Do you regret having a family?
I do not have a family currently. I am planning on it with the current GF, but we will see. As I said to her, she's not 100% in the clear. Still monitoring her on how she acts. Once bitten, twice shy type of deal.
Most people on this Forum (besides our Incel Legion) have the potential to easily be in the top 20% and possibly in the top 5% with enough work. If that isn't her first choice, well her standards are simply unrealistic.
Most standards by a female are unrealistic. It's probably why many relationships fail. A dude always needs to the attitude that he's willing to compromise, but he's also willing to leave the relationship/marriage should things get FUBAR'd.
This seems like a bad situation for all parties involved. It's a way to go through life without passion. A relationship without passion is bad, especially for women who are emotionally driven.
Life and relationships are about compromise dude.
