and takes too much time/mental energy for me. Guess I don't get to bang anymore hot chicks for a while, lol. Does anybody else have this issue? In the past month I've had five 8's flake out on me and ****ed one 6 I'd been trying to avoid ****ing. My "text game" if you want to even call it that is very simple and usually starts with something like:
"Ay!! How are you? Let's grab a coffee tomorrow around 7pm. -blueline"
Maybe I'll tease her a bit or give a challenge, but that's the underlying structure, it's nothing fancy. I have sent literally that message and gotten dates out of it. It works when the girl is interested, and when she isn't, it doesn't work. Very simple. I don't typically attempt to develop rapport through text, because when I get dates, there is no need to do any of that bull****. That one line up there will do it all for me.
I mean, technically, all except one of those girls that rejected me are vaguely social circle. I met all five of them at house parties. 2/5 of them know my ex, who almost undoubtedly talked **** about me. 1/5 I took on a couple dates, made out/groped with several times, and then she finds out my ex is dating her good friend. Contact started to dwindle when it looked like everything was heading towards sex.
The funny thing is that it's actually really easy to cold approach and date random low self-esteem 7-8's and anything <7. Picking up the 6 is almost a joke for me. At a club/bar, those girls will typically approach me, or at least give me signals to approach, and it's all gravy from there.
While I'm not amazing looking, my wingman definitely is good looking. That guy has banged over 50 girls and is the cold approach master. I've winged with him for almost an entire year now and we crash and burn probably 90% of the time (crash and burn being flakes). Getting numbers is easy, but getting the hot randoms to come back to the crib the same night is almost impossible. When one of us actually scores a hot chick, it's totally due to being friends with people.
And yeah, when I **** the hot chick, it is always due to being involved in her social circle. Almost always.
Another interesting regularity I'm noticing is that the hottest girls I've ****ed have been clinically diagnosed with some sort of mood disorder be it bipolar or depression or just have low self-esteem in general.
I feel like I'm searching for the needle in the haystack with women. Especially if I'm to outdo my ex in terms of hottness. I'm probably going to have to find an even crazier bitch (very difficult to do seeing as that she once went to a mental hospital).
"Ay!! How are you? Let's grab a coffee tomorrow around 7pm. -blueline"
Maybe I'll tease her a bit or give a challenge, but that's the underlying structure, it's nothing fancy. I have sent literally that message and gotten dates out of it. It works when the girl is interested, and when she isn't, it doesn't work. Very simple. I don't typically attempt to develop rapport through text, because when I get dates, there is no need to do any of that bull****. That one line up there will do it all for me.
I mean, technically, all except one of those girls that rejected me are vaguely social circle. I met all five of them at house parties. 2/5 of them know my ex, who almost undoubtedly talked **** about me. 1/5 I took on a couple dates, made out/groped with several times, and then she finds out my ex is dating her good friend. Contact started to dwindle when it looked like everything was heading towards sex.
The funny thing is that it's actually really easy to cold approach and date random low self-esteem 7-8's and anything <7. Picking up the 6 is almost a joke for me. At a club/bar, those girls will typically approach me, or at least give me signals to approach, and it's all gravy from there.
While I'm not amazing looking, my wingman definitely is good looking. That guy has banged over 50 girls and is the cold approach master. I've winged with him for almost an entire year now and we crash and burn probably 90% of the time (crash and burn being flakes). Getting numbers is easy, but getting the hot randoms to come back to the crib the same night is almost impossible. When one of us actually scores a hot chick, it's totally due to being friends with people.
And yeah, when I **** the hot chick, it is always due to being involved in her social circle. Almost always.
Another interesting regularity I'm noticing is that the hottest girls I've ****ed have been clinically diagnosed with some sort of mood disorder be it bipolar or depression or just have low self-esteem in general.
I feel like I'm searching for the needle in the haystack with women. Especially if I'm to outdo my ex in terms of hottness. I'm probably going to have to find an even crazier bitch (very difficult to do seeing as that she once went to a mental hospital).
