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Quite honestly, the look is only 1 piece of it. If you wear clothes, whatever you wear, it won't matter what you are, if you're "nice" underneath.
Women are initially into image. This is VERY true of young women. They're bombarded by Disney, and Save by the Bell, and Varsity Blues.
I had the same convo last night with a girl I'm seeing who only went for the Captain of Football teams when she was in HS. She didn't like any of them, but when she "thought" of them, she enjoyed the image. Of course, that's what is portrayed by the media, so it's how she saw herself. Being the girl with the cool, popular jock guy, adorred by all. Yet, all of the guys she mentioned turned out to be dinks.
-sold drugs
-one died of a drug overdose
-would honk to pick her, instead of going to the door and meet her parents
-forced her to try and do sexual things, when she's already sexual enough
-failed
-has no jobs
No...you can say...see being an azzhole gets pvssy! No it doesn't. These guys have the worst lives now, and to trade all the good to get your d!ck wet is weak shyt.
I have only 1 last statement regarding improvement...your BOTTOM line belief, and philosophy on life should be rock solid and in line with what you truly want.
I lost my closest grandmother in April, who helped me through college and was there to talk to and it made me realize more than ever.
1. I'm alone.
2. Nobody cares whether I fail or succeed.
3. Life is too short to be afraid of what it is you want.
4. Successful people do exactly what unsuccessful don't like to do or want to, therein lies the opportunity.
You have to realize the only things we have are through belief. Trump believes he is deserving of his wealth, and all life has to grant him, so he goes and gets it. He doesn't try to build his self-esteem. In return, he gives good value. He pays his people well, he makes little known apprentices famous and makes his partners loads of money. Yet it all stems from unwavering belief that he deserves these things. There's no ticket handed out in life that say "you get this, you get that." You get what you go for.
Conversationally speaking...
You must believe each person you meet is truly unique and can open your eyes to new life experiences.
That each person TRULY wants to express who they are, to speak as they desire. Don't look at a person for what they give you, just see them as they are w/out trying to change or influence them. Be an observer, like a scientist. They'll be more willing to give and open up if you're receptive and give unwaveringly to them.
Style and the like comes from expressing your inner desire as real MANIFESTATIONS of what you want. Yes, it sounds like mumbo jumbo, but hear me out.
Say you like, martial arts and boxing, yet you think you have to be beefy like a bodybuilder and skip your true desire. You're only harming yourself and the women you'd attract.
Say you like a more polished, conservative Banana Republic look with suit coats, yet feel girls want A&F guys, and you skip your desire, you set yourself up to attract women not in concert with who you are.
Say you don't care about flashy cars, and rather opt for more sensible vehicles, hawking yourself into debt, all the lesser in money and good energy. You end up attracting the money hungry bimbos you don't want.
ATTRACTING women is about ECCENTUATING your innerself upon the world. The charismatic people we see are people are in LOVE with LIFE. They have the ball of momentum moving their life forward. I believe it's only maturity that teaches us this, as many teens and college aged guys take off on paths not true to themselves and wonder why they're fawking up and not even meeting girls they like.
1. They're focusing on WHAT they don't want, rather than what they do want.
2. They're not being true to who they are.
Personally, I feel bars are horrible places to meet women, even if I have success, 10 minute interactions do not engender a connection that means I'm special enough to lay. And just wearing condomn might make it cleaner, but it doesn't make it safe, nor change how many d!cks she's had in her.
That's me. I meet girls in their natural environments of work, through friends, out and about. Wherever. Search yourself...it's far more productive to bring the emphasis back on you and decide what you want.
A-Unit
