The rise of Snapchat

[Bingo-Player]

if your in that generation then snapchat trumps all other social media for macking chicks end of story

ive used it a couple of times to get laid and with a good rate of success too compared to say texting which is so rigid

its also good for buliding an element of trust & comfortablity especially if you can get her too start sending you nudes
(be carefull with that though)

 

[Young OG]

The original pua on this forum thought texting was a bad idea back in '03. Now it's a MANDATORY part of the game. Get with the program before it's too late.

This whole "attention *****" thing exists outside of snapchat. Snap itself is a whole new dynamic and the VAST majority of women use it. PLEASE trust me youngin, give it a shot. Let women see bits and pieces of you. Make yourself a mystery to them. I love it. Expand your game.

Youngin? I'm older then you lol. I have only had one woman so far offer snapchat instead of a number. For now, I'm going to stay away from it. Eventually, I may have to give into it, but I hope it's just a fad that dies over time.

 

[El Payaso]

Social media takes out the mystery of a woman wondering what you're up to when she's not around you. Women need and crave that wonder. If you don't give her that mystery, you start to become more common in her eyes.

On Snapchat, you might quickly become nothing but an e-orbiter to her.

 

[AllDay85]

Snapchat is not the social media network you think it is. It's a far different dynamic then facebook. Much more private and contained.

You can't become an orbiter if you're not checking their ****. Use it to text chicks for dates, gague interest, and post the occasional my story (assuming you actually do cool ****).

 

[Bingo-Player]

Social media takes out the mystery of a woman wondering what you're up to when she's not around you. Women need and crave that wonder. If you don't give her that mystery, you start to become more common in her eyes.

On Snapchat, you might quickly become nothing but an e-orbiter to her.

to be honest with you i really dont think it matters anymore 5 years ago maybey it would have been relevant

but now dating moves at the speed of light

women literally have so many options when it comes to men now ,

unless shes heavily invested in you she doesnt need to wonder what your up too

bill from payroll is falling over himself to take her out on an all expenses paid night out for godsake

 

[yungballa]

I hate snap chat. I hate social media in general. They're all just tools to inflate a woman's ego.

Snap chat is very dangerous. One time I was with one of these girls I was tryna game and she had MULTIPLE snaps of me; and this girl who liked me (I was tryna game her also) was all up in my texts telling me how she saw me in the other girl's Snapchat. Of course, I paid no mind to it since she ain't my girl friend.. the fvck.

Even if I am on social media, I really try my best not to be like the thirsty guys on IG and add to women's ego, cuz that fvcks everything up for everybody. It makes the female think she's some goddess and all the guys tryna get her are some dirty pigs.

Snapchat is definitely a tool for women to play around with multiple guys without getting caught. Social media is just the women's tool in general. I've seen it plenty of times with my friends; they have girls sending them nudes on Snapchat and have sexual conversations. This sh1t happens all the time.

The thing I hate the most is when people catch you off guard and post you on their story. It's very aggravating.

 

[AllDay85]

I hate snap chat. I hate social media in general. They're all just tools to inflate a woman's ego.

Snap chat is very dangerous. One time I was with one of these girls I was tryna game and she had MULTIPLE snaps of me; and this girl who liked me (I was tryna game her also) was all up in my texts telling me how she saw me in the other girl's Snapchat. Of course, I paid no mind to it since she ain't my girl friend.. the fvck.

Even if I am on social media, I really try my best not to be like the thirsty guys on IG and add to women's ego, cuz that fvcks everything up for everybody. It makes the female think she's some goddess and all the guys tryna get her are some dirty pigs.

Snapchat is definitely a tool for women to play around with multiple guys without getting caught. Social media is just the women's tool in general. I've seen it plenty of times with my friends; they have girls sending them nudes on Snapchat and have sexual conversations. This sh1t happens all the time.

The thing I hate the most is when people catch you off guard and post you on their story. It's very aggravating.

I like being in my story posts, it builds social proof.

But I totally agree, social media is destructive and inflates women's egos. But The thirsty guys on ig and snap etc, only make the don juan types that much more appealing as they don't like and obsess over women's attention grabs.

Social media, like hypergamy, isn't going anywhere. If we learn the game early though, we can use it to our advantage.

 

[AttackFormation]

But The thirsty guys on ig and snap etc, only make the don juan types that much more appealing as they don't like and obsess over women's attention grabs.

Social media, like hypergamy, isn't going anywhere. If we learn the game early though, we can use it to our advantage.

I don't think it's true that betas make djs more appealing. Djs have always been comparatively appealing. No, the difference is you simply won't register to them in the first place if you don't give them attention and giving them attention by default gives them the frame no matter if you're a dj or not. The only change is that they are less likely to value any one guy, especially before they've met and had (good) sex with him. It's purely negative.

You're right about that though - social media like hypergamy isn't going anywhere. I don't think it will ever be something that collectively benefits men, but I do agree that just like learning game in general, it's something you can use to make individual difference.

 

[om1xr]

Yeah social media and flirting/dating/hooking up apps are her to stay but I will stick to daygaming girls who I find attractive and that would be always a better choice and will give the person more fun and pleasure and fulfillment than online thing and online dating and Snapchat are not popular where I live anyway lol win/win I guess

 

[Fitters]

I update my story once every 3 days , I can go about a week before posting something.
Also I don't watch people's snaps as soon as they post them , usually the last to view them I guess.

About 4 girls , actually asked me why I post so little and they always look forward to my snaps. Rule is you can be like every guy and post funny stuff or you can be Mr. Discreet up to you . Just don't try to put on a whole new character ..they can read it so quick

 

[yungballa]

I like being in my story posts, it builds social proof.

But I totally agree, social media is destructive and inflates women's egos. But The thirsty guys on ig and snap etc, only make the don juan types that much more appealing as they don't like and obsess over women's attention grabs.

Social media, like hypergamy, isn't going anywhere. If we learn the game early though, we can use it to our advantage.

I don't think just because there are thirsty guys on social media that it benefits guys like us on these forums.

When women see a bunch of thirsty guys like that, some women put up guards around ALL men (because of the thirsty guys they feel like they are being stalked; harassed; etc etc). So then you've got a combination of a big ego + a woman guarding herself from all men; regardless if they are thirsty or not because she's seen large amounts of thirsty men going after her. Deadly combination. And because these women have a big ego (because of all the attention she gets via social media) and the guard that she now has up (because she now perceives most men as thirsty) she basically is more difficult to approach, and feels no need to even bother with guys at all. I don't see any benefits here, but this is just my opinion. You might see this differently, this is just the way I see it.

The fact that there are thirsty guys doesn't really give us the upper hand IN MY OPINION besides the fact that you can learn from them what to do and what not to do.