I think there is much truth in the original post. I have long advocated reading romance novels if you want to understand female desire, plus they only take a couple of hours to read.
Even better, buy this collection of old Marvel romance comics
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0785120890/002-5955771-0491201?v=glance&n=283155
There you will see the kind of men women fantasize about, unflappable, arrogant, fun, masterful and often cruel. And a key word - vulnerable.
Seduction teqhniques usually appropriate the behaviour of this ideal man, ****y & funny being a prime example. However, as Destini says, is a woman suspects that it is an act she will have less respect for you than for an AFC.
This is why 'inner game' is the key to long-term success, and I agree with Destini again, women are prepared to do the work and most men are not. They generally put their energy into changing themselves in a way that will give them the edge over their rivals, whether it's plastic surgery or giggling cutely, while men are competing over who has the biggest car or is toughest, elements associated with alphaness but not paramount.
Women want to be charmed, but can you learn charm? I think some people are born naturals and some have to work at it, but it is certainly possible to hone and master your gifts to become the best you can be (whatever that means to you) while being aware of the male-female dynamics so that you can control the frame (as women desire) and avoid shyt-tests, etc.
I'd say that before finding this site I had a solid inner game, mostly natural but improved by trial and error, but missing a complete understanding of the female psyche. Thus I was still vulnerable to having my buttons pressed, or unaware of how non-alpha behaviour might reflect on me, and the consequences thereof.
There is a wealth of knowledge on this site, the Bible especially, and the wise reader will focus on how he can use it to improve himself and understand the opposite sex, not search for some magic technique. But for a beginner, those techniques can give results that point in the right direction.
Destini's major gripe is that a real alpha is a natural, and would not need to come here. yes, and us men want to believe that a beautiful woman wakes up looking a 10, but we know that's rarely the case but in the absence of the Miss Perfect we will settle for Miss-Still-Eminently-****able and count our blessings. Likewise, in this world of AFC men expending all their effort trying to attract women the wrong way, anyone who reminds a woman of their archetypal fantasy figure will have a major head start.
In summary - fake it til you make it.
