The Damage of Seduction Websites
If This Doesn't Apply To You, Don't Answer, I Don't Have Time For Your Bullsh*t
Here it is, straight from the heart to you: You know who you guys are!!
Most of us were all failures with women at one time or another; that is why yo came to this site. As a result yo try to saturate your brain in as much material as you can. What does this do?
This leads you into a state of confusion where, when you go out you don't know what to do because you have so much information to work with; it gets difficile to choose which routine to pick. Thus you go back to the net thinking that you haven't got your game down packed. Your sitting there reading more and more, but still not getting results.
What does that mean? Well, most think that they need more material. Here there reasoning:
I've been here on sosuave for quite a while now, but I haven't got the results I want. I know, I'll go to bristollair.com. (Time passes) I haven't gotten any results, there must be something wrong with bristollair. I know I'll join PUA4life.......(More time passes) I know, I'll join RSD........
Same process, keeps going non-stop. While this is happening years have gone by. When its time to go socializing, they stay at home filling their brain with more information they don't use. These guys analyze and discuss the game but don't get the results they deserve from all this knowlegde. Well guess what, its easier to pick up women when you approach/talk to them.
The worst part about it is when you confront their issues. You tell them what their doing so they defensively think:
The way he discribes "my problem" makes it seem awful, but that is exactly what I do. I know what I'll do!! I'll blame him for his negativety....yeah that's it.... that's why I not getting girls....he doesn't understand.....I know what I'm doing...I'll read more and join Juggler's site, that'll get me girls.
They blame others as a form to retain their routine/poor lifestyle. They are afraid to fail again so they never take the risk.
If this is you what should you do?
The Solution
First accept the fact that your not getting results.
You have to recognize thatt you'll get so much better one day in the field than a week of reading material, plus it's easier to remember a idea/theory once you put it to work.
Second make a promise to yourself right now:
"I'm going to go out and approach ____ girls on Thursday, Friday, and Saturday."
It is scientifically proven that when you write your goals down you will stick to the plan, so WRITE IT DOWN.
Third, don't go home unless you accomplish your goal for that day. Once you promise yourself not to go home, you won't want to fail so you must do the approach. If you stay long enough you'll just approach with no attachments/fears because you're tired and just want to go home.
Fourth, go home and you're allowed to ONLY read one new concept in seduction.
Also, I recommend spending about 30 mins MAX of reading seduction techniques when you visit.
Once you follow these steps, only then can you truely brag to your friends and for some make friends. Results will come unexpectedly, and at a point you'll think its akwards/not normal to get these changes, because of what you where used to. Don't let that affect you. Forget the past and live in the present.
Ask yourself, "What can I do right now to feel happy?" What will bring you happiness at this very moment?
Answer that question and proceed with your answer.
Good luck to all of you and goodbye.
If This Doesn't Apply To You, Don't Answer, I Don't Have Time For Your Bullsh*t
Here it is, straight from the heart to you: You know who you guys are!!
Most of us were all failures with women at one time or another; that is why yo came to this site. As a result yo try to saturate your brain in as much material as you can. What does this do?
This leads you into a state of confusion where, when you go out you don't know what to do because you have so much information to work with; it gets difficile to choose which routine to pick. Thus you go back to the net thinking that you haven't got your game down packed. Your sitting there reading more and more, but still not getting results.
What does that mean? Well, most think that they need more material. Here there reasoning:
I've been here on sosuave for quite a while now, but I haven't got the results I want. I know, I'll go to bristollair.com. (Time passes) I haven't gotten any results, there must be something wrong with bristollair. I know I'll join PUA4life.......(More time passes) I know, I'll join RSD........
Same process, keeps going non-stop. While this is happening years have gone by. When its time to go socializing, they stay at home filling their brain with more information they don't use. These guys analyze and discuss the game but don't get the results they deserve from all this knowlegde. Well guess what, its easier to pick up women when you approach/talk to them.
The worst part about it is when you confront their issues. You tell them what their doing so they defensively think:
The way he discribes "my problem" makes it seem awful, but that is exactly what I do. I know what I'll do!! I'll blame him for his negativety....yeah that's it.... that's why I not getting girls....he doesn't understand.....I know what I'm doing...I'll read more and join Juggler's site, that'll get me girls.
They blame others as a form to retain their routine/poor lifestyle. They are afraid to fail again so they never take the risk.
If this is you what should you do?
The Solution
First accept the fact that your not getting results.
You have to recognize thatt you'll get so much better one day in the field than a week of reading material, plus it's easier to remember a idea/theory once you put it to work.
Second make a promise to yourself right now:
"I'm going to go out and approach ____ girls on Thursday, Friday, and Saturday."
It is scientifically proven that when you write your goals down you will stick to the plan, so WRITE IT DOWN.
Third, don't go home unless you accomplish your goal for that day. Once you promise yourself not to go home, you won't want to fail so you must do the approach. If you stay long enough you'll just approach with no attachments/fears because you're tired and just want to go home.
Fourth, go home and you're allowed to ONLY read one new concept in seduction.
Also, I recommend spending about 30 mins MAX of reading seduction techniques when you visit.
Once you follow these steps, only then can you truely brag to your friends and for some make friends. Results will come unexpectedly, and at a point you'll think its akwards/not normal to get these changes, because of what you where used to. Don't let that affect you. Forget the past and live in the present.
Ask yourself, "What can I do right now to feel happy?" What will bring you happiness at this very moment?
Answer that question and proceed with your answer.
Good luck to all of you and goodbye.
