Not a bad post, but I dislike the analogy of seduction techniques with weapons.
Can you taste the irony?
It's one of my biggest regrets.. naming my most famous writings with that ominous title.. I thought it was clever, but didnt realize the implications it carried with it.
IMHO, natural seducers dont have an arsenal of weaponry. If I were pressed for a better metaphor I would say they have dance maneuvers and charm is the rhythm by which they step.
Charm cannot be forced.. it occurs naturally when you are in tune with the interaction.. the music you make together. You are totally improvising, but from the outside it looks as if you rehearsed it all because you are so on point.
Rather than bombard her with what you think will charm her, you let yourself fall into a rhythm and before you know it, the both of you are gliding along, sharing moments and your feelings / desires are in harmony.
At certain points you will almost have a telepathy going and complete each others thoughts. This is not to say you cant disagree or create tension - a true master can be both difficult and charming at the same time, but I digress..
It's all about knowing the music, when to dip, when to spin, when to lead and push and when to fall back. It has nothing to do with logical thought.. you are just flowing.. the feeling is total freedom and people are really drawn to that.
Some folks have it naturally, others practice endlessly to get it down. But once you get your tango on, you will be able to handle women (and people in general) with ease
carry on
