crumpiteer
Don Juan
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I am the Crumpiteer. I study the DJ Bible at sosuave.com. I aspire to be the best DJ I can be, and to have fun with girls while doing it. I understand how gaming works. I know about things like the embracing your masculinity. Approach. ****y & Funny. Framing. And the nature of women and "********." I have read many books. I choose my gaming actions based on what I know about attraction, “Being the Prize”, connecting, handling rejections, self-improvement, etc.
So what do you do when you "know" what I know? Well, obviously, you are on your journey of becoming a DJ. And while doing so, you experience more girls and get more girls. And feel smug when you do. You use all these “advices” that you "know" to succeed in gaming. And depending on your personal attitude, behavior, discipline, and actions, you can potentially get lots of girls because of what you "know." But WHY does this knowledge of yours allow you to succeed with girls?
Well, against the traditional dating and relationship advices offered in this world, you "know" that these are actually catered to the self-serving interests of women in general, so you don't play according to these “rules”. One of the reasons I want to become a DJ is that I’m unhappy with these “traditional dating principles”, how they make men even weaker & put women on the pedestals.
So what good does knowing all this DJ stuff do for you, other than to help you succeed with women? What else can you get out of knowing all this stuff? I become confident and really comfortable in my skin when I’m with myself, with friends and yes, with women...because I "know" the DJ stuff. Stuff that allows me to overcome obstacles and do the things that does not compromise my masculinity values, yet at the same time the women are attracted to me. I can succeed with women now because I use what I know to feel each game and put my guts straight out when I have a psychological and sexual advantage. I use what I know to avoid making costly mistakes that the typical AFCs and wusses routinely make while they are "dating."
But there's a major difference. I can talk about economics and finance to my family and friends. I can explain interesting stuff. I can educate people on the management principles and laws that I know about. People want to hear these theories, and when they do, they tend to believe them. If I talk about science, people also listen.
This may not always be the case with DJ principles on some stubbornly misguided naïve guys .
They simply won't believe it nor accept the “DJ truth”. The misguided and even naïve ideas they hold are so ingrained into their brains that they simply cannot even accept the possibility that their beliefs are weapons against themselves...while the “DJ truth” can free them and thus put them on the path which a Man should take.
Try explaining to the AFC that he is a loser, and cannot succeed at what he is doing, because the mainstream “rules of dating” are catered to women’s own feminized, selfish interests. They serve to make losers out of men both in the short run and in the long run. Try explaining to the those wussies that they are acting wimpy. Try to explain to the AFC that no matter what he does, he is going to be even more frustrated. Try to explain to Mr. Nice Guy that being always available and buying expensive gifts are self-defeating acts. Try to explain to the guy who’s suffering from Oneitis that he needs to learn to separate love from lust. They use their misguided beliefs to comfort themselves, to justify their actions, and to give themselves hope. But it's a false comfort, a false hope.
These feminized, nice guys are relying on their false beliefs to give them hope, justify their losing ways, and comfort themselves. I have seen an awful lot of naïve guys wasting their precious time, effort and money but never succeeding with women. Yet they keep on rationalizing, justifying and deluding themselves with those self-limiting & self-defeating beliefs. And the manipulative woman knows how to exploit this naivety.
Now if you try to explain the "DJ truth" to these feminized, naïve guys, they refuse to believe. They offer their own “logical” explanations as to why they are exempted in the case of a particular woman. How this girl is different from others, how special she is and how “nice” the girl seems to treat them. Sometimes they get upset with you because you are saying something which is different from the things they already "know for as an accepted fact." They may have been watching you speak, and they may have been nodding their head the whole time, and they may have even complimented you as to how interesting those facts you mentioned are. But it's a lie. They didn't hear a thing. They don't want to hear anything that might take away that comfort blanket of beliefs they hold so tightly around them. And if they DO happen to hear some field-tested truth, you can bet they will probably find some way to discount them. They won't accept the "DJ truth," because it contradict that which they "know" to be the “Female-approved Method”. They rather seek advice from other women and enter a loser's forum such as "loveshack.org". And they use what they "know" to justify their actions.
