not bitter at all, just older and wiser about women. i'm done being a nice guy, if they want to date *******s then let them. i'm done catering to women though, playing their little games, and trying to entertain them. God gave her two arms just like he gave me so she can open her own doors. opening doors and being polite aint got me nowehere thus far, so time to change it up.
Amen brother! LOL I was cracking up when I read your post about that, that sh*t is funny!! But yeah, like others have said, a lot of really hot chicks just sort of expect this sh*t anyway and some might not say “thank you”, well f*ck them! LOL, you actually probably had a chance to pull that girl after something like this. You’d be surprised how many times myself or some of my buddies would do something similarly “against the rules” to the point where the girl is pi*sed off and you can get into some banter with her and if you’ve got your game tight enough, you can pull her EASIER than you would had you “held her door” and did the expected. You just did the same thing the last 99 guys did so she doesn’t see it any differently, and some of them even don’t say hi lol. But it’s when guys do this UNEXPECTED stuff, and do it playfully, where you have the best opportunities! LOL. I mean, don’t curse her out or whatever obviously, but you could have just laughed and be like “awww you poor queen, did your servant forget to hold your door today!” and then proceeded to laugh at her confidently and if there are any comments from her KEEP THE GAME going! Lol you will be SHOCKED if you keep doing stuff like this. But once again, keep it playful and don’t sound bitter about it to her, just be LAUGHING about it and as if you could give a damn less one way or the other, and tease her about it.
If she starts talking back, keep it going playfully, do NOT act bothered one bit and even laugh right at her if she starts throwing a mini fit. You are actually making her AWARE of the situation right now, the last 99 guys simply went through the motions of what’s expected and her brain doesn’t even register it. It’s like when people drive home the same way every day, or do the same thing over and over and over, your brain doesn’t think about this anymore and doesn’t notice it. Same goes with everything else that’s expected out there, there is actually a part of our brain that does this for our benefit! That way we don’t’ have to keep learning the same things over and over and we can just save previously used routines in there, so you’re not using as much brain power when you do this. So it’s meant to help us, but of course, many things that help us can also inhibit us in different ways. This is the case where STANDING out helps you, it helps her NOTICE you. She will NOT remember or care about the other 99 guys, but you doing something like this sets you apart, and once your game is strong enough to know how to proceed from here, you will have GREAT success!
Remember, keep it playful and like you couldn’t care less. LAUGH about it and tease her, and then in about a half a year or so while you keep improving your skills and confidence and your natural sexual male comes out, you will run into a similar situation and tease her and make fun about it, and not get too caught up in it, and then you will tell her something like “see that coffee shop across the street, well I’m going there RIGHT NOW to grab me some coffee, there are a few more things I’d like to talk to you about and also let you know a few things about your self that are quite obvious to me, I’ll see you there in a few minutes!! But don’t be long, after I drink my coffee, I’ve gotta go!”
You will be AMAZED when you start doing stuff like that lol. You will be AMAZED how people are willing to follow, if you JUST TAKE THE LEAD. Whether your’e leading them to heaven or hell, to success or misery, doesn’t’ even matter!! (you want lead them to pleasurable experiences obviously, but for the sake of argument, it really doesn’t matter either way, they WILL follow if YOU LEAD). Feel free to PM me or even call me once you’re ready to do this kinda stuff, but work on your self first for now, keep having fun with your social circle, work out, get your money situation up, you say you’re saving,, get debt free if possible, always improve your situation. And as corny as it sounds FALL IN LOVE WITH YOUR SELF, and please your self first (lol, I know I know, but you know what I mean!!))
So once again, CONGRATULATIONS about actually ENJOYING your life right now, having fun hanging out with your friends, doing anything you want to do WITHOUT having to worry about any girls! That's awesome, and you're on a road of enlightenment. DO KEEP working on your self and improving and getting your confidence up to where it should be as the real confident you without all the rules and regulations of society that made you into a “nice acceptable” guy lol. So AWESOME!! Keep that up man, keep working on your self, and this is actually when you will meet your next girlfriend lol, trust me, it’s gonna happen without you actually “looking for it”. It’s when guys DON’T look for a GF, is when it actually happens. Anytime you’re actively “looking” for a girlfriend, you’re coming of as too needy weather you realize it or not.
