unless you are at a comfortable point in a relationship with a girl, its okay to talk about oral. if you just met a new girl, and your trying to get your d*ck sucked, do not ask. Unless shes just an out right freak, most girls dont want to give a first impression of being viewed as a slut. Ive had more success assuming they will do it instead of asking. lol, if your really having that much trouble i have one simple stupid trick. if you are lying on your back on the bed. Just tell her you love to be kissed around your stomach. if she helps you while your undoing your belt, then you might have a live one! TA DA, as stupid as it sounds it works! lol. Now all you got to do is grab her hair and ram it to the back of her throat! lol, just kiddin.