Downrock27
Don Juan
So I met this really great girl at work... funny thing is.. she's not even that great looking. She has the most amazing personality though and I find myself very attracted to her.
Anyways i've known her since I started this job in February, and up until about 3 weeks ago she had a boyfriend of 3 years. Ever since I started there she has been extremely flirtatious towards me.. as well as constantly throwing compliments my way.
Long story short... she broke up with her boyfriend about 3 weeks ago. About a week later... she is "seeing" some new guy.
Right now he is visiting a friend in Mexico, and since they arent official yet, I asked her to come with me to see Cirque du Soleil.
After this unnoffical date in which no moves were made by me as usual... she asked me back to her friend's housewarming party. Again, had fun but too ***** to make any moves.
Anyways, I know I'm jumping around here... but the point is.. I'm pretty sure this girl is into me.. but I have an insane fear of rejection. I'm a confident person in most aspects of life including socially, but I have a real problem asking out a girl when I'm really into her.
Not sure what to do at this point. I really like her but if I get rejected I'll have to deal with seeing her at work 40 hours a week...(we share a cubicle).
As a side note I am without a doubt better looking than she is... not to sound arrogant but that much is obvious. Also at times I wonder if she has the feeling she is inferior and really has no chance with me... shes not used to dating guys that have much in the looks department.
She also constantly mentions this new guy to me... which i have seen a picture of, as if she is trying to prove to me her worthiness. I don't understand why she would constantly mention this other guy and then turn around and flirt with me.
I think I'm just ranting here at this point, but I had to let it out somewhere. Really confused about this one. Not even used to being attracted to this type of girl. Thanks to anyone who reads this.
Anyways i've known her since I started this job in February, and up until about 3 weeks ago she had a boyfriend of 3 years. Ever since I started there she has been extremely flirtatious towards me.. as well as constantly throwing compliments my way.
Long story short... she broke up with her boyfriend about 3 weeks ago. About a week later... she is "seeing" some new guy.
Right now he is visiting a friend in Mexico, and since they arent official yet, I asked her to come with me to see Cirque du Soleil.
After this unnoffical date in which no moves were made by me as usual... she asked me back to her friend's housewarming party. Again, had fun but too ***** to make any moves.
Anyways, I know I'm jumping around here... but the point is.. I'm pretty sure this girl is into me.. but I have an insane fear of rejection. I'm a confident person in most aspects of life including socially, but I have a real problem asking out a girl when I'm really into her.
Not sure what to do at this point. I really like her but if I get rejected I'll have to deal with seeing her at work 40 hours a week...(we share a cubicle).
As a side note I am without a doubt better looking than she is... not to sound arrogant but that much is obvious. Also at times I wonder if she has the feeling she is inferior and really has no chance with me... shes not used to dating guys that have much in the looks department.
She also constantly mentions this new guy to me... which i have seen a picture of, as if she is trying to prove to me her worthiness. I don't understand why she would constantly mention this other guy and then turn around and flirt with me.
I think I'm just ranting here at this point, but I had to let it out somewhere. Really confused about this one. Not even used to being attracted to this type of girl. Thanks to anyone who reads this.