself that she's off-limits since we work together, but that she'll be nice "target practice". Everything was going fine until about a month ago, when BAM, out of the blue I was struck the "sickness". And it's getting worse and worse. Now it's almost unbearable, and that's why I'm here spewing out this cry for help.
To complicate things, she has a boyfriend (whom I, of course, have convinced myself that she is going to break up with any day now).
What do you do when know all tricks, when you thought that you had matured and that you could control your emotions? And then something like this strikes. I know that the number one cure for this is to see other girls. My problem however, is that this is not working this time (isn't that terrifying?). The second best cure, avoid seeing her, is impossible unless I quit my job.
I'm out of ideas, guys...
Since this is my first post here, let me introduce myself. I first discovered this site about 8 years ago. I was your typical AFC. I couldn't talk to girls. I believed in fate and all that crap. I thought everything would "work it self out". I was growing up to be a real *****. Then one day, I found this forum and everything changed. I lurked here for a few years, and I grew. I learned how to kill unwanted infatuations and how to seduce. I learned how to follow my dreams and how to reach my potential. I learned how to be a man.
I haven't been to this site for a few years now - I thought I had learned all I needed. My plan has always been to return here and give advice to others. But this is not how it's turning out. I am now returning with need for help. I have been struck by the most terrible curse: the ONE-ITIS.
Now the reason I'm posting this in the Mature Man forum is simple: I'm 27 years old, and I thought I had outgrown silly emotions like that. I thought I was in control of what I want to feel.
The story begins, like many of these stories: There's this girl at work... When she started at the company about a half year ago I thought to myself that she's off-limits since we work together, but that she'll be nice "target practice". Everything was going fine until about a month ago, when BAM, out of the blue I was struck the "sickness". And it's getting worse and worse. Now it's almost unbearable, and that's why I'm here spewing out this cry for help.
To complicate things, she has a boyfriend (whom I, of course, have convinced myself that she is going to break up with any day now).
What do you do when know all tricks, when you thought that you had matured and that you could control your emotions? And then something like this strikes. I know that the number one cure for this is to see other girls. My problem however, is that this is not working this time (isn't that terrifying?). The second best cure, avoid seeing her, is impossible unless I quit my job.
I'm out of ideas, guys...
