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Don Juan
I know some of you guys had been talking about girls that date according to that book called "The Rules"...I thought I'd compile some of the wisdom I've got from this site and make one for the guys. Feel free to add as you see fit.
“The Rules”
Male Version
Dealing with Women
· Most of the girl you can approach on the street/in a club/at the mall, you will never see again. That means you have nothing to lose.
· My favorite line “Hey there. I saw you and wanted to see if you were interesting. I’m ____, what’s your name?”
· Never ever EVER date a woman you work with. Discreet sex is pushing it, just use your head.
· Always retain control in a relationship. You call the shots and are at the steering wheel. Control = power.
· Never apologize for something that a girl caught you doing. If a girl finds out something embarrassing about you that is private, turn it around on her. Accuse her of not trusting you.
· Never let a girl play games. If you call her phone and one of her friends answers and you don’t know it’s her, or her friends get on her screen name and talk **** as her, that is unacceptable. Let her know that.
· Don’t always be available to hang out or answer her calls. In fact, answer the phone every other time she calls, or less.
· If you are harder to get a hold of or hang out with, the girl will value your time/attention a lot more.
· If you make eye contact with a girl and she returns your smile, that is a good sign. She is interested. Go talk to her. If she does it again, that means she’s even more interested. Why aren’t you talking to her yet?
· Sometimes the best way to get attention from a girl is to ignore her. Talk to other people, go somewhere else in the room.
· Use your attention as a drug. Alternate, switch things up. One weekend give her the time of her life. The next, be unavailable.
· Going up and talking to that gorgeous girl means you’ve won half the battle. The majority of guys don’t even have the balls. Give yourself a pat on the back.
· Don’t ever have to qualify yourself to a woman. Make her prove her worth to you.
· She’s a woman, not an assassin. She’s not going to break your neck for going to talk to her.
· Walk with your back straight and your head high. Have a strong stride and make eye contact with people.
· Don’t give up if she says she has a b/f…ask her when the marriage is. She’ll probably laugh and say, “we’re not engaged”. Then tell her, “it can’t be that serious, we can still hang out sometime”.
· No girl is perfect, or above being human. She still craps the same as you, hell, she gets sweaty and dirty, she looks bad without her makeup, she gets sick the same, etc. She isn’t this supermodel sexy goddess 24/7.
· Watch out for yourself. You are more important than any girl. Remember that next time you feel the tendency to put a girl on a pedestal.
· When a girl asks you how many sex partners you’ve had, the answer is “that’s private”.
· See rejection as a good thing. Why on Earth would I say that? Because she saved you time and stress by weeding herself out as a ****ty-quality girl. Makes it easier to find the one’s you’re looking for.
· If a girl hangs up on you on the phone, that is it. Game over. Make her crawl back to you. Just make sure she didn’t genuinely get disconnected by her cell-phone service.
· On the same note, if a girl stands you up, game over. That is disrespectful.
· Don’t ever let a girl disrespect you. If she does, next her.
· Don’t obsess over one girl. Have multiple girls to prevent that.
· If you think she is playing games or giving you mixed signals to mess with your head, WALK AWAY. Your absence will make her reveal her true interests. If she was truly interested, she’ll initiate some form of contact.
· Don’t be afraid of your sexuality. Embrace it. Women want sex as much, if not more, than men.
· When you touch a girl, DON’T look at your hand. This conveys that you’re not so confident about touching her.
Evaluating her Interest
· You don’t work for a girl’s approval to hang out with you or give you her number. You work to see if she’s good enough for YOU, if she’s good enough to be a bigger part of your life. It’s not you that must be worthy, it’s HER.
· Don’t second guess yourself. Instead of sweating what you are doing (OMG did I say the right thing? Is my hair perfect), READ what she is doing (She’s laughing at everything I say...she’s poking me playfully). Is she someone you’d want to spend more time with, judging by the way she acts towards you?
· If she doesn’t put out an effort to look nice when you take her out, that’s something to notice. Is she wearing a sexy skirt and heels? Or is she going out in sweatpants, a t-shirt, and no makeup?
· You are looking for quality. You are testing for quality. Not second guessing yourself.
· Read her eyes and facial expressions. If she looks like she wants to be somewhere else, or she isn’t into your conversation, bail out. It’s a lost cause.
· You can’t build attraction that isn’t there to begin with. It’s easier to find a new girl that likes you from the start than to change a *****y one into your slave.
· Don’t be afraid to walk away. There are more women on earth than men, odds are in your favor.
· Always remember, your personal happiness is # 1. Don’t sacrifice it to suit her.
The Phone Game
· My model for getting the #: “Well hey, I had fun talking to you, but I gotta run. Let me get your number and I’ll give you a call sometime.”
· Get the phone number the first time you talk to her, if at all possible.
· Always waits 3-5 days to call a girl after getting her number.
· Never call a girl for the first time on a Friday or Saturday.
· Call a girl at most 2 times. First time, leave a message with your name and number, and where you met her. If no response, call back a week later. No response? Next her.
· If when you call her the 1st time, she doesn’t know who you are, next her.
· When talking to her on the phone for the first time, don’t talk more than 10-15 minutes.
· Try to be the one to end the conversation. Even if you don’t have to go, say you do.
