The MOST BEAUTIFUL GIRL i have ever seen, one problem though...

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At school there is this girlll she is the most gorgeous girl I have ever seeen in my life. A few months back I was talkin to this girl that likes me, and shes kinda friends with the girl. I told the girl that likes me to hook me up with her(since she knows her). So she talked to her and she told me that the girl said that she thinks i look good but she didnt want to get with me because of the nationality I am (shes greek). Now some people are telling me that the girl that likes me only said this because she likes me and doesnt want me to get with her. So now im thinking of approaching her myself. Incase what she said is true, do i have any chance with this girl?
 

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I apologize in advance for this, but some of you guys are being ridiculous. Please reread the bible before you start posting. There's so much that you need to change that the answer to this question won't help you enough.

I can't believe you're wondering IF you should go and find out for yourself if she likes you or not. Especially after you have reason to believe that the person you sent first was lying. What's the alternative? Staring at her from afar and wondering about the answer to a question you could have in 5 minutes? Why would you rely on someone else to find out the answer in the first place. Even if the girl did like you, that's a good way to lower her interest.

NO, for the rest of your life you should conduct your relationships through other people. You should even have a friend get in the bed and have sex with her and then tell you how it was. Women really love that sort of spineless behavior, and nothing ever gets lost in the translation.

You have a chance with any girl that's interested in you. Abstract things like nationality never stop relationships if the girl is feeling you.

1 other thing. She's not the most gorgeous girl you've ever seen. You've put her on an insane pedestal, and if you don't start thinking of her as just a desirable girl, you're going to muck this up.

How old and what nationality are you?
 
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HB, now that you have been scolded, go read the ENTIRE DJ Bible, and take notes, there will be a test.
 

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chilll i got game, I've come to realize that the bible only brings inspiration, NOONE WOULD NEED THIS SITE IF THEY WERENT TOO SCARED TO TAKE CHANCES. I apoligize for this post.
 

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Originally posted by dannyboy
ask her if she is half Hindu?
Hindu isn't a nationality you freak.
 

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NO, for the rest of your life you should conduct your relationships through other people. You should even have a friend get in the bed and have sex with her and then tell you how it was. Women really love that sort of spineless behavior, and nothing ever gets lost in the translation.
Quick, your posts are priceless.

Another thing that I am suspicious of is the fact that almost everyone claims to only handle 10 or the most beautiful woman in the universe aorund here. Now, I must admit, I am very picky when it comes too physical features and I know beauty is in the eye of the beholder but I just wonder if a lot of the guys are just automatically putting every woman that captures their interest on a pedestal. Does any one approach 7 or 8s?
 

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yo guys she is literally the most beautiful girl my eyes have ever seen, if i ask anyone in school they'd say the same. She made me want to cry when i saw her friday. Shes the type of girl that makes you cry cause she aint with you, she the type of girl that has you fantasizin about you and her alone for 5 minutes.
 

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Originally posted by hb
yo guys she is literally the most beautiful girl my eyes have ever seen, if i ask anyone in school they'd say the same. She made me want to cry when i saw her friday. Shes the type of girl that makes you cry cause she aint with you, she the type of girl that has you fantasizin about you and her alone for 5 minutes.
Where's my shotgun?
 

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Originally posted by hb
yo guys she is literally the most beautiful girl my eyes have ever seen, if i ask anyone in school they'd say the same. She made me want to cry when i saw her friday. Shes the type of girl that makes you cry cause she aint with you, she the type of girl that has you fantasizin about you and her alone for 5 minutes.
Remember, women want a challenge, something they can't have right away. If she makes you cry and cower in a corner and send emissaries, just like every other guy in school, what have you done to stand out in her mind from everyone else, let alone make yourself a challenge?

Go talk to her. What's the worst that'll happen? You'll get rejected? She'll tell you, "Get lost, loser" and you'll go back to your corner and cry? No worse off than you are now, and at least the doubt is gone.

She's human just like everyone else. You should act in a way that reminds her of that fact. ;)
 

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WHOA WHOA WHOA!! i think i speak for all DJ's when i say.... HB must stand for heartless bastardo.....
If you saw the gorgeous girl (and realized she was real) why didnt you go up and talk to her.......
Just because she is drop dead gorgeous ? thats no excuse...
shame on you!!! Don juans are supposed to treat every woman the same..... (except mommy, I wuv her) and you MUST learn that !!!!

