The more self confidence a women has, the lower her value

[King Lion]

Is this a joke?

The title of this thread is a nuanced oxymoron!

It only makes sense that females who are self confident and fulfilled as a result of that confidence are high value!

 

[B80]

So one of the endearing qualities I found with my wife is that she called herself 'so-so' or 'ugly' in reference to her looks when I first met her... She clearly wasn't but she never thought of herself as anything great. I found she was really down to earth because of it and I immediately felt comfortable in her presence. Chicks who think they're hot are a pain in the ass whereas girls who got beat by the ugly stick try harder and I feel have better personalities. Hot girls are coddled by society, pedestalized, and treated better in general. They're always covered in makeup or fake nails and are obsessed with themselves. Look at Korean girls, most of them can't wait to get their first surgery and they never stop at one. I find that guys fall all over themselves to be around a hot chick, even a plastic one, while the ugly chicks takes a back seat and has to really try hard to win a man's affection. I much prefer the ugly girl mentality.

The trick is to make a girl believe she's ugly, I think that's what the purpose of negging is, was it not?
It's like the Elephant who grows up chained to a pole. If you take the pole away as an adult, the Elephant will still remain in the area because that's all they've ever known.

Last para Ties in with women remain more invested if there's a degree of anxiety. It's how you do it without being an arsehole. Im not saying I give empty compliments left, right and centre, but destroying someone's self worth doesn't sit right either. That's where the skill lies.

 

[B80]

its not so much self confidence its false confidence from false environments like social media

its endemic in modern society and its getting worse not better

pre 2005 some women would have realised their power over men and the game but probably only HB 8's & 9's + , and even then a large proportion wouldn't have understood the extent of it until social media and the simp thirst came along

this changed everything now even HB 6's and 7's and below have had incredible ego inflation

the "like" could end up being the worst thing for humanity since Hitler

i have been re-reading neil strauss book i think was published around 2005 and im thinking although some of the basic principles of attraction still work the execution has become nigh on impossible you could never get away with some of the **** him and mystery were up too in clubs back then

we need someone to rewrite a 2021 version of "rules of the game"

i would but i am only just scrapping by myself atm ......need a year or two back in the field lol anyone want to contribute drop me a message lol

Yeah it's been proven how the 'like' kind of features cause dopamine spikes. People gravitate towards chasing more and more likes to keep getting the hits. Life can end iup revolving around getting approval of others on social media platforms.