The secret to keeping a girl interested

[Spike_the_cowboy]

Yeah, as if.

Sex is not my number one priority. It is just my number one priority when dealing with interesting women.
I don't have to apologize or explain for my nature.
This is a half billion years of evolutionary programming that just isn't going away.
So don't try preaching that there is something wrong with me, or with anyone else here for giving into their desires as men.
Don't try to fix what isn't broken.

As for your intentions here, I don't really care.
But seeing as how you think it is alot of 'bullshyte' anyways.... why waste your time here?
Don't get me wrong, a female opinion is most welcome.
However, when you start blabbing about your notions of 'love' and try to shove it down my throat... that is a problem.

I love my way of life. I love the world and I love myself.
And I love my family and friends in a way so deep I would gladly die for them without a single thought or hesitation.

Who are you to preach to me about a concept you hardly understand?... A barely legal teenage girl with deluded concepts of reality.

No offence, but you are not half as smart as you seem to think, Miss 'High & Mighty'. Your grammar alone can atest to that fact.

 

[PlayerSupreme]

yeah baby

 

[Spike_the_cowboy]

Pfft,

Some people...

 

[LuvMyArmyMan]

*sigh*

I get it that men will never change. I get it that its been that way since man was created.

All i was saying is, why cant you think about other options? I'm not saying, "change your life", but rather, consider this option. I wasnt trying to shove it down your throat and I'm sorry you feel that way.

Its also as if you think that every man desires sex. It is true, but some men are willing to hold off and refrain, because they care for someone deeply, and after awhile, it doesn't become an issue anymore.

and I'm not a perfect typer. I dont find it important to have perfect grammatical skills on an internet message board. For papers in my classes, yes, I do have perfect grammar. thats beside the point.

and I do think its a lot of bullsh1t, and i'm trying to let men know what a womans insight is. I mean, why the hell not? why not try to help the problem?

 

[Spike_the_cowboy]

I don't have a problem with your self expression.

I am just letting you know that this 'holier than thou' attitude that you have shown here is no way to go about it if you want respect from me, or anyone else.
Not only on this board, but in life as well.

Stick around and get to know some of the guys here and you will see that you are greatly mistaken in your premature judgements.

 

[Spike_the_cowboy]

"We shall find the truth when we examine the problem.
The problem is never apart from the answer.
The problem is the answer --
understanding the problem dissolves the problem."-- Bruce Lee

And that is what sosuave is all about.

The more you argue, the more valid my purpose becomes.
You are only adding fuel to a very big fire.

And about how some men can go without sex...
That sounds like a priest that you are describing.
Have you watched CNN lately?

 

[( . )( . )]

All i was saying is, why cant you think about other options?

why?, hey do men tell you "think about other options" when your moods change when your menstruating (a natural occurence for a woman), of course not so why should a man change a perfectly natural NATURAL NATURAL thing for us.

Its also as if you think that every man desires sex. It is true, but some men are willing to hold off and refrain

and we call them AFCs or men with low sex drives.

give it up sweety,your digging yourself even deeper just swallow your pride and admit your wrong, and like i said before i understand your a chick and youve never been pointed out the non AFC way and you probably believe that sh1t you posted so your hardly to blame, your just a victim of society and the media, something we all used to be.

thats why its very important for you to think before you post here and just listen to some of these guys for awhile before you chime in, perhaps read the DJ bible.

 

[TooColdUlrick]

Originally posted by LuvMyArmyMan
you make it seem as if i'm a virgin, and i'm not.

and no, he's not a chump for wanting to wait with me. It shows he thinks with something other than his ****. It shows that he believes there are more important things in a relationship other than sex.

and ya, we had a great sex life before, but ya know what? we dont want a sexless marriage, so why not wait, and get all this pent-up aggression, and have an awesome sex life in our marriage?

the point is, he's happy, he has his own life, i'm not controlling him like a puppy dog, and he knows i want to make him happy.

I think some of you guys take this DJ thing a little too far. What if you do find the girl you want to marry and she wants to wait? and you're totally in love with her, are you gonna dump her because you think sex is your number one priority? if you answer yes, i pity you.

I am SO glad my boyfriend thinks this site is bullsh1t. then he'd be a real as*hole.

and no, i'm not telling you how to live your lives. Thats your business. I just think its healthy to get a womans opinion every now and then. Because most of you have no f*ucking clue what a woman really wants, or how to be what a woman wants. which is why you'll probably end up in miserable marriages, cheating on your wives with your secretaries, and cheating on your mistresses with other mistresses.

sorry to burst your bubble, sweetie, but you are 18. 18 year old chicks are living a delusional fantasy about what should be rather than what is. that's okay, though--it's part of life.

besides, you contradicted yourself numerous times. that's okay, though--it's part of being dumb.

you are waiting for marriage? thinking about a marriage with this guy and you're 18? you're going to wait till marriage? maybe you will, but he won't.

PS: you're not a woman. you are a girl.

 

[Spike_the_cowboy]

Lil' Miss Contradiction, Lil' Miss Double Standard~

First she said that she was better than the kind of
"dumb bimbo's" that go for guys like us.

She says that she is a smart, good christian woman.
And that she is better than us time and time again.

There is a big difference between religion and spirituality.
I am a very spiritual person.

