slitherjef
Senior Don Juan
Yeah, never thought I would resort to the self help books but I digress, I am starting to get quite the collection. Most recent addition is
The Manual: what women want and how to give it to them.
Just wondering if anyone here has read the book and what they though. Looks like part of it is on your inner game.
Looks like I have been going about thinks all wrong. Pretty much I thought girls chose YOU not the other way around. "Gee, chicks don't look at me, so I must be ugly or something" I thought. Or think, I am not good enough. I have to earn a girlfriend or sex or what not.
I often avoid eye contact because I guess I was afraid to let some one know I may be interested. Because eye contact meant I was checking someone out. I was hiding the fact that I am a goddamned man. Afraid of what people might think. Will women think I am creepy for looking at them? etcetera.
Still old habits die hard and I guess I am a victim of social conditioning (If thats even real) but reading some of this stuff so far has really rang a bell.
The Manual: what women want and how to give it to them.
Just wondering if anyone here has read the book and what they though. Looks like part of it is on your inner game.
Looks like I have been going about thinks all wrong. Pretty much I thought girls chose YOU not the other way around. "Gee, chicks don't look at me, so I must be ugly or something" I thought. Or think, I am not good enough. I have to earn a girlfriend or sex or what not.
I often avoid eye contact because I guess I was afraid to let some one know I may be interested. Because eye contact meant I was checking someone out. I was hiding the fact that I am a goddamned man. Afraid of what people might think. Will women think I am creepy for looking at them? etcetera.
Still old habits die hard and I guess I am a victim of social conditioning (If thats even real) but reading some of this stuff so far has really rang a bell.