What will happen if you dont is that everytime you see a gorgeous women (such as the one specified at the very top) your jaw will drop and u will stand awestruck by her beauty...... and then you will be struggling to pick your jaw back up and will not be able to talk to her .... and then your friends will pick up a brewski lean back on their lawn chairs and watch the girl go BYE BYE....... and then laugh at you in yoru face a few times before they get wasted.........

What it is ... is that you become intimidated and start casting doubt in your mind about getting that type of girl..... and you do this because you are not COMPLETELY secure when approaching women....

In order to treat women all the same ... one needs to become TOTALLY fine or apathetic (without care)with rejection... and unsurprised (not surprised) at success with women....

and in order to do this... one needs to have a habit of approaching women .. conversating with them.... and getting the digits!!!

To say that you need to treat every girl the same... is not to mean that you need to treat them all like they are UGLY or all of them like they GORGEOUS.....

if you are INTERESTED in the lady..... then you need to let her know that (standing 294547 feet away and gawking at her will not do the trick) ... BUT... you cant let her know that you REALLY like her.... because for 1 you will come off as desperate (aka nice guy) and for 2 you will come on too strong and scare her away..... she is like a kitten.... if you were to stick your hand out at the cat with a clenched fist and made cute gentle sounds to it then.. you will have a greater chance of the kitten coming over in wondering who you are..... and interested in you... but you jump in front of the cat with two arms raised up high ... and said HEY GOOD LOOKING BABY... YOU ARE ONE FOXY FELINE.... then you will scare it away....... its the same way with girls believe it or not!

