The Rules Of The Game

Brother_Rapp

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1) It’s always best to sit down and negotiate a relationship with a gal in a business manner. Both of you should honestly say what you expect from the other in the way of sex (how much and how often). If the trade offs ain’t worth it, you will have found out then instead of after you have spent your money and time, while you’re thinking one thing and she’s thinking something else. You two can then part as friends, if things ain’t right. No harm done.
 

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This advice is ridiculous.


Really, instead of turning it into the boardroom, you gotta get a feel for it. By 'negotiating', you've basically turned sex into a routine. That won't bode well for the relationship at all.
 

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Interesting concept. Negotiating and eleminating expectations by laying things out makes sense in a contractual sense, but how would you go about bringing it up? It's not the norm and I'm guessing most women will be surprised if not taken aback by the subject.
 

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I will debate any of the 99 rules of the game with anyone. I will not respond to those that may resort to name calling or personally attacking me. Right now, I got to go kick some a** on the pool table. I'll catch you guys later. If any of you would like to add to the PIMP rules, throw it out there. I'm not perfect and I don't have all the answers.
 

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Originally posted by Luveno
This advice is ridiculous.


Really, instead of turning it into the boardroom, you gotta get a feel for it. By 'negotiating', you've basically turned sex into a routine. That won't bode well for the relationship at all.
I agree that it isn't something that I would do but I am definitely curious on how BR would go about attempting to bring it up and executing it as a business-like contract.

Y'know, it does sound a bit like picking up a hooker but that's not to be a slam to BR. The downfall of most relationships is when one person isn't living up to the others expectations. One way to resolve this is not to leave anything unsaid or expected. One can question it's effectiveness though.
 

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Not bad!

Originally posted by Brother_Rapp
1) It’s always best to sit down and negotiate a relationship with a gal in a business manner. Both of you should honestly say what you expect from the other in the way of sex (how much and how often). If the trade offs ain’t worth it, you will have found out then instead of after you have spent your money and time, while you’re thinking one thing and she’s thinking something else. You two can then part as friends, if things ain’t right. No harm done.
My approach is a little different in the sense that I indirectly do this. I like to tell them about my expectations through storytelling and illustrating how women have both turned me off and pleased me in the past. I get her to open up as well and we communicate our expectations without feeling like we should be wearing suits.

You def got the right mindset BR...looking forward to more of these.
 

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First off, I would NEVER screw a gal that I've just met. One night stands ain't even in the picture with me. Not now and not when I was in the game.

"The Rules of The Game" is a collection of principals that I used to guide by way through the pimp world. They didn't just drop out of the sky all at once. Some became just common sense. Others were from experiences both good and bad. Thery weren't handeds down or pulled from any book except the one that I wrote and probably can't advertise on this forum. If anybody wants to do some studying up ahead, then go to pimphop.com "Get Educated Thread" then go down to The Writings of Brother Rapp.


That said, let me get back on point. If I meet a gal at a bar or out and about, I may give her my number. I really don't see any point in getting a gal's number off the bat. For what? I want her to show me that she has some interest in me. The fact that I gave her my number is that i feel that I may want to talk to her. She should feel blessed that I did that. When I went out, I had the thought in my brain that I had 7 girls at my crib that I had to screw that night. That wasn't the truth, but it was my mind set. Sex was all the way out of my brain for when I might meet somebody.

See a gal will give a guy the sex to distract him from her faults. When people go out, they show their best. I want to know how much trouble comes with that sex. So a gal might call me and I'd suggest going for a cup of coffee and conversation. We find out about each other when the alcohol ain't there to cloud shyt. Both of us are thinking straight.

Bouncing questions of the wall was my specialty. Here's an example. My #1 son had been screwing this gal while he was in a long term relationship with this other gal.
I pulled him off to the side and said in an excited voice that the new gal said that she was pregnant and that it was his. I asked him what he wanted to do about it. He said that she had been screwing some other guys so he felt that it would be easy to put it off on one of them. What I really wanted to know was if he was screwing with out a rubber and if I had asked him about it directly, he may have lied. Bouncing questions of the wall got me what I wanted. I went off on that boy and preach aboutr diseases that he could transfer to his gal. I told him that he would have to tell his gal if he got burnt so she could get treatment. Anyway, I think that you get the jest of what I'm saying. There are ways to find out what you want to know about somebody if you just take the time to figure out the right questions.

On to expectations. If this is a professional lady of leisure, then the only reason that she’s talking to me is that she is considering choosing me as her pimp, male representative or whatever you want to call it. If this is the case, then it’s really a business meeting. I want to know about her police record, what court appearances she might have to make, kids that she might have, a guy she might have to escape from, drugs she likes and where she’s working. The hardest thing to find out is her true physical status. She just might be on the way into the hospital. If you accept as gal all her money is yours. But that’s only half of it. All her problems are yours as well. If she’s got court cases, you’ve got to pay for the lawyers. If she’s on her way into the hospital, you got to help with any of her kids, doctor bills, and whatever else that she might need while she’s laid up. Where do you think that money is going to come from? She’s not making it. It comes from other sources which might mean money from drugs you might be selling. It comes from other gals you might be pimping. It comes from a square job you might be working. Every gal has to pay her own way whenever possible. Your other gals ain’t going to smile too friendly on you while you take money from them and cover the new gal’ a**. They could look at you as if you’re a chump and pyssy whipped. Now you’re going to have trouble with them.

