I don't think the issue is to do with over analyzing...
What Players do and other guys don't is really quite simple if you think about it...
They Don't Attach Themselves To the Outcome!
It is as simple as that. If it happens.. it happens... they are not worried.. If she likes you.. Great! If she doesn't.. Next.. That is all.. there is nothing else to it... Who cares if she calls you? When she calls you.. did you say that right or should you have said something else instead.. blah.. blah.. if it works... good.. if not.. move on..
Don't fret about the outcome.. Just go with the flow...