The more some chicks talk the less attractive they are.

[Naughty Ninja]

How many of you have talked to a chick..not dated..just talked and gotten to know one another socially and though the chick is hot the more she talks the less attractive she becomes.

IE: Everytime you mention things you've done through the course of the week etc. She mentions how she got trashed with her friends this time, a few times before and her looks while they may still stay the same..her value starts to plummet like a rock as well as any interest you may have had in her.

 

[floydb25]

Constantly... Especially now that I no longer become infatuated, have my head up in the clouds, and pay attention to EVERYTHING. Lust blinds you. Wearing your heart on a sleeve is the worst thing you can do.

This is something I picked up on during my heart-broken stages. It was like, why do I hate everything about all these girls now that I'm NOT pursuing them, giving my heart out, etc - when they're no different than the other ho's I dated? Or, when I'm not attracted to someone. It's because I was infatuated, rushed in heart first, and didn't give a ****. Only to find out that I hated everything about them, but was too attached to let go. Big mistake.

Most people aren't that great in general. You only think a certain woman is perfect because you have a crush on her, and she's hot. That's it. Its a fantasy you build in your head - based on her looks. The angel turns out to be quite the demon. Only, she always was.

Now that I look back, and think of the things they said - I'm disappointed in myself for ever getting involved with complete ****ing retards. I even sympathized with, and tried to save them. Gah! I want to punch myself sometimes. :box:

I can't even begin to tell you the kind of idiotic, shallow **** they said. They had no depth, no personality, no character, no sense of humor, no nothing. Just garbage ass people. And they had the nerve to ask why people don't take them seriously, beat their asses, use them for sex, defriend them, etc. Nobody likes a loser, retard, liar, manipulator, etc. But there was me, Captain Save A Ho, viewing them as afraid and misunderstood; only pretending to be worthless and shallow and stupid and slutty and **** **** *****.

So yea... Definitely.

 

[gr0uch]

I was out of the game for a while, but got divorced so I've been trying to work my way back in slowly the last year or so. I'm in my mid 30's and I notice this seems to be more frequent in younger women, early to mid 20's. If it's a weekend thing, it doesn't bother me, but when they start talking about getting wasted on a week night and are so hungover she almost missed work or had to call in, my interest level plummets. I understand they are in a different stage of life than me, but if all their fun revolves around getting hammered then I lose interest quickly.

 

[Naughty Ninja]

Excellent replies.

Funny thing is this chick was semi qualifying herself to me. Saying she's older than she looks etc. Then she told me she smokes up at 'times' before she goes to work. I don't care what she does but I saw any interest I had start dropping with the quickness after a few conversations. I think maybe she thinks she's impressing me as I do act like a lunatic in person (just fvcking around with people.)

She told me to text her when we all go out and has invited me to hang out with her where she lives. I may do it in the future if at all as I pretty much lost motivation to bother. (And no I don't call or text her.) Once about a month ago. One quick text with my number after she gave me hers.

Another chick I met up with twice and found out she used to be a 'c0ck tail' waitress at strip club, turned me off as she had that stipper mentality. She was all over me and we made out in my car, I pulled up the front of her skirt for the hell of it. lol (sexy ass panties) and could've banged her but it was just the mentality of this chick that turned me off. Almost like she expected to have things brought for her. Now the only thing I'd paid for was drinks as I asked to meet her out after we first met but when a chick doesn't even offer to pay and just sits there...fvck that. Funny sh1t was she told me some guy at her office (she worked in NYC at an office) was in love with her and bought her an expensive purse but claimed she didn't like him yet took the purse anyway. I told her: "Well then give it back." and she half a$$ed 'agreed' with me. I knew the chick was a clown and immediately thought: "LMFAO. Does this chick think I'm going to say: Oh I'll buy you an even BETTER more EXPENSIVE purse!" I never mentioned anything but was thinking this chick is a moron. I'd seen her a few months ago again at my job with her mom, made small talk and she said: "Oh ok. Bye I guess I'll see you around?" I said: "yea. I have your number." and laughed my a$$ off to myself and never bothered calling her.

Another hispanic chick I met there gave me her number, added me to Flakebook,looked at her's quick and saw loads of Ghetto talk from her on it. Needless to say I never bothered calling. I think she's embarrassed as I used to see her there all the time yet haven't seen her anymore. Hahahaha. Same chick who her and her friend kept asking if I was married and why wasn't I married. She probably thinks I'm married is why I never called her. Couldn't be bothered as to why I really never called.

