Cruel Intentions
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All right… are you ready for the good ****? Before we get into realizing your seductive potential, you have to realize exactly what it is you are seducing. Monster’s Inc. is the final chapter in my “Victoria’s Secret” concept and is broken up into two parts. Part one of this, digs into the psychology of the high school girl… and the second part breaks it down even further into the a couple of generalities of women that you will face in high school (which you guys will give me examples of). So without further comment… welcome.
High School is the beginning of most things, when it comes to relationships, women, and even sex. Everything that is done in middle school does not really count; it is in High School really that things begin to get interesting. For the most part, I try to keep my personal biases out of my writing, so although I do not recommend getting into any long term relationships (see: six months or longer) if this is what you choose to do, then I respect your wishes (there will be various posts on relationships, towards the end of the series). For those of you who do not choose that route, this composition is probably more directed to you. It is imperative that you guys understand and realize that this post is a generalization and that not every woman that you will encounter in High School will be this way. This information is based on the personal experiences of me and many of my peers including people on this board… and none of us claim to have experienced everything… with that in mind, I can continue.
There are a number of things that a woman may look for in a man and it usually varies from person to person… however, this is High School where conformity is king. It should not come as a surprise then when you notice that a woman’s actions are often dictated by her friends and vice versa. This may seem like this places you at a disadvantage, but alas gentlemen… this actually places you in a better position that you think, because the first thing High School women may look for in a guy is…
The Beautiful People
Social proof… that is right gentlemen, the biggest thing that will make seducing High School women extremely easy is the concept of social proof. Who do you know? How many people do you know? How do these people rank in the social hierarchy? Do my friends like him? These are some of the things that an adolescent woman may consider before completely engaging a guy in her attention. Trust me gentlemen, I do not care how much she likes you, if there is a chance that her friends do not approve of you… you may not get your foot, completely in her door. The most important facet of social proof however is… how many women you know. It is an unfortunate incident, but one that must be accepted gentlemen… in High School (this may not sound true now, but give it some thought) the women rule. Whoever said having female friends (we have already discussed this) was a bad idea, was incorrect on so many levels. Being a doormat for women is a terrible idea, having female friends (especially those who think that you are a great guy) is probably the most seductive tool the adolescent man could have in his arsenal.
I cannot tell you gentlemen how many women that my friends and I have been introduced to by various female acquaintances of ours. The best part about having a female friend (especially a good one… preferably hot one) is that they do most of the dirty work for you. In many cases, the woman I met through an acquaintance of mine already thought that I was a great guy before I even spoke a word… why? Because my acquaintance told her that I was a great guy. That is not to say however, that your male friends are no help either… it is better however, if they have this important facet…
Corrupts Absolutely
Social power… which can be found in the various social groups in any High School. Your friend may be one of the best skaters in your school, or play basketball, football, baseball etc. Your friend may be a kick ass thespian or the drum major in the band. If you do not have wingmen like this, you may want to consider getting a few. This is because more than likely (and I will be getting into various social aspects in the “Mechanical Animals” side of this series) other guys in various social groups (especially if they are at the higher sections of that groups hierarchy) may know a few women, even a few that they may be attempting to get off of their backs. Moreover, the more social power that he has, the more you have as a result of being around him. This could prove useful if you like to sample women (like me) from various social groups… after all, Goths, Punks, Cheerleaders etc. all have something different to bring to the table (that will be more discussed in the second composition)
If you are also like me, you do not always like to ride on the backs of others… so you will obviously want to develop your own social power as well… but that is another thread. This brings us to the third important facet in actively seducing adolescent women…
Circus, Circus
Let us face the facts gentlemen; most adolescent women do not have much ambition passed talking about the latest “Orange County” episode… that is where you come in. For the most part, the man (that would be you and me) fill those voids that adolescent women will more than likely not fill for themselves, essentially then it works like this… the more “entertaining” that you are, the more of a prospect that you become. That is not to say that you have to become some sort of court jester to bag women… but knowing how to tell a joke or two or a talent could not hurt. We already know how important things like charisma and confidence are, so I will not get into that. Something that is overlooked however is ambition. If you even appear as if you know what you are doing and going in your life, you will automatically be viewed as more attractive.
Basically… adolescent women are looking to have fun… and that is where you come in. That is essentially the most important component to remember gentlemen, that this girl wants to have fun, and the more she views you as a person she can have fun with… the better off you are at seducing her.
