The Moment You've All Been Waiting For, I Dumped My Gf.

[DasaniWater]

yes i dumped her, after a fukin year of posting here and always complaining and you guys always telling me the same thing, well i finally dumped her. heres the reason.


Okay im not going to make it long. a night ago i called her 30 times, twice in the morning, and again at 7 pm when she finally called me back. we fought, she hung up on me. later on shes on myspace, she didnt send mea message or nothing. i tell her to call me tonite, she doesnt.

this morning she calls me but im asleep and i didnt pick up. she calls me today at 4 pm, and tells me how shes going with her friends to home coming (OK THIS FCKIN PISSED ME OFF, she said we were going together, but her going as a friend to home coming = her dancing and meeting other guys which is why shes going alone now, well i thought about how she was actually doing what she wanted to last year but said she didnt mean it, which was taking a break for this year and letting her experience new guys etc.) but i didnt take that into account for dumping her.

her actions for loving me has been sht lately.

so shes going with her friends now cus she says its my fault, i tell her its over. and we all know why she wants to go to dance by herself.

the end


and another thing, she called me 20 minutes later, telling me she still wants to give me her anniversary present she made for me and she tells me she worked really hard on. i tell her no thanks , and she can throw it away. and she says she worked hard on it and she at least wants to mail it to me. and i tell her that we're done, it doesnt matter anymore. then she asks how i can just dump her so easily when i said i loved her, and i told her that shes been fcked up with me lately and i told her my feelings arent getting away this time and im doing whats right, and she doesnt make me happy. and she tells me if my friends are going to make me happy and i say yes they are. and she just hangs up on me....



ok im going to give her 4 days of silent treatment. if by next week i see on her myspace that shes with another guy.

do i desrve this because i dumped her, and never called her back, or if she did this does that just mean she never loved or cared for me? or would i be fcking myself over. let me know..

 

[Scorched]

move on man, move on!
she's still in high school, too much drama, work on you and go be a Don Juan!

 

[DasaniWater]

I know. maybe im just very insecure. but anyways I love her.

but this is her first year at her new high school. ive had this feeling like she doesnt want to be seen with me there.

now i find out she doesnt want to go with me anymore cus shes going with friends.?

this makes me feel as if she wants to dance and meet other guys.

fcking whoer :'(

 

[itishe]

If you feel better now then it was all worth it, was it not?

 

[MetalFortress]

It's no longer your business whether she's with another guy or not. YOU ARE NOT DATING HER ANYMORE.

 

[KillaCam]

Metal is right. You two are finished, what she does is none of your business. Vice-versa applies also, what you do is nothing to her. She can go screw whoever you want, and so should you.

They don't call them break-ups for nothing

 

[Scorched]

Danni, dude, please go watch porn and go to bed...
She's playing you... She owns you man...
Tomorrow night go out with your friends... Find a rebound...
You can't get this girl back with your AFC behavior...
Maybe when you guys are older you can get back together.............

 

[dynamicallyidle]

yes i dumped her, after a fukin year of posting here and always complaining and you guys always telling me the same thing, well i finally dumped her. heres the reason.


Okay im not going to make it long. a night ago i called her 30 times, twice in the morning, and again at 7 pm when she finally called me back. we fought, she hung up on me. later on shes on myspace, she didnt send mea message or nothing. i tell her to call me tonite, she doesnt.

this morning she calls me but im asleep and i didnt pick up. she calls me today at 4 pm, and tells me how shes going with her friends to home coming (OK THIS FCKIN PISSED ME OFF, she said we were going together, but her going as a friend to home coming = her dancing and meeting other guys which is why shes going alone now, well i thought about how she was actually doing what she wanted to last year but said she didnt mean it, which was taking a break for this year and letting her experience new guys etc.) but i didnt take that into account for dumping her.

her actions for loving me has been sht lately.

so shes going with her friends now cus she says its my fault, i tell her its over. and we all know why she wants to go to dance by herself.

the end


and another thing, she called me 20 minutes later, telling me she still wants to give me her anniversary present she made for me and she tells me she worked really hard on. i tell her no thanks , and she can throw it away. and she says she worked hard on it and she at least wants to mail it to me. and i tell her that we're done, it doesnt matter anymore. then she asks how i can just dump her so easily when i said i loved her, and i told her that shes been fcked up with me lately and i told her my feelings arent getting away this time and im doing whats right, and she doesnt make me happy. and she tells me if my friends are going to make me happy and i say yes they are. and she just hangs up on me....



ok im going to give her 4 days of silent treatment. if by next week i see on her myspace that shes with another guy.

do i desrve this because i dumped her, and never called her back, or if she did this does that just mean she never loved or cared for me? or would i be fcking myself over. let me know..