Fortunately, you know where you are, and what you now stand for… You and your chest of DJ knowledge… Smugly sitting there, knowing you are the Don Juan, knowing that you won't be the victim of misguided AFC beliefs anymore. You have evolved, and are ascended above these typical feminized chumps. All because of your comprehension of what it means to be a Man. You're so impressed with yourself.
So what do you do when you "know" what I know? Well, obviously, you are on your journey of becoming a DJ. And while doing so, you experience more girls and get more girls. And feel smug when you do. You use all these “advices” that you "know" to succeed in gaming. And depending on your personal attitude, behavior, discipline, and actions, you can potentially get lots of girls because of what you "know." But WHY does this knowledge of yours allow you to succeed with girls?
Well, against the traditional dating and relationship advices offered in this world, you "know" that these are actually catered to the self-serving interests of women in general, so you don't play according to these “rules”. One of the reasons I want to become a DJ is that I’m unhappy with these “traditional dating principles”, how they make men even weaker & put women on the pedestals.
So what good does knowing all this DJ stuff do for you, other than to help you succeed with women? What else can you get out of knowing all this stuff? I become confident and really comfortable in my skin when I’m with myself, with friends and yes, with women...because I "know" the DJ stuff. Stuff that allows me to overcome obstacles and do the things that does not compromise my masculinity values, yet at the same time the women are attracted to me. I can succeed with women now because I use what I know to feel each game and put my guts straight out when I have a psychological and sexual advantage. I use what I know to avoid making costly mistakes that the typical AFCs and wusses routinely make while they are "dating."
But there's a major difference. I can talk about economics and finance to my family and friends. I can explain interesting stuff. I can educate people on the management principles and laws that I know about. People want to hear these theories, and when they do, they tend to believe them. If I talk about science, people also listen.
This may not always be the case with DJ principles on some stubbornly misguided naïve guys .
They simply won't believe it nor accept the “DJ truth”. The misguided and even naïve ideas they hold are so ingrained into their brains that they simply cannot even accept the possibility that their beliefs are weapons against themselves...while the “DJ truth” can free them and thus put them on the path which a Man should take.
Try explaining to the AFC that he is a loser, and cannot succeed at what he is doing, because the mainstream “rules of dating” are catered to women’s own feminized, selfish interests. They serve to make losers out of men both in the short run and in the long run. Try explaining to the those wussies that they are acting wimpy. Try to explain to the AFC that no matter what he does, he is going to be even more frustrated. Try to explain to Mr. Nice Guy that being always available and buying expensive gifts are self-defeating acts. Try to explain to the guy who’s suffering from Oneitis that he needs to learn to separate love from lust. They use their misguided beliefs to comfort themselves, to justify their actions, and to give themselves hope. But it's a false comfort, a false hope.
These feminized, nice guys are relying on their false beliefs to give them hope, justify their losing ways, and comfort themselves. I have seen an awful lot of naïve guys wasting their precious time, effort and money but never succeeding with women. Yet they keep on rationalizing, justifying and deluding themselves with those self-limiting & self-defeating beliefs. And the manipulative woman knows how to exploit this naivety.
Now if you try to explain the "DJ truth" to these feminized, naïve guys, they refuse to believe. They offer their own “logical” explanations as to why they are exempted in the case of a particular woman. How this girl is different from others, how special she is and how “nice” the girl seems to treat them. Sometimes they get upset with you because you are saying something which is different from the things they already "know for as an accepted fact." They may have been watching you speak, and they may have been nodding their head the whole time, and they may have even complimented you as to how interesting those facts you mentioned are. But it's a lie. They didn't hear a thing. They don't want to hear anything that might take away that comfort blanket of beliefs they hold so tightly around them. And if they DO happen to hear some field-tested truth, you can bet they will probably find some way to discount them. They won't accept the "DJ truth," because it contradict that which they "know" to be the “Female-approved Method”. They rather seek advice from other women and enter a loser's forum such as "loveshack.org". And they use what they "know" to justify their actions.
Fortunately, you know where you are, and what you now stand for… You and your chest of DJ knowledge… Smugly sitting there, knowing you are the Don Juan, knowing that you won't be the victim of misguided AFC beliefs anymore. You have evolved, and are ascended above these typical feminized chumps. All because of your comprehension of what it means to be a Man. You're so impressed with yourself.