Gentlemen!
I’ve read lot’s of stuff you guys think that you should find a person you love for sex.
I let you inside of my head for a moment. Feel Welcome.
What is the One?
The One is truckload of bull****.
It's against nature. Let me explain.
In history, time called The Enlightment started it all.
Men started to think as individuals. Now alone that's a good thing.
We started to think that instead of killing/permanently injuring criminals we should cure them.
A human life started to have value social wise. We needed every man to work for society. If you weren't important to society you were piece of sh*t. Even more piece of sh*t than before. It’s still that in these days too. If you have no job you are worth nothing. If you can’t serve society as a slave, you are nothing. Now when we add couple of historical things to this fact e.g. Romanticism, basic human rights, equality, work getting more easy, media, capitalism, globalization… There are really many things that lead to this point in history that lead to this point and the fact we are here on sosuave. I think men were still common in the times of WW2, but not much after that.
I think you got my point here. It’s not our fault that we might have false thoughts in our mind we have been brainwashed with.
Face the facts!
The ideals of Feminism are in the head of every woman you see!
And even more scarily, in the head of every man you see!
It's a chick thing to manipulate and poison mind of a man to commit to just a one woman which is more biologically beneficial to women!
Females, they are not used to handle power. Throughout the history it’s been Mans duty to do!
Now when they finally have the power, they destroy themselves!
I've never had so-called chick thing as "meaningful sex".
(I think that's what you do when you love your partner, right ladies?)
Making love to the One you love… aaawwwwwww!! How cute is that!
I’ve always had those casual sex partners.
You know, I've never had a real girlfriend.
Loving someone is great and having sex with a person you love could be really great.
But everywhere (INCLUDING HERE!) people get the whole love thing so wrong. I know because I was once like some of you... "I would never have sex with someone I don't love".
At least deep inside you KNOW it’s just crap that society and grannies have taught to you!
I just have this warm feeling right now because I know I've reached the natural state of a human- being in me.
The only females I love and really try to love are my mother (because she is a really sweet and caring person! That’s why.) and Mother Nature! I do not 'seek' for love. It's not natural human behaviour! You seek to be loved more likely. That's what most of you guys confuse. Love is something you feel (feeling is lame word for that, it's beyond it) towards someone even if you don't have anything back! Now most of you seek 'to be loved' that is just a combination of insecurity and lust. Hear me here. Love isn't something you go and search from clubs at weekends. First comes a relationship then comes love, in case you really achieve it at all. I can honestly say I love everything in this world, even a group of thugs that try to steal my money. (I might be just like them in different environment. They could be just like me in different environment.) Love is confused with desire. I don't desire a bum even if I love his smelly ass! It's hard to explain. In the future I will find a woman I truly love. That's for sure. And I will find someone I commit to the rest of my life. No problem. But I don't go out and seek her now. It happens when it's supposed to happen. You all have time to find her. Believe me. You will find your love when you are ready for it!
Sex and love are totally two different things. They are not tied together.
Real love is something you do forever. No matter what happens. That's true love.
Most of people never love someone like that.
People are fooled to believe they love something.
It's just a strong emotional bond they think it is love.
So you ask me about sex…
Ever noticed when you've masturbated while watching a porn flick that after you have your climax, all the excitement towards the porn is gone. It may even be disgusting to you afterwards. That's what chemistry does to you. The desire is just chemicals in your body that make you feel funny so you have to react somehow to it. It's nature's way to keep us reproducing. Do you think you would desire sex so much if your level of those chemicals was as low as after having a satisfaction? I bet it wouldn't be so much in your mind all the time!
What I'm saying here is that sexuality is a basic function of a human being. It's like desire to eat when you are hungry. It's so natural thing.
As I feel it's so natural thing to do, I don't feel that I should do it with someone I love. It's just my natural urge of reproducing. I just want to keep my body thinking I'm like the largest gorilla in a group of monkeys and I spread my genes everywhere. Now when society is in the way I can't really do it, but I still like it going around where I like spreading my seed everywhere (wearing a rubber between, though )! I like the idea of sex as a natural thing to do and just expressing your sexuality.
Of course taking love (which has nothing to do with sex) in it would be a great experience. That's maybe the reason many people want a relationship. So they could be more emotionally tied with their sexual partner.
Now here comes the question!
Have you always dreamed of being between sheets and having sex with one person you truly love???
Yes?
I thought so…
For me it's called masturbation!!
Maybe you get more fulfilled if you learn to truly love yourself first so there is always a person you truly love in bed.
For me it's enough! And I bet it would be enough for you to have one person you truly love in bed too.
Once you get truly in love to the person you are, you have found the One you have a love story with till the end of your life. That brings happiness along. Including success, women, adventure… whatever you want!
The journey begins within.
The Worlds greatest masters, gurus of life, spiritually enlighted people who are developed mentally have found everything looking deep inside them. They do not look it from outside e.g. religions.
Because God (or whatever you want to call it) is in everyone of us. A human-being is amazing creature that is like a God himself. But the power lies within. It’s no use to search it outside.
You must not seek happiness from outside or of someone (like the One).
It’s found closer than you ever imagined.
This isn’t taught commonly because most people just don’t get it or don’t want to get it.
Capitalism plays a big part in it too. Big bucks are in things that people think that make them happy.
Remember that I do not say that you should throw all your things away and go live to a nearest mountain in Tibet.
But once you learn to truly love yourself and listen to yourself you get everything you’ve always wanted.
There is nothing bad to do things that are good to you.
Start from small things. End up what ever you want.