· If you have already been on a date, then you don’t leave voicemails any more. Makes her wonder about why you called, and she has to call you back to find out.
“The Rules”
Male Version
Dealing with Women
· Most of the girl you can approach on the street/in a club/at the mall, you will never see again. That means you have nothing to lose.
· My favorite line “Hey there. I saw you and wanted to see if you were interesting. I’m ____, what’s your name?”
· Never ever EVER date a woman you work with. Discreet sex is pushing it, just use your head.
· Always retain control in a relationship. You call the shots and are at the steering wheel. Control = power.
· Never apologize for something that a girl caught you doing. If a girl finds out something embarrassing about you that is private, turn it around on her. Accuse her of not trusting you.
· Never let a girl play games. If you call her phone and one of her friends answers and you don’t know it’s her, or her friends get on her screen name and talk **** as her, that is unacceptable. Let her know that.
· Don’t always be available to hang out or answer her calls. In fact, answer the phone every other time she calls, or less.
· If you are harder to get a hold of or hang out with, the girl will value your time/attention a lot more.
· If you make eye contact with a girl and she returns your smile, that is a good sign. She is interested. Go talk to her. If she does it again, that means she’s even more interested. Why aren’t you talking to her yet?
· Sometimes the best way to get attention from a girl is to ignore her. Talk to other people, go somewhere else in the room.
· Use your attention as a drug. Alternate, switch things up. One weekend give her the time of her life. The next, be unavailable.
· Going up and talking to that gorgeous girl means you’ve won half the battle. The majority of guys don’t even have the balls. Give yourself a pat on the back.
· Don’t ever have to qualify yourself to a woman. Make her prove her worth to you.
· She’s a woman, not an assassin. She’s not going to break your neck for going to talk to her.
· Walk with your back straight and your head high. Have a strong stride and make eye contact with people.
· Don’t give up if she says she has a b/f…ask her when the marriage is. She’ll probably laugh and say, “we’re not engaged”. Then tell her, “it can’t be that serious, we can still hang out sometime”.
· No girl is perfect, or above being human. She still craps the same as you, hell, she gets sweaty and dirty, she looks bad without her makeup, she gets sick the same, etc. She isn’t this supermodel sexy goddess 24/7.
· Watch out for yourself. You are more important than any girl. Remember that next time you feel the tendency to put a girl on a pedestal.
· When a girl asks you how many sex partners you’ve had, the answer is “that’s private”.
· See rejection as a good thing. Why on Earth would I say that? Because she saved you time and stress by weeding herself out as a ****ty-quality girl. Makes it easier to find the one’s you’re looking for.
· If a girl hangs up on you on the phone, that is it. Game over. Make her crawl back to you. Just make sure she didn’t genuinely get disconnected by her cell-phone service.
· On the same note, if a girl stands you up, game over. That is disrespectful.
· Don’t ever let a girl disrespect you. If she does, next her.
· Don’t obsess over one girl. Have multiple girls to prevent that.
· If you think she is playing games or giving you mixed signals to mess with your head, WALK AWAY. Your absence will make her reveal her true interests. If she was truly interested, she’ll initiate some form of contact.
· Don’t be afraid of your sexuality. Embrace it. Women want sex as much, if not more, than men.
· When you touch a girl, DON’T look at your hand. This conveys that you’re not so confident about touching her.
Evaluating her Interest
· You don’t work for a girl’s approval to hang out with you or give you her number. You work to see if she’s good enough for YOU, if she’s good enough to be a bigger part of your life. It’s not you that must be worthy, it’s HER.
· Don’t second guess yourself. Instead of sweating what you are doing (OMG did I say the right thing? Is my hair perfect), READ what she is doing (She’s laughing at everything I say...she’s poking me playfully). Is she someone you’d want to spend more time with, judging by the way she acts towards you?
· If she doesn’t put out an effort to look nice when you take her out, that’s something to notice. Is she wearing a sexy skirt and heels? Or is she going out in sweatpants, a t-shirt, and no makeup?
· You are looking for quality. You are testing for quality. Not second guessing yourself.
· Read her eyes and facial expressions. If she looks like she wants to be somewhere else, or she isn’t into your conversation, bail out. It’s a lost cause.
· You can’t build attraction that isn’t there to begin with. It’s easier to find a new girl that likes you from the start than to change a *****y one into your slave.
· Don’t be afraid to walk away. There are more women on earth than men, odds are in your favor.
· Always remember, your personal happiness is # 1. Don’t sacrifice it to suit her.
The Phone Game
· My model for getting the #: “Well hey, I had fun talking to you, but I gotta run. Let me get your number and I’ll give you a call sometime.”
· Get the phone number the first time you talk to her, if at all possible.
· Always waits 3-5 days to call a girl after getting her number.
· Never call a girl for the first time on a Friday or Saturday.
· Call a girl at most 2 times. First time, leave a message with your name and number, and where you met her. If no response, call back a week later. No response? Next her.
· If when you call her the 1st time, she doesn’t know who you are, next her.
· When talking to her on the phone for the first time, don’t talk more than 10-15 minutes.
· Try to be the one to end the conversation. Even if you don’t have to go, say you do.
· If you have already been on a date, then you don’t leave voicemails any more. Makes her wonder about why you called, and she has to call you back to find out.
