The masterbation paradox

[georgie24]

Damn it

i can just lower my shorts and give myself instant gratification within minutes

the downside is, all the interactions with women today will not be as stimulating

How does one keep a balance:nervous: :woo:

 

[Fly By Night]

Your signature makes this thread funny. I just try to avoid fapping as much as possible, if you can't go a day or two without rubbing one then that's more of a self-control issue.

 

[omega05]

How bout minimizing fapping

 

[backseatjuan]

Dude it sounds so pathetic. Lulz

But I was in your shuez once. To stop jerking off completly you must have sex with women. You sure can limit it and it will get you some place further down the road, but I know it's hard. In fact I f'cked prostitutes and later through them got invited into a sex community. Great motivation is the fact that jerking off so much makes you an impotent, then only viagra and real sex can cure you.

Spanking makes you feel guilty in front of women but having sex gives you balls and makes you a man.

It's like domino effect, limit the hand, start f'cking, doors will open up.

 

[muscleman]

Yea, you just need to have sex. Also sometimes you can masturbate but not come. This way you still get the satisfaction of feeling good without the final release, which also helps you last longer when you are having sex. For me I need sex every 3-4 days or I can't hold it anymore and I get way too distracted from my activities, so if I'm only banging once a week I rub one out once as well. It's a slow process of elimination.

 

[Scars]

Agreed ^, once you start getting consistent pvssy you rarely ever think/remember to masturbate.

-Scars

 

[corrector]

Damn it

i can just lower my shorts and give myself instant gratification within minutes

the downside is, all the interactions with women today will not be as stimulating

How does one keep a balance:nervous: :woo:

So your only concern to stop masturbation is to have the optimal quality of interaction with women, so you'll drop it by 20% efficiency and it would be like looking at a pirated version of a movie on the internet.

Then masturbate before you go to bed after you've finished interacting with women, duh! Everybody who replied to this retarded probably jerks off since they have too much time on their hands.

 

[perseverance]

Masturbation makes you impotent? That's a new one. :crackup:

 

[bcolon]

Well I know the main reason why I wanna stop masturbating is because it is just helping me want to stay away and not talk to girls because I can easily please myself rather than going out there in the wild and finding a female to actually cause me to have an orgasm in an actual sexual experience.

That's why I wanna stop. Every time I masturbate and watch porn in the process. It's just prolonging me from getting out there. And plus I'm still holding on to my v card. And I'm
25 years old :/

 

[JohnChops]

Masturbation makes you impotent? That's a new one. :crackup:

its a huge placebo effect , but I have to say it makes you really agressive. I went on a lifting binge for 30 + days no rest, and no ejaculation during that time . I felt like a fvcking monster.

Anyway, having sex is more fun than fvcking your hand. Its not that hard to get, women want it all the time so just go out and get it.

Plus if anything its the porn that messes you up in the head over a period of time.

 

[perseverance]

Masturbation only becomes a real menace if it interferes with your everyday life. Like if you're in work and quickly slip off the toilets to relieve yourself like my friend did at high school and left a great mess on the rim of the toilet seat, the dirty bugger.

You're right though, no amount of masturbation can feel as good as a woman on her knees fellating your penis, for sure!

Also as for porn, you need to view it in a small doses otherwise you might confuse reality with fantasy which is porn ultimately is. It's amazing the amount of men who try and perform sexual acts they have seen in porn on women who are not pornstars. I mean you if like making a woman suck your toes, more power to you, I can't say that bakes my cake.

 

[muscleman]

Constant masturbation has a negative long term effect. There are a couple articles and some studies if you google it, but basically if you watch porn and masturbate a lot you get a sort of mild addiction to it, making your actual sexual attraction/performance suffer.

Also the chemicals that rush into your brain after blowing it act as a sedative, so if you're constantly draining your balls it's like you're sedated. You'll feel less aggressive, lethargic, and kind of lazy.

THIS is the main reason why you shouldn't.

 

[Chamber36]

Seperate orgasm from ejaculation. Mantak Chia says u gotta jerk it twice a day but never blow the load. U lose 200 to 500 million sperm cells each time. That's what I try. Takes practice but last time I blew mine was an accident. In a ho. my goal is to *** in a woman without blowing it.

 

[MisterD]

Masturbation makes you impotent? That's a new one. :crackup:

Didn't you know? Masturbation is not simply just a way to release sexual frustration. It damages your brain, your confidence, your success with women, your penis, and your life overall. It's just about the worst thing you can do to your penis outside of cutting it clean off.

 

[perseverance]

Didn't you know? Masturbation is not simply just a way to release sexual frustration. It damages your brain, your confidence, your success with women, your penis, and your life overall. It's just about the worst thing you can do to your penis outside of cutting it clean off.

You sound like a Puritan.

 

[backseatjuan]

Masturbation makes you impotent? That's a new one. :crackup:

D'ck won't stand up with a girl if you squize twice a day for a long time. During jerking off orgasm comes from mental stimulation in your head, a fantasy. You get used to it, then with a girl it's different and d'ck goes limp.

 

[StepItUp]

D'ck won't stand up with a girl if you squize twice a day for a long time. During jerking off orgasm comes from mental stimulation in your head, a fantasy. You get used to it, then with a girl it's different and d'ck goes limp.

Most true thing I ever read. I feel like i can bust a nut faster off porn then with my gf.... Because when watching porn your mentally stimulating yourself and I also started doing that with my gf which is worrying.

 

[georgie24]

This plate im spinning is now giving me sex sex pretty much on my command, its just those moments of pure throbbing impulse that get annoying

Time to aquire more plates

 

[TonyBaloney]

There are good medical reasons as to why one SHOULD knock one out.

Prostate cancer factors; too much sitting around in your balls, gives the prostate problems over an extended period of time

 

[MisterD]

You sound like a Puritan.

Just doing my sarcastic best to sound like one of the people in the no fap challenge thread.