Yet another chick I got along with great, talked all the time, looked into my eyes, always flirty, asked personal questions a lot and used to come in with her mom. GORGEOUS chick. Always wanted me to help her. She had a boyfriend and at the time I had a girlfriend. I always had a feeling she kindof liked me as she always asked if I was there, a mutual friend had told me she'd asked about me at a party etc. Got her number but never called as we both were taken. She was on my Flakebook and I had noticed we we're both born on the same day though never mentioned it. The downhill part was when I later became single and a few times talking to her in person she came off a bit 'princess' like with the tude. Didn't care but slowly started to turn me off. The I noticed her and her friends much later on talking about her going on a date with some famous dude and 'it could only be her to pull that off' on Flakebook. (Hey I stalkerfaced the chick a few times when I became single. Sue me.) A few months later she's 'auditioning to be an actress' and has a video of it out. LMAO. Needless to say I wasn't surprised in the least.

 

[JohnChops]

How many of you have talked to a chick..not dated..just talked and gotten to know one another socially and though the chick is hot the more she talks the less attractive she becomes.

IE: Everytime you mention things you've done through the course of the week etc. She mentions how she got trashed with her friends this time, a few times before and her looks while they may still stay the same..her value starts to plummet like a rock as well as any interest you may have had in her.

Yeah this has happened so many times I lost count. Once they go about telling me that they don't care about school, get trashed, etc I say see Yah. I'm a biochem major and am into intellegent chicks, they seem impossible to find though -__-

 

[Nexus Polaris]

Kind of going through that now. There's one girl who I'm very physically attracted to, but when she talks, she's got more of a masculine vibe and she speaks with guy slang. It's a major boner killer. She's totally feminine until she opens her mouth. Then it's like hanging out with a frat boy. I can't handle girls calling me dude and bro when they're flirting with me.

 

[MisterD]

Happens all the time. Absolutely terrible.

I would think the girls I meet in school would be capable of having deep, meaningful conversations from time to time, since we're in college. They can't.

If it's not about drinking, facebook, or reality shows, these chicks don't want to hear about it.

Limited real world experience, no interests or passions to speak of, no interesting lives. It's drink and party on the weekends and then post pictures of it on facebook throughout the week.

From a conversational standpoint, I get very little stimulation from them.

I've accepted it, more or less, and try to limit our conversations to flirty stuff. If I want to have serious, thought invoking conversations, I'll talk to one of my bros.

 

[Wilko]

I struggle with it, it's a boner-killer. My lay count keeps going down each year as I become less and less inclined to compromise on it. But when I do, I'm "rewarded" with mind-numbingly average sex to compliment the banal conversation. Awesome. Can't wait to do that again.

Whereas I know there are some very smart at guys on this board who have no problem with it, they just plow on unaffected, cough - Zarky - cough.

Anyway, it is what it is, I know what to expect when I make those choices.

Did I have another point? Oh yeah, strippers. I went to a club for the first time in about four years the other month and the glorious t!ts and @ss were very nearly ruined by the incessant stream of scripted "pleasantries" I had to endure every ten minutes from the girls working the floor. Someone needs to teach these girls about situational openers - just saying, if I was a working girl (honey you know I look good, you just jealous), that would be my schtick. How about you show me some of that college education I'm supposedly paying for?

 

[Wilko]

I kept thinking of this for some reason, it's my favourite lame science joke ever, they don't come any simpler or smarter than this.

Bartender says, "Sorry, we don't serve faster than light particles in this here bar".........A neutrino walks into a bar.

Mostly I just wanted to post that joke. On the other hand, I'd actually like to meet the girl who gets it enough if only to groan at it.

 

[Burroughs]

Why the fvck should any hottie hb 8 or above bother to know anything or be interesting?

She can just give up the bloojobs and anal, marry the richest dotcom IPO guy or doctor she can, bang other dudes on the side, divorce the husband and then take the house and half his money for 20 years to come.

...now tell me who the dumb one is

 

[SoSuave666]

My lay count keeps going down each year as I become less and less inclined to compromise on it. But when I do, I'm "rewarded" with mind-numbingly average sex to compliment the banal conversation. Awesome. Can't wait to do that again.

My lay count hasn't really faltered, I'm still all about banging dumb chicks. BUT, it is becoming increasingly more apparent that entitlement issues of women have carried over into the bedroom as well. It's like they don't have to work in at secks either, they just expect the dude to do everything.

It gets to a point where I start asking myself: "Really? This is why I gamed you all night?"

For the OP: I wish all women were mute. I find about 1% of women actually interesting, and even in that 1% all I really care about is how quickly they can get me off so I don't have to be around them anymore.

 

[Single4Life]

This thread is very similar to the one I created 1 day before...

http://sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=195858

The previous thread I made in june, I remember it also spawned a thread about a day after mine, with the same topic. Odd.

 

[Naughty Ninja]

I struggle with it, it's a boner-killer. My lay count keeps going down each year as I become less and less inclined to compromise on it. But when I do, I'm "rewarded" with mind-numbingly average sex to compliment the banal conversation. Awesome. Can't wait to do that again.