So if you accept this gal, you should ask her for some choosin’ money. Choosin money is a commitment on the gals part so that you ain’t out of pocket on expenses both seen and unforeseen by taking this gal. If this gal has a guy you can come back and say that she’s paying you. You got her money now. So she ain’t his no more. Now either he can take it like a gentleman and up her clothes like he should are get dirty about it. That’s why you ask her up front, if she has a guy. I never told a gal that we could not be together. I generally had a feel for what a gal could make on different locations. How much I felt that I wanted to be bothered determined my price. If I didn’t want to be bothered, I’d set a price that I knew she couldn’t reach. Then the shyt was on her, not me. If I felt that I was getting a good deal, then I’d just think up what I felt that she could make over a few days work. If she was new to the game and I had to turn her out, the price didn’t just have to be in money. It would be in the performance of something that she couldn’t take back. I’d make her burn her bridges behind her or sign her car over to me or something.


Now we get to the square gal that calls me. There’s a great lesson to be learn from a thread on pimphop.com about an interview done with a guy named Tariq K- Flex Nasheed. It’s under the “Young Bucks” portion. It runs it down how women are attention whyres. Attention for a woman is like a nut. Why would you want to give it to her for free. But you might not be trying to turn a gal out. You just might want a long-term square relationship with her. Excuse me while I throw up. …. I’m back. Under the “Get Educated” thread , go don’t to “Dating Is For Symps”. Player Supreme gives out some good shyt on that and being an alpha male. Check it out. On page 2 of “Get Educated” Player Supreme goes into “How To Stop Paying For Dates With Women”. Make sure your train does a pit stop there as well. Player Supreme and I do not agree on everything. But when he speaks, I am more then happy to listen.

Now that you’ve been out with this gal a few times. Or luckily have had some inexpensive moments when you two can talk, it’s time to get down to the shyt. You’ve done talked about all the bullshyt. Now ask her about her past relationships and what went wrong. Discuss yours and what went wrong. You were like this and she was like that with expectations of this and that. This conversation will lead you into what her expectations of a relationship should be. Think about how you’re going to guide this SPECIAL CONVERSATION before you have it. All of this has to happen before you ever have sex with this gal. Then if it ain’t like what you want, then drift away from her. If you screw her, and she really isn’t what you want, she’ll be blocking all the other possibilities that may come your way. Screwing can be like Russian roulette, in that anything can happen. If you’re eating her out, you could get herpes of the mouth. You know those cavities in your teeth have blood outlets. You can’t put a rubber on your mouth. And while I’m at it, use a rubber all the way up to when you say I do. Fyck her saying that she’s on the pill or that she’s clean don’t you trust me crap. Your come back is that you’re saying the real feeling for when you’re married. It’s a play on that virgin after married shyt that gals throw on you.


So that’s RULE # 1. Any debate? Any questions? If we beat a dead horse into the ground, we’ll never make it to RULE # 99. I’ll be 59 next month. I could just up and die on you guys any day. Then what??
 

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Why would anybody take advice from the guy who advocates beating the crap out of a woman who merely hits him once or embarasses him in public? While those are not okay, that also doesn't make it okay to do to women what Barry Bonds does to baseballs.

Go away and get banned. You're lame, and you make other traditional-marriage advocates look bad with your wife beater talk.
 

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I like some of this. Send the next 98!
 

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
Why would anybody take advice from the guy who advocates beating the crap out of a woman who merely hits him once or embarasses him in public? While those are not okay, that also doesn't make it okay to do to women what Barry Bonds does to baseballs.

Go away and get banned. You're lame, and you make other traditional-marriage advocates look bad with your wife beater talk.
I tried to warn brother_rapp AKA Player supreme but he refuses to play nice with the other DJ's here. He got banned again. He has a lot of potential but he also has a lot of anger issues that he needs to address.
 

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Originally posted by Paradox
I tried to warn brother_rapp AKA Player supreme but he refuses to play nice with the other DJ's here. He got banned again. He has a lot of potential but he also has a lot of anger issues that he needs to address.
I agree about the anger issues...and because I also agree that he has a lot of potential if he can work through that anger, I started setting up the second Workshop (Control of Anger and Aggression) on the LTR forum with Brother_Rapp in mind. Here is the link (I know he'll see it here)

http://jconserv.net/djltr/viewtopic.php?t=58
 

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women are more likey to lay down the law down the like Rapp is suggesting. I've had women tell me flat out what they refuse to deal with in a man.

If you can find a smooth way to do this, it really is a good idea. It plays into having her live up t o your standards.
 

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