Dammit, I posted a nice long reply and the forum ate it. So I'll be very brief this time. A lot my content got lost =[
Iqqi
The 'world' becomes a gender issue because ti is the only way we guys can get to Womaniverse. Don't be surprised of our parrallels of thought. I am plugged into Womaniverse, women are glad that I do, and I am happy that they are happy, so we both get a charge out of it.
For example, a woman decided she would explain to the world what an Alpha Male is. (
http://halleyscomment.blogspot.com/2003_01_19_halleyscomment_archive.html#90233115) The ending baffles all the male intellectuals. But she will sound very pookish, her conclusion is like the Fountain of Youth post.
Most girls that know me think I am gay because I get along with them 'too well'. The girls that don't know me think I am gay because they give me the green light and I'll go do something else. Hey, if a don juan tries to please ALL the women into him, he'd have no life of his own left!
Techniques
Check out this article on the demise of Playboy Magazine (Penthouse is already history). These quotes fit this discussion perfectly,
Technique has always been the cornerstone of the Playboy brand: The magazine's operating premise is the fantasy notion of a world of ultrasophistication out there somewhere, and buying into those bachelor lifestyle accoutrements is what gives you entree to it.
Much of 'Speed Seduction' and all is a very hyperized form of technqiue.
Technique is what will remedy your inadequacies; thus there are techniques for everything from dressing, dating, and picking wine to (of course) sex. There it is in the magazine's editorial tone: savvy, world-weary, slightly ironic, but reassuringly avuncular, too, as it dispenses technique. And there in the "Playboy Advisor," that oracle of technique. In recent issues readers have written in with questions like, "What's the proper angle for kissing?" and even for advice on masturbation techniques. (Are Playboy's readers so alienated from their own bodies that head-tilting and masturbating require technical assistance?)
We do not disagree about the solution. We disagree about the problem.
When I first came here, I thought the problem was that I could get no girls. So I gathered my technqiues and strategies and all that.
When I leave this forum, I will know my problem was dividing myself up, living my life artificialy.
It doesn't matter WHICH technique or 'system' is better than another. Crotch says it is like a bandaid. No, it is like smearing butter on an open burn. It may put out a relief at first but it causes more problems.
I was in the emergency room of the Don Juan hospital. I was in a coma of philosophy. I was spewing out all this nonsense of how 'rotten' the world was, and how evolution theories will explain the gross nature of women and life itself.
Once I awoke from all that, the doctors started reconnecting my dreams to my day. When they reconnected the 'man' part of me, I suddenly had a sense of self. When they reconnected the 'masculine' part of me, I started to look and act like a guy. When the doctors reconnected the 'youth' part of me, I had the happiness and playfulness of a child. Inevitably, my dork world slowly vanished as I became... more human.
No technqiue could put me where I am at now. I've always believed REAL Don Juans do not need to read message boards or manifestos. They just go out there and do it!
So I think that if you are still looking up things on the internet and constantly reading about women, a problem still exists and awaits to be snuffed out.
"What about you, Mr. Pook? You are still here."
Because I am not done myself. Almost, I still have a few more posts to go!
Society as Natural
Imagine if intellectuals decide to place their politics on the realm of society. They would say,
"We will pass a law to spread equality into our mating rituals."
Thus, we cannot discriminate when we select a mate.
Now, I discriminate ALL THE TIME when I pick girls. I discriminate against girls who have criminal records, girls who are not feminine, etc. Everyone does this. Everyone has their own traits. Yet, despite the absence of political dogma in the realm of sexuality, harmony ensues.
Now think of areas where harmony does NOT ensue. Think of China's one child poilcy. Think of wealthy nations' population decline. Think of a Nice Guy worried that he might 'hurt' the woman.
The problem is not our 'technqiues', it is our own mindset. The woman's viewpoint is not the problem, it is the solution. And the problem is not in the women, the problem is in US.
Look at the girls you DON'T like, the fat ones, the short chubby ones that read those anime comic books, the feminists, the b$tchy ones, they all are at war with their femininity, with their own nature. Oh, if they only let themselves BE WOMEN, how thrilling their lives would become!
It is the intellectual, the supposed 'genius' who thinks he can reccreate society. Look at this link
http://www.nytimes.com/2003/11/02/fashion/02SKIR.html
It is a guy trying to wear a skirt, trying to get guys to wear dresses like women wearing pants. This is the abonimations we get when we think masculinity and feminity are artificial creations.
Crotch says,
You give yourself full credit for "your own world", but I challenge your egotistical notions. I say that you have been influenced your whole life, and the unique sequence of this experience has helped to create your world, along with the decisions you have made along the way. You chose who to emulate throughout your life and the unique combination of these influences helped make you the man you are today. This is CONGRUENCE!
The problem with this is choice. I choose to be like my father in certain aspects, and I choose not to be like him in others. In many ways, I create my own traits.
Now, if what you say was true, I am a sad victim of all the influences, like arrows shooting from people's lives, then would be completely passive, able to be molded in any form whatsoever, never have anything interesting or novel to say. But as we can see, this isn't the case. It is one thing to write an interesting post, it is another to do it reliably for three years. If what you said was true, I would be reading pook posts instead of writing them.
Lady Iqqi says,
is this the petition of the women post i have been waiting for, pook?
No, my dear.
For those reading, I wrote The Petition of the Women which were all the hot women getting together, writing a petition using 19th century language, and delivering it to the men of the world. I sent the petition to Iqqi as a rubber stamp to see if the petition was what women 'really' wanted.
I sent it to her back in... July? I have so many half-baked posts on my comp, they don't go out immediately. Some sit around for a while and get changed (only have a few left now).
"Why do you do this, Pook?" Because if the post doesn't make sense three days later, then what good does it do NOW? If it is correct, it endures. For what reflects nature, endures.
My lady, the petition is part of a larger post and will be out soon. Please view my 'Gift' when it comes out. It will be the last one on the list.