So if i were in the some GORGEOUS GIRL SCENARIO
i would do little something like this...

~~~~Stunning, breath taking, Gorgeous girl walking by flaunting her stuff~~~~

*My Honey Radar detects and sends me signals.... i look around locate her ... i determine the coordinates of her position... and i notice she is walking to her class... and that she is about to walk up the stair well.... i swiftly go on my prowl (without becoming self-conscious) and approach*

Happyhobo: hey whats going on!
Gorgeous Girl: Nothing much
Happyhobo: Oh really? because thats what they all say
Gorgeous Girl: well im just going to Math class
Happyhobo: oh yea? i had that today and believe me i am glad it is over with!
Gorgeous Girl: Oh.. how come?
Happyhobo: well this girl in the class keeps talking to me... and she really likes me... but i dont know how to tell her that i just want to be friends...
Gorgeous Girl: Yea thats happened to me before with some of my guy friends...
Happyhobo: Really? how do u let them know you just want strictly a friendly relationship but not a frisky fondling friendly one
Gorgeous Girl: *giggles* basically i just let them know by telling them that i like the friendship we have and i dont want to destroy that and i try not to really go on many dates with them....
Happyhobo: wow that could definately work...im going to try that... and what would you suggest if you were trying to do the opposite .. to attract some guy or something .. not that i am trying to attract a guy .... im 100% straight thank you very much...
Gorgeous Girl: Uh huh sure! *giggles*
Happyhobo: *smiles* oh dont make me prove it
Gorgeous Girl: i dont really know what i would do..i usually dont do much to get guys...
Happyhobo: Oh i see.. so it all comes natural for you
Gorgeous Girl: I guess
Happyhobo: Yeah well what i do, i dont know if this is good or not so let me know, is i look deeply into their eyes like this... brush their hair aside like this.... and i put my hand softly on their cheek like this and i ask them for their number...... so what do you think...
Gorgeous Girl: *smiles* it's good i liked it!
Happyhobo: No be honest... you hated it..
Gorgeous Girl: No, i loved it.. i thought it was good
Happyhobo: well okay then.. i gotta get to my class now so ill talk to ya later
Gorgeous Girl: okay bye... wait i never got your name...
Happyhobo: *hears her but just keeps walking (fast paced so I wont be late for class and that itll seem more reasonable for me not hearing her) *

Now in this Gorgeous Girl Scenario... Happyhobo (me) did not come on strong... he came on nice smooth and easy... like Hanes underwear (Michael Jordan really knows his underwear like he knows basketball) ... he also got to know her better... he performed kino on her.... was in total control..... and left a mysterious ending so that she will be aching to know more about him.... and he also showed that he has other girls in his life... and that other girls like him too...

Note: Happyhobo did not get her number in the very end because he knows he will see her again ... there is no rush.. and u dont come on looking like all the other guys who rush for the number in the first conversation... ALSO, now that she probably likes him... when he asks her for her number she will most likely not say no!!!

Let us learn from this lesson as much as we can... so that none of us will ever choke when we see a drop dead gorgeous gal before our eyes again..... Thank you..
 

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smooooth, so now how about something a little more likely to happen, You know some girls arent so friendly the first time meeting someone. I'm supposed to talk to her monday most likely, I was supposed to tell her that i think shes really cute and i wanted to get to know her better. Anyone got something better to say? Since shes used to guys coming on to her, i want to let her know that I'm feeling her but I want to be a challenge.
 

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Originally posted by hb
yo guys she is literally the most beautiful girl my eyes have ever seen, if i ask anyone in school they'd say the same. She made me want to cry when i saw her friday. Shes the type of girl that makes you cry cause she aint with you, she the type of girl that has you fantasizin about you and her alone for 5 minutes.
Unbelievable. You've been here for FOUR YEARS and you still don't know what the hell oneitis is.
 

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lol yo guys ive been here for 4 years on and off, chilllllll. I never paid attention to anything on this site. I used this site just to post my problems and for the first time i'm actually reading.
 

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Originally posted by hb
lol yo guys ive been here for 4 years on and off, chilllllll. I never paid attention to anything on this site. I used this site just to post my problems and for the first time i'm actually reading.
Well do yourself a favor. Read the DJ bible, especially the "MUST READ" tagged posts, and put what you learn from it/them into action. That will give you the results you want, and about the importance of not having oneitis too.
 

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yooo guys i realllllly need to know how to be a challenge to a girl, how am i supposed to let her know that im interested and at the same time be a challenge? THIS IS WHAT HAS HURT ME THE MOST IN THE PAST.
 

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Originally posted by hb
yooo guys i realllllly need to know how to be a challenge to a girl, how am i supposed to let her know that im interested and at the same time be a challenge? THIS IS WHAT HAS HURT ME THE MOST IN THE PAST.
READ

THE

FRICKIN

BIBLE

It's easy, ask her out, flirt with her, talk to her, get her number, whatever, but don't let her be the ONLY one you do that to.

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Originally posted by hb
yooo guys i realllllly need to know how to be a challenge to a girl, how am i supposed to let her know that im interested and at the same time be a challenge? THIS IS WHAT HAS HURT ME THE MOST IN THE PAST.
Pook has your answer. Here is a quote from Kill That Desparation:
Originally posted by Pook
Where I work, I ask the women why they found a co-worker to be so desperate. Here are some of their answers:

-always giving the women attention.
-calling all the time (and calling immediately once getting the number, immediately returning a call, etc.)
-taking every opportunity to talk to them (and telling everything about yourself)
-always available.
-NEVER willing to walk away (NEVER willing to disagree, ALWAYS supplicating).
-etc.

What theme can we find in the above? It is that the man puts the woman on the pedestal rather then himself.
 
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Go to www.fastseduction.com, read the David Deangelo Newsletter archive. Furthermore go to their forums and read the posts by "juggler". Then see, what you can make out of those two.
 

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I already apologized for the sarcasm in my previous post. I've calmed down a little, so I'll be a little more helpful.

I originally worded my first post "you need to read the bible". Then I saw your post count and registration date and changed it to "reread". I knew that you weren't too familiar with it because you're making so many simple and obvious errors and asking questions you should know the answer to. I realize now why your first post frustrated me so much. It reminded me of the students who ask me to tutor them in algebra-trig, and then I find out they only half-know fractions and they aren't too stable in multiplication and division. There are too many elementary gaps in your knowledge for the answer to your question to be any help to you. Coming to the forums and asking questions without reading the bible is a similar situation. Even if you "have game" it does nothing but help to understand the nature of female attraction and what they respond to the best.

You've been doing things wrong with this girl from the start, and you're still doing it. She already knows you're you think she's cute. Your go-between already told her. Plus, if she's so hot, she knows all the guys think the same thing. You're trying to be different and a challenge, remember? You should never come right out and say that. You also shouldn't say any cliches like "i want to get to know you better." What you should do is go over there and talk to her like she was one of your friends. You should be funny, look her in the eyes, develop a rapport (find out what your common likes and dislikes are), then at the height of a great and fun conversation, you tell her you have to go but tell her to write her number down.

For future reference, If you want to get her, you have to stop worshipping her. Also, the advice that people give in this forum is just interpreting the bible to a specific situation. That's fine for someone who's read it and has trouble understanding how to apply it. But for someone who won't even bother reading it, it's insulting to even ask other people to put in more effort than you're willing to put in yourself.
 
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