She said also that her boyfriends are better than us
for wanting to hang out with a good girl like her.

Then she says that she has had sex with more than ten men.
Anal, oral, and in every position imaginionable...

'Little Miss Contradiction.'

That should be her user name!

 

[LuvMyArmyMan]

Never did i say i was better than anyone. I never said i was perfect, either. I think my boyfriend is better than any man, simply because i love him so much (besides my dad and bro, duh). I never said that dumb bimbos go for guys like you. At least, i dont recall these things and dont want to sift through my posts finding the evidence. I dont agree with organized religion, but I am a Christian. I dont go to church. So what if i'm not a virgin and have done those things? Its in my past. Every Christian is a sinner and has a past. I know i tend to be contradictory sometimes, but i'm only human, and we aint perfect


TooColdUlrick: You dont know me. You cant have any say in saying that i am irrational. So what if i am thinking of marriage at 18? I dont plan on getting married until i'm 23 or 24. I know i'm not dumb, but hey, at least i'm not brainwashed by my penis or society or the media or the porno industry. Maybe I'll wait till marriage but he won't? and when did you exactly meet my bf? Tell me, I'd love to know if you know him.

and if i'm a girl, then you are simply a boy.

 

[MetalFortress]

Originally posted by ( . )( . )
why?, hey do men tell you "think about other options" when your moods change when your menstruating (a natural occurence for a woman), of course not so why should a man change a perfectly natural NATURAL NATURAL thing for us.

and we call them AFCs or men with low sex drives.

give it up sweety,your digging yourself even deeper just swallow your pride and admit your wrong, and like i said before i understand your a chick and youve never been pointed out the non AFC way and you probably believe that sh1t you posted so your hardly to blame, your just a victim of society and the media, something we all used to be.

thats why its very important for you to think before you post here and just listen to some of these guys for awhile before you chime in, perhaps read the DJ bible.

You remind me of the one character in Animal Farm, Trotter, I'm sure the name was. Seriously, do you know ANYTHING other than the SS "party line"? You sound like a propaganda machine who was kicked out of Russia after the USSR fell

 

[Spike_the_cowboy]

Your lips are moving, but all I hear is "blah blah blah."

I may be human,
but I'm not a half crazed lier like some.

If you want to argue on into infinity, fine.
But you can do it with someone else,
because i don't have time to explain everything to you,
little miss.

You came here guns blazing,
calling guys names (myself included) and
spouting alot of BS that you yourself can not even keep straight.
Now you've realised you might have been wrong,
but you are still unwilling to accept that fact.

After all, you figure that you can just continue on with your little schrade
and get some much needed attention out of it.
Nothing wrong with that-- you're only hurting yourself there.

Well, i'm sure some guys here are ready and willing to
kiss your a$$ in the hopes of getting some attention from you
(i'm not naming names). But I am not one of them.

Why not bother your 'army man' for a change,
isn't he giving you enough attention as it is?
Don't answer. I'm not listening anyways.

[Ears covered]

La La la la lalala laaaaaa~

 

[( . )( . )]

Originally posted by MetalFortress
You remind me of the one character in Animal Farm, Trotter, I'm sure the name was. Seriously, do you know ANYTHING other than the SS "party line"? You sound like a propaganda machine who was kicked out of Russia after the USSR fell

and you sound like some confused AFC over at girlproblems defending the precious flowers honour, i mean who cares if the precious flower is speaking absolute and utter bullsh1t and echos an episode of felicity or friends we still must fight the right, forget what works and what doesnt because that doesnt count when the flowers are involved

so some captain save a hoe has an issue with hearing something thats been said before and if all goes well will be heard again, thats your problem i spose

btw your first post made you sound like a chick just so you know, but i couldnt be a$$ed replying to it before, so i may aswell mention it now.

and if i cared enough i would tell you suck my hairy balls, but ehhhh fvck it, you got my point.

 

[LuvMyArmyMan]

Originally posted by ( . )( . )
and you sound like some confused AFC over at girlproblems defending the precious flowers honour, i mean who cares if the precious flower is speaking absolute and utter bullsh1t and echos an episode of felicity or friends we still must fight the right, forget what works and what doesnt because that doesnt count when the flowers are involved

so some captain save a hoe has an issue with hearing something thats been said before and if all goes well will be heard again, thats your problem i spose

btw your first post made you sound like a chick just so you know, but i couldnt be a$$ed replying to it before, so i may aswell mention it now.

and if i cared enough i would tell you suck my hairy balls, but ehhhh fvck it, you got my point.

wow, i guess all my literature teachers were right about the whole Madonna(or Virgin Mary)/wh0re complex. Its not OK for me to have a past, and to not want to have sex now? So, once i do have sex, i cant ever stop? I cant ever want to wait for marriage, and the man i'm waiting with is a chump for doing so? you talk as if this is an easy decision, and that its not hard not to have sex.

Well, thats BS, sonny.

you are spewing BS outta your mouth right now. So, i'm not even going to bother anymore. I'm not some dumb, virginal cvnt, who thinks that marriage is going to be all flowers and fairy-tale like, and its the right thing to do to wait for my husband so he can take my virginity.

Well, virginity, as well as chilvary, is dead.

(ps i know some still wait, but its rare)