"The Rules" (Feminazi alert!)

[Alex DeLarge]

http://www.therulesbook.com/

I don't know if you guys have seen or heard about this feminist garbage, but it is a book for women which seems to be the equivalent of our DJ Bible, or "The Game".. Except in their book it teaches women how to trap a man into a relationship or marriage.. Completely emasculating men.

I really feel sorry for any sap that meets these amazons' standards for dating.. If I ever went over a chick's house and saw that load of garbage I would head right out the door. She can find "Mr. Right" to spoil her the rest of her life while she comes back to me to cheat on him when she's "bored".

This book is not necessarily womens' fault though. It is OUR fault for giving them the power to even think up such ridiculous things. This book is the result of failed relationships with wimpy betas, but also bad boy "alphas" (I don't see a bad boy as an alpha when it comes to an LTR) who were not reliable for them.

I would say if you ever see this book on your date or relationship partner's bookshelf.. Do her and yourself a favor and walk right out the door, unless you want to remain in the role of an emasculated wimp while with her. Good luck DJs!

 

[Johnnyventana]

A list of the "rules."

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Rules

 

[Alex DeLarge]

Good thing we have the DJ bible haha.. It pretty much tells us that most of these "rules" are a red flag. Yet, most betas and AFCs will fall for these stupid rules at the snap of the rules wh0re's fingers.

 

[Johnnyventana]

A guy running the bible and a chick running the rules would cause quite a cold war! Don't blink.

 

[Voice]

In terms of creating attraction I actually agree with most of these rules except for 12. Stop Dating Him if He Doesn't Buy You a Romantic Gift for Your Birthday or Valentine's Day which is the stupidest rule I've ever heard. If these were rules for guys they would probably work as well.

 

[omkara]

Basically by applying this rules, a woman will quickly filter out all potential suitors who have any self-respect or masculinity. And then they will wonder why they're not attracted to the neutered submissive guy that they end up with.

 

[Alex DeLarge]

-Don't Talk to a Man First (and Don't Ask Him to Dance)
-Don’t See Him More than Once or Twice a Week
-No More than Casual Kissing on the First Date
-Don't Rush into Sex, Wait at Least Three Dates
-Don't Tell Him What to Do
-Let Him Take the Lead
-Don't Expect a Man to Change or Try to Change Him
-Don't Date a Married Man
-Slowly Involve Him in Your Family & Other Rules for Women with Children
-Be a “Creature” Unlike Any Other

Those are a few that I agree with completely, but other than that it seems like most of this book is saying "This is how you get a man by the balls so he won't hurt you again".

 

[omkara]

34. Love Only Those Who Love You

So basically, don't show compassion to anyone unless you personally get something out of it. Yeah that's a really exalted way to live your life. And yet this is how most women act.

I run across women who run some version of these rules, consciously or unconsciously, and usually they're the hotter ones. Especially this:

19. Don’t Open Up Too Fast

Usually the only way I can carry on a conversation is if a woman gives me something to work with. But usually the attractive ones give me nothing to work with, but yet expect me to say something interesting otherwise they'll stop talking to me.

Essentially these rules = not being feminine, not doing your part in a relationship. If everyone followed these rules, then everyone would just act coldly towards each other. No one would ever initiate conversations or give attention to anyone. And they wouldn't like being ignored, so basically it's in violation of the Golden Rule.

 

[sexysuave]

Haha, I actually have this book, got it almost 10 years ago, just for the hell of it to see what kinda advice they're giving, since I read the guys advice as well. Then of course it was good to use against them when out with girls, and you can always say something fun like "ohhh, did you get that out of "the rules" .. or if you do soemthing with her, you can make fun of it by saying "hmmm, I think we better slow down, I dont' think this is accepted in your book "the rules" lol

 

[Strelok]

You guys should READ that stuff as much as strongly as the read the dj bible.

That's counter espionage, if you know the technique of your opponent you can plan better the answer and better yet realize the game you are playing.

Majority of battles in history has been won through information rather than the strengh of the army itself.

 

[Alex DeLarge]

You guys should READ that stuff as much as strongly as the read the dj bible.

That's counter espionage, if you know the technique of your opponent you can plan better the answer and better yet realize the game you are playing.

Majority of battles in history has been won through information rather than the strengh of the army itself.

Good perspective on this Strelok.. As for the gift buying, If you're in a steady relationship with the girl and exclusive.. Valentine's Day and Birthdays are completely acceptable. If it's just a girl you went on 2 or 3 dates with within a month, it's completely silly. I would buy her a drink on her birthday or something casual like that.

 

[wait_out]

Dating = Counter-espionage.

We're fu*ked lol

PS:

35. Be Easy to Live With

Bwahahaha