PuertoRican_Lover
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When referring to a ‘shy’ girl, I put her in the category of 1. A ‘quiet shy virgin’, or 2. A ‘quiet shy hor!
If the quiet/shy hor likes you physically (face/body) then there is very little you have to do to win her over – it is just a matter of time! Some quiet hors want to keep the ‘appearance’ of decency in public – just because she is introverted and soft spoken doesn’t mean her mind is not on sex. Do not take her ‘quiet nature’ as ‘innocent’, she is far from this status.
And some quiet/shy hors don’t necessarily care about how they are perceived in public – they often dress provocatively and enjoy sexual attention and want men to initiate contact with them – that is why they dress so invitingly.
These girls are only ‘quiet/shy’ because that is their innate nature and this shyness is no reflection on their moral values (shy does not necessarily equal good) nor are they trying to play ‘hard to get’ – they are naturally reserved in their personality. These kind of girls like ‘players’!! Never trust her to be loyal to you – you are just the next pimp in line!
The only way you can make a quiet shy hor lose interest is by being too arrogant/loud and ****y (draws unwanted attention and too presumptuous) and publicly focusing attention on her by shaming or ridiculing her!
The ‘shy virgin’ (the opposite of the quiet shy hor) who has her mind on being with only one man - ‘her one true and only love’ (at least she thinks this) is more complicated and sensitive. The main ingredient in her mind is ‘trust’ and after that ‘respect’.
She must trust the man not to leave her if she is ever going to ‘give herself to him’ because her goal is to totally succumb, physically and emotionally, to that one true love and no other - not too many of these types around anymore!
She must be confident that the values that the man cherishes are in keeping with her own, regarding FIDELITY and LOYALTY.. A few decades back the majority of women married their first sexual partner or at least saw him as her future husband. Now the overwhelming majority of women do not marry their first sexual partner nor do they ‘qualify’or consider him as a future husband! The ‘shy virgin’ is extremely loyal to her first love if she totally trusts him!
Shy virgin women are emotionally devastated (more so than other woman) if this trust is broken because she holds her virginity in high regard and ties it to her self worth as a woman and is very guarded in matters of the heart! If this trust is broken then she will be even more reserved and shy in trusting another man in a relationship and she’ll cry out “I trusted him not to hurt me!” Obviously they don’t like.’players’!
These type of woman tend to give in to their sexual desire to that ’special’ someone but if he leaves her then you’ll hear her say, “Men just want me for sex and I won’t do that again unless we get married” They become ‘mentally born again virgins’.
Shy virgin woman tend to place a higher value on self worth – they are more focused on their inner self and thus demand ‘respect’ from a man. The more she respects you as a man and you respect yourself the more she’ll trust you and open up to you. If you disrespect her (especially publicly) you’ll lose her confidence and her heart in time will become ‘hardened’.
The ‘shy virgin’ and the ‘quiet hor ‘ are polar opposites - the only common link is their inbred quiet/shy natures!!
If the quiet/shy hor likes you physically (face/body) then there is very little you have to do to win her over – it is just a matter of time! Some quiet hors want to keep the ‘appearance’ of decency in public – just because she is introverted and soft spoken doesn’t mean her mind is not on sex. Do not take her ‘quiet nature’ as ‘innocent’, she is far from this status.
And some quiet/shy hors don’t necessarily care about how they are perceived in public – they often dress provocatively and enjoy sexual attention and want men to initiate contact with them – that is why they dress so invitingly.
These girls are only ‘quiet/shy’ because that is their innate nature and this shyness is no reflection on their moral values (shy does not necessarily equal good) nor are they trying to play ‘hard to get’ – they are naturally reserved in their personality. These kind of girls like ‘players’!! Never trust her to be loyal to you – you are just the next pimp in line!
The only way you can make a quiet shy hor lose interest is by being too arrogant/loud and ****y (draws unwanted attention and too presumptuous) and publicly focusing attention on her by shaming or ridiculing her!
The ‘shy virgin’ (the opposite of the quiet shy hor) who has her mind on being with only one man - ‘her one true and only love’ (at least she thinks this) is more complicated and sensitive. The main ingredient in her mind is ‘trust’ and after that ‘respect’.
She must trust the man not to leave her if she is ever going to ‘give herself to him’ because her goal is to totally succumb, physically and emotionally, to that one true love and no other - not too many of these types around anymore!
She must be confident that the values that the man cherishes are in keeping with her own, regarding FIDELITY and LOYALTY.. A few decades back the majority of women married their first sexual partner or at least saw him as her future husband. Now the overwhelming majority of women do not marry their first sexual partner nor do they ‘qualify’or consider him as a future husband! The ‘shy virgin’ is extremely loyal to her first love if she totally trusts him!
Shy virgin women are emotionally devastated (more so than other woman) if this trust is broken because she holds her virginity in high regard and ties it to her self worth as a woman and is very guarded in matters of the heart! If this trust is broken then she will be even more reserved and shy in trusting another man in a relationship and she’ll cry out “I trusted him not to hurt me!” Obviously they don’t like.’players’!
These type of woman tend to give in to their sexual desire to that ’special’ someone but if he leaves her then you’ll hear her say, “Men just want me for sex and I won’t do that again unless we get married” They become ‘mentally born again virgins’.
Shy virgin woman tend to place a higher value on self worth – they are more focused on their inner self and thus demand ‘respect’ from a man. The more she respects you as a man and you respect yourself the more she’ll trust you and open up to you. If you disrespect her (especially publicly) you’ll lose her confidence and her heart in time will become ‘hardened’.
The ‘shy virgin’ and the ‘quiet hor ‘ are polar opposites - the only common link is their inbred quiet/shy natures!!
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