the older I get, the more I realize it's not me

Francisco d'Anconia

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DJDamage said:
If the bail money is set at only $500 then let her parents pay for it...
This is a very good point. I'm all for friendships (even of ex's) but I'm not sure if I'd subject a new relationship to the ongoing drama of an ex.

Backbreaker, making the current girlfriend the "bad guy" if she has an issue with it is an interesting concept. I'd ask why forsaking your current relationship for one which has past is so important to you. It sounds as if you feel indentured to your ex and had not "completely" moved on.
 

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just becuase I am not ****ing her, doesn't mean Id on't have a relationship with her anymore.

Not all ex's are on that leve lwith me (trust me). My mom and dad borrow money from each other all the time, and both are remarried, and neither my step mom or step dad have a problem, because there is nothing (and that's an understatement) there, just friends, who both know they weren' tmade for each other, but understand that they can still be cool.

my ex.. just because wer aren't dating, doesn't mean we don't have a relationship. I don't see any difference then if my ex or my best friend called and needed 500 bucks.

if my current GF honestly has a legit problem with me helping out a true friend, not a girl I secretly wish to have sex with, but a FRIEND then she IS the bad guy, she needs to stop being so freakin immature.. it's a reason why I haven't dated anyone in aobut a year and 2 months event hough I had sex with over a dozen since.. I am extremely picky on who I actually DATE


my lipmis test is would you do the same or try to do the same for me.. my best friends would. My last REAL gf would. My dad would.

This girl wouldn't and that's why I haven't moved an inch.

however I haven't and won't do that for this girl, she doesn't qualify for thoose previliages.

her dog just died yesterday and they paid about 2grand in vet bills, which was her school tutition for this semister... with that said I don't think she would have a problem being bailed out i think she just wanted to do it so that her parents didnt' find out she got arrested.
 
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