The reality for most of us

[Hamurabimbi]

I find that far more important than looks is the aura that a man projects. Women will actually think an interesting, bold and powerful man is 2 to 3 points higher than he actually is. Women’s perceptions are malleable.
Forget about perceived physical shortcomings and instead work on the aura you project.

I would say one’s ‘sexual vibe’ is very important. And while it is related to being attractive, there is no 1:1 correlation. If you look sexual, women will be openly sexual around you (well, some women). But, like most physical attributes, looking ‘sexual’ is a good degree innate.

 

[DonJuanjr]

I would say one’s ‘sexual vibe’ is very important. And while it is related to being attractive, there is no 1:1 correlation. If you look sexual, women will be openly sexual around you (well, some women). But, like most physical attributes, looking ‘sexual’ is a good degree innate.

How does one "look sexual" without looking try-hard, and how does one have a sexual vibe without coming off as a creep?

 

[Hamurabimbi]

How does one "look sexual" without looking try-hard, and how does one have a sexual vibe without coming off as a creep?

My comment was more descriptive than prescriptive.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Pick 2:

not mentally insane/not a single mom
Is attractive to the eyes
Lives within 20 miles

 

[BillyPilgrim]

How does one "look sexual" without looking try-hard, and how does one have a sexual vibe without coming off as a creep?

1) identifying and emulating archetypes

2) having sex (hire an escort if you have to) and practice mind control to manage your sense of frustration