Yo...respect.

Way to finally have respect FOR YOURSELF. At this point, don't even think about the level of respect you give your gf. She deserves none. Stay strong.

 

[sexy_kuta]

GUY you just took a step ahead.. WHY THE FUK WOULD U TAKE A STEP BACK AND GO BACK WITH HER>> dont think like that bro!

you just made a new step forward for your life.. now move on.. take another step and meet more girls... if u talk to her.. ur influcing yourself to take astep back and waste this whole time... cut her off.. your done with her.. enough

 

[Eccentric]

Dasani, who the **** cares about her MySpace. Go on your page and delete her. Make your profile private. Don't delete her, and bookmark it so you can secretly check on her either.

We've all been there. Chances are if she is seeing someone, she will move him into the #1 slot, and put in a relationship just to bust your balls. Delete her SN, and phone # as well. Don't take any of her calls if she calls your house. Dont check up on her, you'll only make yourself crazy.

Completely cut her off. It going to be rough on you. You have to fight the temptation. You seem like you dont take **** from others on this board. So why take her ****? Because she's a girl who ****s you? Good for you putting your foot down.

If you see her with another guy, dont loose your cool. Laugh it off, like oh man what did he get himself into. Instead, think of yourself as a free agent on the market. Keep your options open, and choose the best fitting girl.

 

[Cableguy]

Dasani, who the **** cares about her MySpace. Go on your page and delete her. Make your profile private. Don't delete her, and bookmark it so you can secretly check on her either.

We've all been there. Chances are if she is seeing someone, she will move him into the #1 slot, and put in a relationship just to bust your balls. Delete her SN, and phone # as well. Don't take any of her calls if she calls your house. Dont check up on her, you'll only make yourself crazy.

Completely cut her off. It going to be rough on you. You have to fight the temptation. You seem like you dont take **** from others on this board. So why take her ****? Because she's a girl who ****s you? Good for you putting your foot down.

If you see her with another guy, dont loose your cool. Laugh it off, like oh man what did he get himself into. Instead, think of yourself as a free agent on the market. Keep your options open, and choose the best fitting girl.

Eccentric is a wise man. This is exactly how you move on. Dasani, we've all been in your shoes and it sucks. BUT, you have to draw the line somewhere. She owned you big time and instead of dragging it out follow Eccentric's advice and get the steppin. Hit the gym, climb a mountain, get busy doing something constructive. The worst thing you can do is chase after a cvnt who has ZERO respect for you.

 

[KarmaSutra]

Dear Dasani,

I'm writing this to you because I feel our relationship is over. I've tried to let you know repeatedly that, well, I need more. I need a man who doesn't stalk me on MySpace and doesn't need to hear my voice every click of the second hand. I need a man who is 1. Really black. 2. Is confident and can stand up and take a piss without my permission. 3. Can wear his lid the correct way.
4. Doesn't need to keep using my tampons.

Oh, and one other thing. The 8 hours you spent on my photoshop gift I , um, kinda re-touched it up with photoshop and sent it back to you. It's me and my first *******. Don't you just adore how my face looks like a Krispy Kreme donut!

I'll always love you but I'll never be in love with you.

Have a great life and stop crying.

"C" word.


:rock: :crackup:

 

[shiningshadow]

There are some really great pieces of advice in this topic. Keep in mind that you MUST NOT go back to her. Delete her s/n, delete her myspace, dont answer her phone number, don't respond to text messages, and for the love of god, find a way to stop thinking about her. Do something constructive. Study. Workout. Avoid any boring periods where you're just thinking about her. This may be one of the smartest moves you'll make, it just might take a while to realise that. Respect yourself and stay strong.