Whereas I know there are some very smart at guys on this board who have no problem with it, they just plow on unaffected, cough - Zarky - cough.

Anyway, it is what it is, I know what to expect when I make those choices.

I hear you dude. I still talk normally to them but all that sh1t registers and is kept on file in my mind and I don't try to 'convince' myself otherwise about them because they may be 'hot'. I just think to myself: "Good luck to whoever ends up with that one".

 

[Naughty Ninja]

just last night I was over at some chick's house banging her and after we were done we're lying on the bed and she wouldn't stop yappin' about god knows what.. she kept going on and on and i thought about this thread lol

I had to pretend to listen to her for half an hour then i told her i had to go home cuz it was getting late and i made something up about having to be up early etc

As i meet/bang more women i find i'm getting increasingly less tolerant of the drivel that comes out of their mouth, and i'm finding it harder and harder to pretend i'm interested in what they have to say.. any pointers on how to deal with this effectively and still be able to keep having sex with them would be much appreciated

Whatever dumb sh1t she says...turn it around into something sexual. You'll either laugh your a$$ off and she will too or you won't care and fvck her even harder for being a hampster brain.

 

[ArcBound]

Dated a girl whose hobby was watching Keeping up with the Kardashians...

 

[Naughty Ninja]

Dated a girl whose hobby was watching Keeping up with the Kardashians...

LMAO. A chick I was talking to was trying to explain to me about going to some desperate mob house wives of the Jersey shore or some sh1t like that (I just mashed the shows together) bar in Staten Island. I laughed and told her I don't watch T.V.

Though my only thought was: My c0ck just died...can I bury it in your vagina? Hahahaha

 

[floydb25]

The best conversations I had were with unattractive women. Politics and all. Hot women are just trash in the personality department. I can't deal with their stupidity anymore, and get turned off immediately. As soon as I hear that ditsy, whiney, immature, shallow, unintelligent, gossipy, drama-obsessed, ****-like, speed-talking voice - I'm gone. Don't care what they look like.

There's some decent girls that are attractive / cute. Still some ****s and retards in the pack, but not nearly as bad overall. Gotta go for the real women - not fake *****es. Most hot girls are fake and stupid. Unavoidable, with their lifestyle, environment, and mindset.

 

[5string]

Don't mean to derail but I have a funny story. Mrs.5string got me on this bigtime.

I'm sitting there watching the news and she's all in my ear like she always is yapping and chirping about some mundane meaningless sh!t when I just gave her that "look" which meant, STFU! She walks away and says "you want a puzzy, you just don't want a puzzy with a mouth attached to it."

I just said, "ok, I'm busted."

 

[cablecow15]

Constantly... Especially now that I no longer become infatuated, have my head up in the clouds, and pay attention to EVERYTHING. Lust blinds you. Wearing your heart on a sleeve is the worst thing you can do.

This is something I picked up on during my heart-broken stages. It was like, why do I hate everything about all these girls now that I'm NOT pursuing them, giving my heart out, etc - when they're no different than the other ho's I dated? Or, when I'm not attracted to someone. It's because I was infatuated, rushed in heart first, and didn't give a ****. Only to find out that I hated everything about them, but was too attached to let go. Big mistake.

Most people aren't that great in general. You only think a certain woman is perfect because you have a crush on her, and she's hot. That's it. Its a fantasy you build in your head - based on her looks. The angel turns out to be quite the demon. Only, she always was.

Now that I look back, and think of the things they said - I'm disappointed in myself for ever getting involved with complete ****ing retards. I even sympathized with, and tried to save them. Gah! I want to punch myself sometimes. :box:

I can't even begin to tell you the kind of idiotic, shallow **** they said. They had no depth, no personality, no character, no sense of humor, no nothing. Just garbage ass people. And they had the nerve to ask why people don't take them seriously, beat their asses, use them for sex, defriend them, etc. Nobody likes a loser, retard, liar, manipulator, etc. But there was me, Captain Save A Ho, viewing them as afraid and misunderstood; only pretending to be worthless and shallow and stupid and slutty and **** **** *****.

So yea... Definitely.

Dang dude , reading this is like a window into my past , you never realize how many flaws someone has until you get over them. Im embarrassed , but im also glad i experienced it myself , because Ill have to get amnesia before i let it happen again

 

[EastWind]

I kept thinking of this for some reason, it's my favourite lame science joke ever, they don't come any simpler or smarter than this.

Bartender says, "Sorry, we don't serve faster than light particles in this here bar".........A neutrino walks into a bar.

Mostly I just wanted to post that joke. On the other hand, I'd actually like to meet the girl who gets it enough if only to groan at it.

"A helium atom walks into a bar and the barkeeper says, 'I'm sorry, we don't serve noble gases in this bar.' The helium atom doesn't react."