The reason why most of you are b*tches on this site.

[Fatal Jay]

It is a fine line on this website to where you can tell who are the real DJ's and who are the pu$$ies. I will give you proof, when it come to the vets on here, notice when they make threads about a chick who flaked, ignored, or never got back to him, he just walked it off and campaign to the next plate without complaining or blaming the entire race of women.

Then you go to the failed rookie, asking questions about if he still has a chance after she flaked, or that he is pissed at women for flaking, or is asking the question to why he can't get a woman or why he can't get laid. Listen up rookie, every male and I do mean every male has a dry spell, but if you stay cool and walk it off and don't blame the woman you will have another plate in no time.

Women are going to flake, no matter who you are, unless you are famous or known as a guy with a load of money. Deal with that, your not the only dude on the planet who is not getting chosen. Take a lesson from the vets, the more you get flaked the better, sharper, and more focus you are. You learn how to blow it off, and not blaming the entire race of women for one chick who wasn't worth your time in the first place.

Having a dry spell is a gift, it give you time to make & save more money, achieve workout goals, time to achieve peace and quiet, and hanging out with your buddies because trust me when your in a relationship your going to spend money, you won't have much time for working out, that peace and quiet is gone due to the woman bull$hit rant and baby arguments, and hanging out with your buddies will be criticized more and more.

It's too many b^tches on this site. Only women make the opposite sex their world, not men. Not real men at least.

 

[LorenzoVonM]

Most of these questions about women would never be asked if people were complete within themselves. It took me a long time to make that realization and I am still transforming to this day. Some will do it quicker, some slower, some not at all. Its all how much pain and suffering you are willing to put up with. And the realization that ultimately you are in control of your happiness, not something external to yourself.

 

[Fatal Jay]

Most of these questions about women would never be asked if people were complete within themselves. It took me a long time to make that realization and I am still transforming to this day. Some will do it quicker, some slower, some not at all. Its all how much pain and suffering you are willing to put up with. And the realization that ultimately you are in control of your happiness, not something external to yourself.

You nailed it on the head bro. Women flaking is the natural order of things, every guy has been through it. You can use flaking to your advantage, it can turn you into a better you, it can show you what to look out for in the future.

 

[Atom Smasher]

Good post, Jay, even if a bit rough around the edges.

I'm pretty sure you're throwing some tough love, recognizing that most of the men who come here are clueless and in need of some major reframing, the very purpose for this site.

I like the way you point out that the reader is not the only one, that we are all in the same boat.

I think much of men's turmoil comes from the illusion that they are the only one who deals with rejection, flaking, disrespect, etc. We should remind ourselves more of this very fact. It's critically important that men stop personalizing this and instead move through the world from an internal locus of control.

Excellent contribution.

 

[zekko]

Excellent contribution.

Agreed, good post.

 

[Purefilth]

True story.

i have plenty of dry spells, but thats because I wont supplicate and bend over.

Im not afraid to lose access to some chicks pvssy. So yeah - I'll walk away and have a dry spell rather than be someones B!tch.

 

[Iceberg]

Agree with Fatal Jay. Particularly the part about:

when it come to the vets on here, notice when they make threads about a chick who flaked, ignored, or never got back to him, he just walked it off and campaign to the next plate without complaining or blaming the entire race of women.

If you're dating women, expect women to do women things. They flake. They send mixed messaged. They change moods. Blah blah. As a man who dates women, I accept that women are going to act like women.

So when I see these dudes on here talking about "Why are all women...blah blah blah." or "We need to take the power back and put women in their place, etc, etc." it comes off as a little....extreme.

A man who lives near the river accepts that there's going to be flooding. A man who lives in the desert knows that it's going to be hot. A man who dates women has to expect the issues that come with dating women. Blame gods. Blame estrogen. Blame whatever you want. But it isn't going to change a damn thing about the way things work. No more than complaining will help the man who lives near the river during a flood.

So the only thing you CAN change is your ability to work WITH or AROUND these issues.

 

[synergy1]

People who are getting laid won't complain about why women the way they are. People who aren't do the opposite. Sorry. Guys who are doing even okay with getting some action really don't care. That said, its a safe assumption that the majority of guys don't really pull all that often. The ones who do largely go ignored ...I kind of know who posts in the affirmative and pay more attention to them for advice and even new ideas.

What I don't get is that all the attention to women is focused on the negative. People dig up negative articles, post about only negative experiences, and thats it. Yet they gloss over when guys exhibit awful behavior towards women. Lets face it brothers, it takes TWO to tango. I myself have probably left more than a few women feeling like crap after not being interested and will not pretend to be innocent. Much is said about womens hypergamorous nature but thats again only because it stems from insecurities of losing their women to someone better. Maybe if said people had a lot of offer ( and I am sure people do), than the hypergamy game wouldn't be such a pervasive subject here.

Me personally I would rather learn what works better to get better at the game. I started out at zero and am always on the lookout for what works, and what doesn't.

 

[PlayHer Man]

The vast majority of men are beta fags. I've said it before.

Beta fags are men who "just don't get it" and often waste loads of time and money barking up the wrong tree, working themselves to poor health and idolizing phony alphas who are just as beta as them (Like actors, musicians and athletes). :crackup:

The female pedestal is the like the parental pedestal --> Its enforced and re-enforced constantly by society. All day, every day... in magazines, on the Internet, on TV, in movies, etc. Men are constantly told --> Women are Gods. Don't question them. You are abusive scum if you don't kiss their ass on a daily basis. They go through childbirth for Christ sake!!

It takes lots of inner strength, wisdom and integrity to go against the herd of sheep that is society. Most men just can't hack it.

True story.

i have plenty of dry spells, but thats because I wont supplicate and bend over.

Im not afraid to lose access to some chicks pvssy. So yeah - I'll walk away and have a dry spell rather than be someones B!tch.

 

[Smok1nAce]

i work with a bunch of women and almost all the men i work with gossip with the women and play into there games and look at me wired because i go in there do my job and leave and dont say much. The guy who is supposedly the "alpha" there, talks his mouth off and complains about everything and when his work gets to tough for him he ask me for help. Its very clique.