 

[CORVETTE06]

jeeze give the girl a break. don't be so fvcking possessive of her. let her go and have a fun time. u dont have to be with her 24/7, she wants to go with her friends too.... its too late for you now, they already know u are insecure and are possessive. u have to be cool from the start and let her do what she wants. YOU cant STOP her from cheating, she will do it NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO. trust her from the beginning, and everything will be fine.

i made the same mistake as you. now i just date girls and i dont care what they do, and im getting tons of girls now. when i get another gf (which i dont want rite now) im not going to be possessive. im going to let her go out with her friends and not give a fvck if she talks to guys. as long as she aint fvcking them then idc.

 

[Call_Me_Daddy]

Yeah!!
That is a good move in the right direction.


Now its time to make sure that from now on you won't be so desperate and ****ed in the head. Have you listened to the Tom Leykis show like I told you? Did you get any of my PMs?

 

[Call_Me_Daddy]

And one more thing: Why would she treat you like crap if she truly loved you? WHY?

You were so into her. You took her places, you bought her stuff with MONEY. MONEY that you worked your ass off to gather. And you made her things and treated her well. You loved her. You showed it. Because it was there.

Did she show you any love? Did she do anything special for you? Did she? Did she show you that she cared for you?

No.

People who care don't do that kind of crap. They don't stand you up. They don't ignore you. And they do not take advantage of your good fatih. And not only that but they enjoy the time spent around you, and want to spend even more time around you. Was your girl sad when you broke up with her? Did she appologize for her behaviour? Did she cry? Did she shed tears when you told her that she would never see you again?

Your girl never did any of that because she saw you as an ATM. She did not have ANY feelings for you.

If she cared, she would have shown it. If she loved you, she would have shown it. If she respeced you, she would have shown it.

She didn't.



Let go of that golddigging *****. You're only going to be under more stress, more depression and more unhappiness if you keep pursuing her. And for what? You did right by dumping her ass. Now move on.

 

[DasaniWater]

guys im sorry

gd damnit.. well i guess im done here. u guys will prolly never help me again. but i got back together with her.... we are better than ever. well i told her i sold the laptop. and she says she wants to screw me all next week when her parents go out of town, and she also said on her home coming shes not going shes going to go for 5 minutes and then come screw me at my house..

she also made me realize her reasonings.. she said it was because i never trusted her and i was treating her like crap, and she told me the reason why she ignored me when i went to see her was because before i went i told her i never wanted to see her ass again (and i went there to suprise her) . i guess i did it wrong.. but she told me some guy went up to her and told her she was cute i hope its the only guy and she siad to him tjhat she was married she told me she tells everyone that shes married. she told me she didnt want me to go to the dance with her cus i told her i joined the gym and that made her made i guess. but she still wanted to go alone cus i still go to the gym but she tells me shes onkly going just to make her parents think shes going and then shes going to my house...

she told me when i left her she completely failed her dance test which they were picking people out for parts and she ruined it cus her head wasnt straight cus she was crying all day and that made me apoligize for what i did..

but do u guys think idid the right thing.. please dont be mad..

 

[KarmaSutra]

You're full of sh!t.

You're fvcking whitebread trash with no self worth. Go piss in your fvcking ricebowl c0cksucker.

I hope this is true, I truly do, so this can be a testament of blubbering idiocy.

 

[Cableguy]

Dear Dasani,

I'm writing this to you because I feel our relationship is over. I've tried to let you know repeatedly that, well, I need more. I need a man who doesn't stalk me on MySpace and doesn't need to hear my voice every click of the second hand. I need a man who is 1. Really black. 2. Is confident and can stand up and take a piss without my permission. 3. Can wear his lid the correct way.
4. Doesn't need to keep using my tampons.

Oh, and one other thing. The 8 hours you spent on my photoshop gift I , um, kinda re-touched it up with photoshop and sent it back to you. It's me and my first *******. Don't you just adore how my face looks like a Krispy Kreme donut!

I'll always love you but I'll never be in love with you.

Have a great life and stop crying.

"C" word.


:rock: :crackup:

Thanks for making me spew my iced tea all over my monitor.:crackup:

 

[Bonhomme]

You didn't dump her, she dumped you. Long ago.

I wouldn't even want someone I'm crazy for to call me 30 times in a day. C-r-e-e-p-y ~~~~