The Question of Virginity...

[someone800]

Sup guys,

I got a question on virginity...see, here's the thing, the other night, I did my first kiss with a girl visiting from out of town for a week (really hot, amazing, and I know her friend she's staying with who also now hates me because I stole her that night lol). This first kiss turned into an hour and a half long make-out session in the back of my car. At this point, I realised if I had brought condoms, I could have litterly lost my virginity if I wanted to that night. I plan to be hanging out with her another night soon, and I am having virginity questions run through my head.

See, I really, really, really, want to have sex-like really, really, really, bad. Like, really bad. Like, it's a primary thought of my life bad. I have condoms and everything, but see, what it comes down to is my morals.

See, I am technically not religious. I get to choose my own religion, and I plan to go for Christianity, but I am not baptized yet. However, mentally, I try to follow it.

What do I do being the type of person I am? See, currently, I have the state of mind of anything but penetrating the ***** is not losing your virginity. So, in other words, I want to fool around with girls but not have sex till mariage. That will either be something I regret later in life or am glad I did-I just don't know.

What are your guys' views on this?

Oh, by-the-way, last night, (night after), I backed into a car in a parking lot by accident. Yeah. Guess how big of a dumb-ass I felt like. I just wanted to throw this out there as that I had the best night of my life followed by one of the worst. Interesting way the world works, eh?

 

[lil hooligan]

have sex with her then get "forgiven" in the church confession booth, its all confidential
you know the "forgive me father for i have sinned..." line
thats what i'd do

 

[someone800]

have sex with her then get "forgiven" in the church confession booth, its all confidential
you know the "forgive me father for i have sinned..." line
thats what i'd do

On top of that, I got to point out that somewhere I saw that premerital sex is question by theologians or something in that it might not actually be bad...

 

[SinJester]

I know a lot of people who didn't believe in pre-maritial sex and got fcked up by it. They usually end up as 30 year old virgins who can't get girls in this day and age. You see the whole no sex before marriage crap is just religon trying to control you, when in fact sex is the most natural thing on Earth. Marriage is actually just historically the powerfull trying to control you so you only have one girl while they can pick from many, look it up. Now I'm not going to question you beliefs, if you want to go into a certain religion and obey it's rules that's fine, but I will share with you my beliefs.

People that stay virgins by choice end up with a huge disadvantage. Sex ends up a big deal and it can lead to you putting women on a pedestal. The thing is girls actually want sex as much as you do. If they can't get it from you they will probably find it from someone else. Once you have sex with a girl you get a lot more power over her, it's a big commitment from her. That's why all the big names in the pickup industry reccomend you have sex with her as soon as possible.

Really have a good think about this and what you really want. In my honest opinion taking up the beliefs of no sex before marriage will leave you at a huge disadvantage, especially in modern society. Some religious beliefs are actually somewhat inconpatiable with that of a DJs. However you have to make your own choice.

 

[Downman1]

yea I'm catholic and the are strictly against condoms and pre marital sex but i don't think in my mind that this is bad to have it with a condom. condoms have been around a lot longer than Christianity (gross intestines). how i figure this is because nothing should keep you from natural responses and urges and nothing should effect your health. the church also frowns on masturbation lol. Anyways i know this dumb ass kid who cums whenever he sees a hot chick because he doesn't jerk off. I think that if god were to frown on any thing it would be him.also masturbation helps prevent prostate cancer haha

 

[(JJ)]

not to pick sides but...

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=148263


lol. be careful out there.

 

[someone800]

not to pick sides but...

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=148263


lol. be careful out there.

Just read that before this reply-he didn't use protection. I might also point out that the night I first made out with this girl, I could have easily had sex-very easily. We were both completely naked and she was making extreme sexual movements on top of me as if we were actually doing it. I didn't do it though-I didn't bring condoms with me, so as much as I wanted to do it, I didn't want to accidently impregnate her.