This composition is intentionally general and vague because it is only a general direction. Seduction is a practice that is very personal… I can tell you what works for me, but it may not work for you. It is important then that you discover what works for you… which we will discuss later.
Are you not entertained?
Make your words soft and sweet… in case you have to eat them.
High School is the beginning of most things, when it comes to relationships, women, and even sex. Everything that is done in middle school does not really count; it is in High School really that things begin to get interesting. For the most part, I try to keep my personal biases out of my writing, so although I do not recommend getting into any long term relationships (see: six months or longer) if this is what you choose to do, then I respect your wishes (there will be various posts on relationships, towards the end of the series). For those of you who do not choose that route, this composition is probably more directed to you. It is imperative that you guys understand and realize that this post is a generalization and that not every woman that you will encounter in High School will be this way. This information is based on the personal experiences of me and many of my peers including people on this board… and none of us claim to have experienced everything… with that in mind, I can continue.
There are a number of things that a woman may look for in a man and it usually varies from person to person… however, this is High School where conformity is king. It should not come as a surprise then when you notice that a woman’s actions are often dictated by her friends and vice versa. This may seem like this places you at a disadvantage, but alas gentlemen… this actually places you in a better position that you think, because the first thing High School women may look for in a guy is…
The Beautiful People
Social proof… that is right gentlemen, the biggest thing that will make seducing High School women extremely easy is the concept of social proof. Who do you know? How many people do you know? How do these people rank in the social hierarchy? Do my friends like him? These are some of the things that an adolescent woman may consider before completely engaging a guy in her attention. Trust me gentlemen, I do not care how much she likes you, if there is a chance that her friends do not approve of you… you may not get your foot, completely in her door. The most important facet of social proof however is… how many women you know. It is an unfortunate incident, but one that must be accepted gentlemen… in High School (this may not sound true now, but give it some thought) the women rule. Whoever said having female friends (we have already discussed this) was a bad idea, was incorrect on so many levels. Being a doormat for women is a terrible idea, having female friends (especially those who think that you are a great guy) is probably the most seductive tool the adolescent man could have in his arsenal.
I cannot tell you gentlemen how many women that my friends and I have been introduced to by various female acquaintances of ours. The best part about having a female friend (especially a good one… preferably hot one) is that they do most of the dirty work for you. In many cases, the woman I met through an acquaintance of mine already thought that I was a great guy before I even spoke a word… why? Because my acquaintance told her that I was a great guy. That is not to say however, that your male friends are no help either… it is better however, if they have this important facet…
Corrupts Absolutely
Social power… which can be found in the various social groups in any High School. Your friend may be one of the best skaters in your school, or play basketball, football, baseball etc. Your friend may be a kick ass thespian or the drum major in the band. If you do not have wingmen like this, you may want to consider getting a few. This is because more than likely (and I will be getting into various social aspects in the “Mechanical Animals” side of this series) other guys in various social groups (especially if they are at the higher sections of that groups hierarchy) may know a few women, even a few that they may be attempting to get off of their backs. Moreover, the more social power that he has, the more you have as a result of being around him. This could prove useful if you like to sample women (like me) from various social groups… after all, Goths, Punks, Cheerleaders etc. all have something different to bring to the table (that will be more discussed in the second composition)
If you are also like me, you do not always like to ride on the backs of others… so you will obviously want to develop your own social power as well… but that is another thread. This brings us to the third important facet in actively seducing adolescent women…
Circus, Circus
Let us face the facts gentlemen; most adolescent women do not have much ambition passed talking about the latest “Orange County” episode… that is where you come in. For the most part, the man (that would be you and me) fill those voids that adolescent women will more than likely not fill for themselves, essentially then it works like this… the more “entertaining” that you are, the more of a prospect that you become. That is not to say that you have to become some sort of court jester to bag women… but knowing how to tell a joke or two or a talent could not hurt. We already know how important things like charisma and confidence are, so I will not get into that. Something that is overlooked however is ambition. If you even appear as if you know what you are doing and going in your life, you will automatically be viewed as more attractive.
Basically… adolescent women are looking to have fun… and that is where you come in. That is essentially the most important component to remember gentlemen, that this girl wants to have fun, and the more she views you as a person she can have fun with… the better off you are at seducing her.
This composition is intentionally general and vague because it is only a general direction. Seduction is a practice that is very personal… I can tell you what works for me, but it may not work for you. It is important then that you discover what works for you… which we will discuss later.
Are you not entertained?
Make your words soft and sweet… in case you have to eat them.
