The right time to say "I love you"

[KKnight]

I dunno, might be weird question, but how do you know if you really love the person. Ive had my GF for 2.5 months and I'm just not sure if she's waiting fo rme to say it. I dunno if i should or wat, i do kinda love her but i dunno.

 

[B-Lemond]

NO you don't! 2.5 months? That's not long. Wait for her to say it first. What I did was I got her to say it first but she wisphered it and I pretended that I didn't hear her and I changed the subject. Later late at night, I look deep into her eyes and I tell her "I love you". That was the right time cause she wanted to say it to me but it looked like I said it first because I pretended not to hear her.

 

[Anomalous]

Hey, to me it just seems CHUMPING to tell her you love her under any circumstances. Thats just me what do you think?

 

[Best friends? NAY]

25th year of marriage.

 

[B-Lemond]

Originally posted by Best friends? NAY
25th year of marriage.

Hilarious!

 

[Zod]

If you love her say it, but I would suggest waiting till she does.

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

Originally posted by Best friends? NAY
25th year of marriage.

engrave it on your tombstone?

 

[MVP¤¥¤JI€GALO]

Personaly i dont think it would matter if u just say "i love you" ITs really bout the timin like if ur at a ballgame and ur sittin next to her all of a sudden u turn around and laythis on her then she might get alittle freak out. But if she went get u a pop and came back then u say somthing like "gosh did i tell u how much i love u when u buy me drinks?" anyhow if ur in a serious relationship right now i dont think it would matter. (but im not the kind of guy that say i love u straight up.)

 

[KKnight]

Thx for the replays. Yeah ill jsut wait for her to say it. It's pretty serious, i can see it lasting for a while. Also my first real realationship so i dont even know if i love her, tho its awfully close. Thx again

 

[benassi]

if you're not sure if you love her, you don't.. lol easy as that, you'll know it when it hits you, just wait it off ... i mean i told a girl i love her after 3 weeks of hookin up wit her (i said it 2 weeks ago) and like shes still flippin at me that i don't love her nd she wont say it back nd she feels like mad confused, idk, rofl, i thought she woudl take it like a normal person, so make sure u know wat the girls gonna react like otherwise ur gonna be trappin urself in a little hole =)

 

[i am me]

I'd wait til she says "I love you". Then you can say it too

 

[Big Eee Zee]

we had just gotten through a serious makeout session. I looked into her eyes for about five minutes, caressing her face. Then I leaned over and whispered it in her ear. She shivered, then hugged me tightly.

that is timing, my friend.

 

[Joe The Homophobe]

NEVER SAY I LOVE YOU!

real men don't go around telling their women they love them! you're just a high school kid for crying out loud and you been with your gf for 2 months and you want to tell her you love her?

haven't you read the dj bible? you're not supposed to say I love you! people here will tell you otherwise but just remember most people in this forum are posers who never even had a gf and only act like djs in this forum! those in the dj bible are real djs!

handle it like a dj
her: I love you
You: I know

 

[jenzos]

Originally posted by Joe The Homophobe

handle it like a dj
her: I love you
You: I know

it doesnt get better then that right there gentlemen.

 

[Anomalous]

Originally posted by Joe The Homophobe
people here will tell you otherwise but just remember most people in this forum are posers who never even had a gf and only act like djs in this forum! those in the dj bible are real djs!

handle it like a dj
her: I love you
You: I know

It's kind of sad to see a master don juan on here asking a basic question about girls!!

I mean if your here long enough to get to a master, you would think that you know something about DJ'ing.

Her: I love you
Me: Your not the only one.
: I get that a lot.
: Pick a number.
: Me too. ............. (Pause)............... look at her deep in her eyes, and say "I love myself too"



EDIT: Almost forgot one of my favs.

Her: I love you
Me: Who doesn't!

 

[Joe The Homophobe]

Originally posted by whyshy

Her: I love you
Me: Your not the only one.
: I get that a lot.
: Pick a number.
: Me too. ............. (Pause)............... look at her deep in her eyes, and say "I love myself too"

EDIT: Almost forgot one of my favs.

Her: I love you
Me: Who doesn't!

Now THAT is ****y & Funny!

 

[brenbaus]

heres some more

Why wouldnt you?

Thats whats wrong with you

Thanks

So do I

 

[08aisaac]

While all this is great and all, there is no right or wrong time to say "I love you".

I usually wait till I love a girl, before I say anything about love. They will usually say it before I do though.

But I don't just 'fall' in love. I actually love a girl before I say it. I might love her like a friend, and then I will say it, or I might not say it, because it might make things too tense, and put sexual tension on the relationship.

If you love a girl as more, and you know she does, it should be ok to tell her so, but not everyday, or all the time. Of course, if you love a girl, but are stupid, just keep your mouth shut. If she is stupid, and you are stupid, you are going to regret saying I love you.

Of course your 'I love you's can be mutual, and then you don't have to say anything, and can assume that you both love each other.

But most people think they are in love, and are in fact, not in love. It's hard to tell. Most people aren't the famous INTP personality type that I am. You really have to meditate, and consider if you are in love, but most people are too stupid to tell if they are in fact in love.