Hidden-Hand
Don Juan
Hello, my friend. Today I would like to divulge the Ten Laws of Dating that govern the way we should interact with women. These are not all of the laws, but they are probably the most important ones that you should know at the moment. This is only the first five. I will post the other ones at a later date. Now, if you adhere to these laws and you shall succeed with women, but if you choose to break them you will do so at your own peril. Understand this and begin..
1.) The Law of Standards- In dating you must not only have standards, but you must only go for the women who meet these standards. No exceptions.
This law is proves to be an axiom for most but it still must be explained. Do you know who Giacomo Jacopo Casanova was? Perhaps you have but a faint recollection of the "Casanova" title? Maybe you are of the opinion that "Don Juan" and "Casanova" are two different names but they shared the same meaning? Be rest assured, if that is your thought at this moment in time, you are wrong. There is a key difference between a true Don Juan and a Neo-Casanova; and it is based on the fact that, unlike a Don Juan, a Neo-Casanova does not abide by the Law of Standards. The only thing a Neo-Casanova is concerned about is sex and bragging rights when it comes to women. It makes no difference who she is, what she looks like, or what her personality is. The only thing that matters to a Neo-Casanova is whether or not he can have sex or not. Nothing else is of any type of relevance. If you do your research you will see that Giacomo Casanova slept with a lot of women in his lifetime. Sounds great right? Well maybe, but what you don’t hear mentioned is the quality of the women he slept with. They were prostitutes, the mentally unbalanced, the deformed, special needs women, and even his own illegitimate daughter. Whether or not he raped women is up to debate, but all of this evidence shows his character. He did not care who he was with as long as he obtain his sexual gratification. Do you really want to be like this man? Do you really want to be a Neo-Casanova? No true Don Juan is. A true Don Juan knows that he is a prize to be won, and to be won only by women who can "meet his standards". A Don Juan does not settle for any less than the best according to how he sees things. Ask yourself what comes first, you knowing the qualities of your ideal woman or you actually dating your ideal woman? The answer is certainly the former. Now ask yourself, how do you find the qualities of your ideal woman and you'll see that the answer is two words long: Set Standards. It is impossible to find the woman that you are looking for when you do not know what kind of woman you are looking for. Thus is the Law of Standards. Understand this and continue...
2.) The Law of Mystery- In dating if you reveal too much too soon you will live to regret it.
An analogy of this would be follow as such: You are playing a game of Uno and the woman you are pursuing is your opponent. During the game she looks eager asks you very sweetly and nicely, "Can I please see your cards?". This catches you off guard so you say, "Ok, sure why not?" Then you show them to her. And guess what ends up happening? She immediately gets bored starts getting her stuff together. As she packs up to go you say, "Where are you going? I thought we were having fun?" and she says "I'm going somewhere else, I'll call you sometime." She leaves and you never hear from her again. Now, metaphorically speaking the game of Uno represented your relationship, the cards represented personal information pertaining to you and the end of the game represents the end of your relationship with her. See, once you "showed" her most or all of the "cards" you had she got bored with the "game" you were playing, so she decided to "quit playing the game" with you. To keep her from "quitting" you should have held your "cards" and not "showed" what you had. That’s all. The game would have eventually ended, as most "games" do, but you would have had more fun if you prolonged it. Trust me, if you treat your interactions like a "game" you will be much better off than if you did not. Say she asks you, "How do you feel about me?", what she is really asking is "Can you show me your cards?". Now, you could dent her request and say "No." or "I’m not telling you." but what’s the fun in that? It is a game and its meant to be interesting and fun! When she asks you that what you should say is "Maybe, maybe not." then change the subject. She will have a lot more fun if you are funny/confident and say that, than if you tell her what you have or deny her request directly. Either way NEVER show her your "cards". Do you realize why James Bond was such a ladies man? It is because he has quite simply a "Man of Mystery". He was full of secrets. His women did not know almost anything about him. They did not know his job, his past, his plans, or much else about him, yet they were all over him. Think of your personal information as your power. If you give all of that "power" to a woman, what does that leave you? "Powerless". So keep the power to yourself or give her "just enough" to keep wanting more or you will end up a discarded, powerless man. Thus is the Law of Mystery. Understand this and continue...
3.) The Law of Seduction- In dating if you want her to jump your bone, you must first get her comfortable, horny and alone.
Thus is the Law of seduction simplified. If you manage to obtain those three things you will get laid if that’s what you are looking for. If you manage of two of these you still have a good shot, but if you do not so ANY of these three things your chances a practically zero; unless you do not mind going on the run or to prison for at least 20 years. That being said, some basic guidelines for achieving each of these can be done is a variety of ways. The easiest method that I am consciously aware of is inviting her to your place on a specific night for a "movie". You should not "ask" her, but rather offer her a choice of three dates (IE Monday, Tuesday, or Thursday) and let her choose. This is very effective and in my personal experience, has yielded high results. Once she is at your place, you must take the initiative from there. You will either have sex with her or you will be deemed a "creep", lol. Just flirt a lot and slowly allow the situation to "escalade". I would advise learning the "Gunwitch Method" for these types of situations and always remember to "make the ho say no". Thus is the Law of Seduction. Understand this and continue...
4.) The Law of Confidence- In dating if you do not radiate confidence you will repel women that you would have otherwise dated.
This law needs but a short and simple explanation: You absolutely MUST be completely confident in your looks, abilities, skills, and overall personality if you wish to succeed with women because insecurity is frowned upon immensely. As the old quote states: "Confidence contributes more to conversation than wit". Simply analyzed: "A horrible talker with no confidence will get no women, a smooth talker with no confidence will get little women, a confident man with no speaking skills will get some women, but a smooth talking confident man will get MANY women". Thus is the Law of Confidence. Understand this an continue...
