The One

[phatboi408]

Rollo Tomassi, thank you. THis post has come to a time when I needed the most........ Isnt a relationship or LTR is when you both know that there might be other ppl out there for you, but you two decided to stick with eachother..... THe community and not just the comminity has labeled this

(i.e. the ONE girl you can't seem to get past). However, it's necessary to differentiate between a healthy relationship based on mutual respect and a lopsided ONEitis based relationship, even when it has the best of intentions. In my estimation ONEitis is an unhealthy psychological dependency that is the direct result of a continuous socialization of the soulmate myth in pop culture.

 

[vagrant]

wow...great post! How do you supposed to handle a girl who has oneitis for you?