Guitar_Whizz
Master Don Juan
I think I've finally solved the problem of talking to girls on the phone! I may have mentioned that I was having trouble with phone call - often there'd be no answer, or an an answerphone or her phone would be switched off. It was difficult to tell if she was or wasn't interested, if she was avoiding me or not or if there was a genuine reason.
I have discovered that texting a girl is the best way to see if she's genuinely interested in you. Think about it, if you ring her phone, and there's no answer, then you don't know if she's just not able to answer or whether she's avoiding you, wheras if you text she will definitely read the message at some point, therefore if she doesn't get back to you, you will know she's not interested.
So here's what I suggest. First, try calling the girl's phone. If you get through, introduce yourself, make some small talk/chit chat, then close for the date. No calling her back a second time - arrange the date the FIRST time you call her.
If you DON'T get her on the phone (eg phone switched off, no answer, or an answerphone), then this is where you send a text. Again introduce yourself, and ask how she is, etc. You could wait for her to respond and send 1 or 2 texts before arranging the date, or you could suggest a date in the first text. You could also send 1 or 2 texts, and if she's responding well then say you'll call her in a min. You then call her to arrange the date.
It's that simple.
In addition to this, I've found that if you talk to a girl for a decent amount of time the first time you approach her(20-45 mins), she seems more open and friendly when you call than if you'd got her number within only a few minutes of meeting her.
I have discovered that texting a girl is the best way to see if she's genuinely interested in you. Think about it, if you ring her phone, and there's no answer, then you don't know if she's just not able to answer or whether she's avoiding you, wheras if you text she will definitely read the message at some point, therefore if she doesn't get back to you, you will know she's not interested.
So here's what I suggest. First, try calling the girl's phone. If you get through, introduce yourself, make some small talk/chit chat, then close for the date. No calling her back a second time - arrange the date the FIRST time you call her.
If you DON'T get her on the phone (eg phone switched off, no answer, or an answerphone), then this is where you send a text. Again introduce yourself, and ask how she is, etc. You could wait for her to respond and send 1 or 2 texts before arranging the date, or you could suggest a date in the first text. You could also send 1 or 2 texts, and if she's responding well then say you'll call her in a min. You then call her to arrange the date.
It's that simple.
In addition to this, I've found that if you talk to a girl for a decent amount of time the first time you approach her(20-45 mins), she seems more open and friendly when you call than if you'd got her number within only a few minutes of meeting her.
