I think one of the problems a lot of men have when dating multiple women is the feeling of guilt that is societally programmed into being a "womanizer." Get those thoughts out of your head, they are complete nonsense.
If you are straightforward with women, do not mistreat them and are morally sound, then there is no reason to feel any sort of guilt or shame about dating as many of them as you want.
I think one of the reasons a lot of guys will attempt to date multiple women but end up getting discouraged or locked into a relationship they are not interested in being in is that in general women are more relationship minded in general, especially after you have been intimate with them. The men are eventually approached by one of the girls about being in a relationship, and they feel like if they do not give in and tell them they would be open to a relationship, that they will lose the woman. This can be true sometimes, but in many cases being upfront with women and sticking to your guns about not wanting to be in a relationship will usually increase their respect for you tenfold. True, they may be disappointed and maybe even upset. They may accuse you of using them or being a "player", but many times you will find after their initial disappointment begins to die down, their respect for you will increase, and they will let you know this.
the lesson here is always stick to your guns, no matter what pressure you feel from wanting to please another individual, and things will go your way more often than not
Another problem that comes up when dating multiple people is you are dealing with multiple personalities. There will always be different things you find attractive about each woman. As human beings, we tend to put people we are involved withs qualities on a pedestal, and convince ourselves they are a lot more special than they really are. That makes things difficult at times and can have you feeling that you know a woman that is "the one" and you had better get her tied down before you lose her. This happens a lot and is very normal. You must resist the temptation to put someones qualities on a pedestal, and realize that while they may be a great match for you, they are not the only ones and if you lose them you will not suffer any sort of longterm effects.
If you are straightforward with women, do not mistreat them and are morally sound, then there is no reason to feel any sort of guilt or shame about dating as many of them as you want.
I think one of the reasons a lot of guys will attempt to date multiple women but end up getting discouraged or locked into a relationship they are not interested in being in is that in general women are more relationship minded in general, especially after you have been intimate with them. The men are eventually approached by one of the girls about being in a relationship, and they feel like if they do not give in and tell them they would be open to a relationship, that they will lose the woman. This can be true sometimes, but in many cases being upfront with women and sticking to your guns about not wanting to be in a relationship will usually increase their respect for you tenfold. True, they may be disappointed and maybe even upset. They may accuse you of using them or being a "player", but many times you will find after their initial disappointment begins to die down, their respect for you will increase, and they will let you know this.
the lesson here is always stick to your guns, no matter what pressure you feel from wanting to please another individual, and things will go your way more often than not
Another problem that comes up when dating multiple people is you are dealing with multiple personalities. There will always be different things you find attractive about each woman. As human beings, we tend to put people we are involved withs qualities on a pedestal, and convince ourselves they are a lot more special than they really are. That makes things difficult at times and can have you feeling that you know a woman that is "the one" and you had better get her tied down before you lose her. This happens a lot and is very normal. You must resist the temptation to put someones qualities on a pedestal, and realize that while they may be a great match for you, they are not the only ones and if you lose them you will not suffer any sort of longterm effects.