1.) The Law of Standards- In dating you must not only have standards, but you must only go for the women who meet these standards. No exceptions.
This law is proves to be an axiom for most but it still must be explained. Do you know who Giacomo Jacopo Casanova was? Perhaps you have but a faint recollection of the "Casanova" title? Maybe you are of the opinion that "Don Juan" and "Casanova" are two different names but they shared the same meaning? Be rest assured, if that is your thought at this moment in time, you are wrong. There is a key difference between a true Don Juan and a Neo-Casanova; and it is based on the fact that, unlike a Don Juan, a Neo-Casanova does not abide by the Law of Standards. The only thing a Neo-Casanova is concerned about is sex and bragging rights when it comes to women. It makes no difference who she is, what she looks like, or what her personality is. The only thing that matters to a Neo-Casanova is whether or not he can have sex or not. Nothing else is of any type of relevance. If you do your research you will see that Giacomo Casanova slept with a lot of women in his lifetime. Sounds great right? Well maybe, but what you don’t hear mentioned is the quality of the women he slept with. They were prostitutes, the mentally unbalanced, the deformed, special needs women, and even his own illegitimate daughter. Whether or not he raped women is up to debate, but all of this evidence shows his character. He did not care who he was with as long as he obtain his sexual gratification. Do you really want to be like this man? Do you really want to be a Neo-Casanova? No true Don Juan is. A true Don Juan knows that he is a prize to be won, and to be won only by women who can "meet his standards". A Don Juan does not settle for any less than the best according to how he sees things. Ask yourself what comes first, you knowing the qualities of your ideal woman or you actually dating your ideal woman? The answer is certainly the former. Now ask yourself, how do you find the qualities of your ideal woman and you'll see that the answer is two words long: Set Standards. It is impossible to find the woman that you are looking for when you do not know what kind of woman you are looking for. Thus is the Law of Standards. Understand this and continue...
2.) The Law of Mystery- In dating if you reveal too much too soon you will live to regret it.
An analogy of this would be follow as such: You are playing a game of Uno and the woman you are pursuing is your opponent. During the game she looks eager asks you very sweetly and nicely, "Can I please see your cards?". This catches you off guard so you say, "Ok, sure why not?" Then you show them to her. And guess what ends up happening? She immediately gets bored starts getting her stuff together. As she packs up to go you say, "Where are you going? I thought we were having fun?" and she says "I'm going somewhere else, I'll call you sometime." She leaves and you never hear from her again. Now, metaphorically speaking the game of Uno represented your relationship, the cards represented personal information pertaining to you and the end of the game represents the end of your relationship with her. See, once you "showed" her most or all of the "cards" you had she got bored with the "game" you were playing, so she decided to "quit playing the game" with you. To keep her from "quitting" you should have held your "cards" and not "showed" what you had. That’s all. The game would have eventually ended, as most "games" do, but you would have had more fun if you prolonged it. Trust me, if you treat your interactions like a "game" you will be much better off than if you did not. Say she asks you, "How do you feel about me?", what she is really asking is "Can you show me your cards?". Now, you could dent her request and say "No." or "I’m not telling you." but what’s the fun in that? It is a game and its meant to be interesting and fun! When she asks you that what you should say is "Maybe, maybe not." then change the subject. She will have a lot more fun if you are funny/confident and say that, than if you tell her what you have or deny her request directly. Either way NEVER show her your "cards". Do you realize why James Bond was such a ladies man? It is because he has quite simply a "Man of Mystery". He was full of secrets. His women did not know almost anything about him. They did not know his job, his past, his plans, or much else about him, yet they were all over him. Think of your personal information as your power. If you give all of that "power" to a woman, what does that leave you? "Powerless". So keep the power to yourself or give her "just enough" to keep wanting more or you will end up a discarded, powerless man. Thus is the Law of Mystery. Understand this and continue...
3.) The Law of Seduction- In dating if you want her to jump your bone, you must first get her comfortable, horny and alone.
Thus is the Law of seduction simplified. If you manage to obtain those three things you will get laid if that’s what you are looking for. If you manage of two of these you still have a good shot, but if you do not so ANY of these three things your chances a practically zero; unless you do not mind going on the run or to prison for at least 20 years. That being said, some basic guidelines for achieving each of these can be done is a variety of ways. The easiest method that I am consciously aware of is inviting her to your place on a specific night for a "movie". You should not "ask" her, but rather offer her a choice of three dates (IE Monday, Tuesday, or Thursday) and let her choose. This is very effective and in my personal experience, has yielded high results. Once she is at your place, you must take the initiative from there. You will either have sex with her or you will be deemed a "creep", lol. Just flirt a lot and slowly allow the situation to "escalade". I would advise learning the "Gunwitch Method" for these types of situations and always remember to "make the ho say no". Thus is the Law of Seduction. Understand this and continue...
4.) The Law of Confidence- In dating if you do not radiate confidence you will repel women that you would have otherwise dated.
This law needs but a short and simple explanation: You absolutely MUST be completely confident in your looks, abilities, skills, and overall personality if you wish to succeed with women because insecurity is frowned upon immensely. As the old quote states: "Confidence contributes more to conversation than wit". Simply analyzed: "A horrible talker with no confidence will get no women, a smooth talker with no confidence will get little women, a confident man with no speaking skills will get some women, but a smooth talking confident man will get MANY women". Thus is the Law of Confidence. Understand this an continue...
