The more average girls go cold

dillin

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I've really been improving myself for the past year or so and I now I have come to the point where I feel totally comfortable in situations with girls and I just have a good feeling about myself. I have no problems meeting women, it just happens naturally really. I don't really go out thinking "omg I need a girlfriend I gotta talk to this girl she is the only one!" and once I lost that thinking everything just happens without me trying but theres one thing I have been wondering about.

Lately when I go out somewhere it seems like the girls in the 7 and under range in looks go TOTALLY cold on me, rarely even make eye contact with me for any amount of time but when I'm out somewhere and theres a really good looing girl things just happen like it's nothing, I can be at a party and it just "happens" with her. The HB8+ girls are always totally cool and open with me, much more relaxed and very open to my advances.

I was just wondering if any of you have dealt with this because it's not like I'm only attracted the the HB8+ girls, I don't mind the average looking ones at all they just go cold when I'm out anywhere, it's like I don't even exist.
 

JJMcLure

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Yeah. They are intimidated, they think you're out of their league.

Techniques like neg hits, massive C+F or just having your game/mack on at 95% blows them away and they turn to quivering lumps of jello. You can easily overqualify yourself with these girls.

Like a rabbit in the headlights.

You need to take the lead - approach them, put them at ease. Give them permission to enter your world.
 

smooth666

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JJMcLure is right: you are already beyond them,you initmidate them.
It happens to me often. Do not hesitate to hit on them anyway.They often will open up eventually ;)
 

dillin

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What do you guys think about changing from more "casual" regular clothes to the more expensive big name designer clothes? Something I noticed is the more regular good looking girls tend to ignore me alot more since I changed clothing aswell compared to before. Do you think clothing can really affect what girls you get?

BTW I agree with what you guys said above.
 

jseib

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Just about anything you do differently should change what kind of girl finds you appealing... Some girls love a guy with a hat others don't.. etc I don't see why that wouldnt apply to a certain style of clothes.. However if you think woman aren't as appealed to your current style maybe you should ask yourself if what your wearing is really "you" or if its something you picked out from a fashion mag... The clothes don't always make the man espically if the air your projecting isn't the "real" you
 
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