For me personally, it's like this.
You can be like 90% of OTHER guys and FAKE IT. Yes, FAKE IT.
They will fvck a chick, a chick will start "saying" all this I love you shyt, but the guy knows DEEP DOWN INSIDE that this chick is probably not as loyal and won't be as loyal as she "appears."
Yet, the guy IGNORES his voice within, and LISTENS to the chick. Then he gets cheated on, and makes a thread like Tweek1984 just did.
STOP FAKING IT.
You guys are so fvcking desperate to obtain a relationship, that you will just IGNORE all signs, voices, and EVERYTHING thats saying, "No! Just Bust a nvt!"
For a RELATIONSHIP to really work, the girl has to really like YOU.
I can't tell you what it looks like, all I can tell you is that you will know it when you see it. However, here's a BIG hint. 90% of the women you encounter will NOT LIKE YOU.
But they will fvck you though. Yes, they will fvck the shyt outta you. You and them will have a couple nights full of passionate love.
But she knows and YOU should know....that you two really aren't a COUPLE. And unfortunately, 90% of the women in America today won't be a "couple" type.
So get a nvt, BE PATIENT, and STOP trying to turn a nvt into a relationship. When your relationship/wifey material comes, TAKE HER. Until you find her, then just BUST A FVCKIN NVT!!