- Hot Ice
I’ve read lot’s of stuff you guys think that you should find a person you love for sex.
I let you inside of my head for a moment. Feel Welcome.
What is the One?
The One is truckload of bull****.
It's against nature. Let me explain.
In history, time called The Enlightment started it all.
Men started to think as individuals. Now alone that's a good thing.
We started to think that instead of killing/permanently injuring criminals we should cure them.
A human life started to have value social wise. We needed every man to work for society. If you weren't important to society you were piece of sh*t. Even more piece of sh*t than before. It’s still that in these days too. If you have no job you are worth nothing. If you can’t serve society as a slave, you are nothing. Now when we add couple of historical things to this fact e.g. Romanticism, basic human rights, equality, work getting more easy, media, capitalism, globalization… There are really many things that lead to this point in history that lead to this point and the fact we are here on sosuave. I think men were still common in the times of WW2, but not much after that.
I think you got my point here. It’s not our fault that we might have false thoughts in our mind we have been brainwashed with.
Face the facts!
The ideals of Feminism are in the head of every woman you see!
And even more scarily, in the head of every man you see!
It's a chick thing to manipulate and poison mind of a man to commit to just a one woman which is more biologically beneficial to women!
Females, they are not used to handle power. Throughout the history it’s been Mans duty to do!
Now when they finally have the power, they destroy themselves!
I've never had so-called chick thing as "meaningful sex".
(I think that's what you do when you love your partner, right ladies?)
Making love to the One you love… aaawwwwwww!! How cute is that!
I’ve always had those casual sex partners.
You know, I've never had a real girlfriend.
Loving someone is great and having sex with a person you love could be really great.
But everywhere (INCLUDING HERE!) people get the whole love thing so wrong. I know because I was once like some of you... "I would never have sex with someone I don't love".
At least deep inside you KNOW it’s just crap that society and grannies have taught to you!
I just have this warm feeling right now because I know I've reached the natural state of a human- being in me.
The only females I love and really try to love are my mother (because she is a really sweet and caring person! That’s why.) and Mother Nature! I do not 'seek' for love. It's not natural human behaviour! You seek to be loved more likely. That's what most of you guys confuse. Love is something you feel (feeling is lame word for that, it's beyond it) towards someone even if you don't have anything back! Now most of you seek 'to be loved' that is just a combination of insecurity and lust. Hear me here. Love isn't something you go and search from clubs at weekends. First comes a relationship then comes love, in case you really achieve it at all. I can honestly say I love everything in this world, even a group of thugs that try to steal my money. (I might be just like them in different environment. They could be just like me in different environment.) Love is confused with desire. I don't desire a bum even if I love his smelly ass! It's hard to explain. In the future I will find a woman I truly love. That's for sure. And I will find someone I commit to the rest of my life. No problem. But I don't go out and seek her now. It happens when it's supposed to happen. You all have time to find her. Believe me. You will find your love when you are ready for it!
Sex and love are totally two different things. They are not tied together.
Real love is something you do forever. No matter what happens. That's true love.
Most of people never love someone like that.
People are fooled to believe they love something.
It's just a strong emotional bond they think it is love.
So you ask me about sex…
Ever noticed when you've masturbated while watching a porn flick that after you have your climax, all the excitement towards the porn is gone. It may even be disgusting to you afterwards. That's what chemistry does to you. The desire is just chemicals in your body that make you feel funny so you have to react somehow to it. It's nature's way to keep us reproducing. Do you think you would desire sex so much if your level of those chemicals was as low as after having a satisfaction? I bet it wouldn't be so much in your mind all the time!
What I'm saying here is that sexuality is a basic function of a human being. It's like desire to eat when you are hungry. It's so natural thing.
As I feel it's so natural thing to do, I don't feel that I should do it with someone I love. It's just my natural urge of reproducing. I just want to keep my body thinking I'm like the largest gorilla in a group of monkeys and I spread my genes everywhere. Now when society is in the way I can't really do it, but I still like it going around where I like spreading my seed everywhere (wearing a rubber between, though )! I like the idea of sex as a natural thing to do and just expressing your sexuality.
Of course taking love (which has nothing to do with sex) in it would be a great experience. That's maybe the reason many people want a relationship. So they could be more emotionally tied with their sexual partner.
Now here comes the question!
Have you always dreamed of being between sheets and having sex with one person you truly love???
Yes?
I thought so…
For me it's called masturbation!!
Maybe you get more fulfilled if you learn to truly love yourself first so there is always a person you truly love in bed.
For me it's enough! And I bet it would be enough for you to have one person you truly love in bed too.
Once you get truly in love to the person you are, you have found the One you have a love story with till the end of your life. That brings happiness along. Including success, women, adventure… whatever you want!
The journey begins within.
The Worlds greatest masters, gurus of life, spiritually enlighted people who are developed mentally have found everything looking deep inside them. They do not look it from outside e.g. religions.
Because God (or whatever you want to call it) is in everyone of us. A human-being is amazing creature that is like a God himself. But the power lies within. It’s no use to search it outside.
You must not seek happiness from outside or of someone (like the One).
It’s found closer than you ever imagined.
This isn’t taught commonly because most people just don’t get it or don’t want to get it.
Capitalism plays a big part in it too. Big bucks are in things that people think that make them happy.
Remember that I do not say that you should throw all your things away and go live to a nearest mountain in Tibet.
But once you learn to truly love yourself and listen to yourself you get everything you’ve always wanted.
There is nothing bad to do things that are good to you.
Start from small things. End up what ever you want.
- Hot Ice