The Second Date?

[bignick79]

Hey Guys!

I went out with this girl, we went dancing with a bunch of her friends, we had a good time. I never really danced salsa before, but she told me she was impressed that i wasn't shy about getting out there. I waited 3 days and talked to her. Now, my question is, how long do i wait for the second date? Should i skip this weekend and wait for next weekend? Or do i need to strike now?

PS-I believe her interest level is high right now, she called me sexy and cutie and all that stuff.

Big Nick

 

[bignick79]

come on guys!! help me out!!

 

[jakeyboy]

call her now.. or whenever you can and make a date for the weekend... build up the IL some more... then you can tease her if you want.

 

[Ice Cold]

Isolate, hug and kiss. This weekend is good. Next weekend is good.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

What's going on with so many guys asking about how long to wait before you call her, ask for another date, kiss her, whatever???...

Just one thing comes to mind: Guys, you need to find more things to do in your life. If you had more interests, you wouldn't really need to 'wait,' you'd be too busy to call right away. You'd just call when you had the time, kinda spur of the moment.

I just think that playing the waiting game is a waste of time. Mind you being a stalker and calling her every other hour doesn't cut it either but come on, isn't playing that game a lot like what that book "The Rules" told women to do to men? Didn't THAT suck??!! Why should be stoop to playing the same game?

Just something to consider.

 

[bignick79]

i called her up and i told her lets go to the pier, she said she didnt have any plans, but she would call me and let me know?? whats up with that??

Big Nick

 

[jakeyboy]

uh oh. you should have said

"never mind... we'll meet up sometime when you're more sure of your schedule"

by saying that she'll call you to let you know... she's leaving you on a string. and you'll fall anytime she decides to cut the string. dont let her do that. be a man. stand up for yourself. dont accept any less than "yes"